Ngelishwa, awona onke amaphupha ayamnandi kwaye ayavuya. Emva kweminye, sifika ngokugqithiseleyo sisuka embhedeni kwaye silinde ixesha elide ukukhumbula izikhumbuzo ezibuhlungu. Kule bali uya kuqonda ukuba kunjani ukubulala umntu.
Kutheni uphupha ukubulala?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuba ubonile ekubulaleni kwephupha kukuphawu olubi olubonisa ukudideka kunye nobukho bokuphikisana okubuhlungu okungekukuphumla.
Ukuba emva kwephupha ukhumbule kuphela into yokuba umntu wabulawa, kuthetha ukuba ubeka umngcipheko kwiimeko ezingathandekiyo xa ufuna inkxaso. Ukongezelela, kwindawo ethile kwindawo enzulu ye-subconscious yakho kukho imbambano enkulu. Ukuba ubona amaphupha anjalo ngokuqhelekileyo, ngoko kufuneka uqhagamshelane nengcali yeengqondo kwaye uzame ukusombulula iingxaki eziqokelelweyo uze uzivumele ukuba zihambe. Ukuba ubonile kwiphupha indlela obulala ngayo umntu, kwaye engazi apho ukufihla umzimba wakhe, oku kubonisa ukuba kukho umcimbi ongathandeki ozayo oya kushiya uphawu ebomini bakho ixesha elide.
Kutheni sifuna ukubulala intshaba?
Nangona kunjalo, kwezinye iimeko, ukujonga ekubulaleni kwephupha - uphawu, ngokuchaseneyo, luhle. Ngoko ke, ukuba utshaba intshaba, umculi okanye umntu ohlasela wena ukuzikhusela, kuthetha ukuba kufuneka ubonakalise ukuzimisela nokuqina komlingiswa: ngenxa yale miba, uyakwazi ukunqoba ngokukhawuleza ubunzima obuya kuhlangana nawe endleleni yakho.
Kutheni ufuna ukubulala ngokutsha?
Eli phupha libonakalisa ulwalamano lwakho lwangaphakathi, ukulwa kunye nawe kunye nehlabathi langaphandle. Ukuba ubulala intshaba-oku kubonisa ukuba impumelelo iya kukufumana ixabiso elikhulu. Ukuba uyazibulala ngeelazi ephupheni lakho, uya kuba nolonwabo. Olunye uhlobo oluthile lokuchazwa lubonisa ukuba kungekudala uza kuba nobunzima obunokufuneka unqobe.
Kutheni uphupha ukubulala umntwana?
Ukuba ephupheni uyabulala umntwana ongenakukhuseleka - oku kuwuphawu olubi, okufanekisela izithintelo ezinzima ebomini ezinokuchaphazela kakubi i-destiny yakho. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba bekuyintshaba yakho, umntwana onobudlova, ubuthongo bokulala ukhulula kwingozi.
Kwabafazi, iphupha elinjalo lithe lahleka. Ukuba umama uyakubona, oku kubonisa ukuba abantwana bakhe abananto yokukhathazeka kunye nokunyamekela; ukuba intombazana engenabantwana - ngoko ayikulungele ukukhulisa abantwana.
Ukunciphisa imiphumo yobuthongo obungathandekiyo, zama ukuhlawula ingqalelo kwiinkalo zobomi bakho, ukuxhasa izihlobo zakho, ukunyaniseka, ububele kunye nokuvuleka-esi sixhobo esona sikhulu kunxamnye nobunzima bomi.