Mhlawumbi, abaninzi banokuva ukuba ngobusuku akufanele ukhangele ngefestile, kuthiwa yinto embi. Inkolelo yokuba ungumntu okanye hayi, kodwa, mhlawumbi, nabani na oya kuba nomdla ukwazi isizathu sokuba akunakwenzeka ukwenza oku, yintoni eyoyikisayo inokwenzeka.
Kutheni ungakwazi ukujonga ngaphandle kwefestile ebusuku?
KwabaseRashiya abantu babenzulu kakhulu malunga nokuba awukwazi ukubheka kwiifestile ebusuku, abazali banqabile ukuba benze oko kubantwana babo. Kwakukholelwa ukuba kwakulo xesha lemihla apho yonke imimoya emibi ihlangene kufuphi nekhaya, ifuna ukungena ngaphakathi, kunye nefestile yefestile yinto ehamba ngayo, kwaye xa umntu ejonga efestile ebusuku, kuthetha ukuba uvumela imimoya emibi ukuba idlule kwindawo yakhe yokuhlala. Akuyimfuneko, mhlawumbi, ukuthetha malunga noko kwenzeka ntoni ukuba ezi zidalwa ezimbi zikwazi ukungena ngaphakathi kwendlu, ziyonakalisa ipropati (mhlawumbi into iya kuphalaza kungekudala, iya kuhlahloka), kunye nomntu ngokwakhe (bonke abahlali baya kuba neengxaki zempilo , kuya kubakho ukwehla okupheleleyo kumandla, ukunganakwa, imimoya emibi "inomdla" yonke imikhosi yobomi ukusuka kumntu).
Ukuba ufuna ukubheka rhoqo ewindoweni, lo mqondiso uthetha ukuba imimoya emibi kunye nemimoya emibi ikubiza, bacele ukuba bavumele ukuba bangene endlwini baze bangabi phantsi, ngoko kungcono ukuya ecaweni baze bafumane ukudibanisa kusasa.
Kwakhona, umntu akafanele akhangele iifestile kwinyanga epheleleyo, kuba ukukhanya okuvela kwinyanga kuthatha onke amandla kunye nemikhosi ebalulekileyo yomntu, kwaye kusasa uya kuziva 'ephukile' ngokupheleleyo.
Nangona kunjalo, akusoloko iimpawu ezinjalo zinenani elibi, umzekelo, ukuba ubheka kwiwindow ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa, oku kunokuthetha inhlanhla. Ukubona kwiholide yakho ngaphandle kwefestile indoda ithetha impilo enhle, intombazana eselula- uthando oluthandwayo , ukuba ubona inja, ngokukhawuleza udibana nomntu oza kuba ngumhlobo ozinikeleyo.