Indlela yokujongana nomntwana okhuselekileyo uya kufundisa iingcali, kunye nabazali nabo bonke abakujikeleze umntwana, kufuneka banamathele kwisicwangciso esikhethiweyo. Ininzi iququzelela inkqubo yokufundisa, uhlobo lweememo kubazali bezingane ezingenasifo. Xa umntwana ekhulile, unokuqulunqwa naye.
Iingcebiso kubazali bezingane ezingabonakaliyo
- Kunokuba uhlale nomntwana osengozini? Le ngxaki ibaluleke kakhulu, kuba "umatshini wokunyakaza ongunaphakade kunye ne-jumper" ayinikeli abo bahamba naye ithuba loxolo. Kubantwana abanjalo, ukuhamba okude emoyeni kubalulekile, kodwa kungekhona nje ukuphatha kunye nomama. Ingane kufuneka ihambe, ihambe kwindawo yokudlala okanye epakini. Ekhaya, zonke iiklasi kufuneka zibe khona ngumntu omdala. Kuhle kakhulu, xa umntwana enekona lezemidlalo, apho angayilahla amandla akhe.
- Kuphi ukunika umntwana ongcolileyo? Kuyiphutha ukuthetha ukuba abantwana abanjalo banomdla kwimidlalo, kuba ngexesha loqeqesho olusebenzayo inkqubo yesantya yomntwana ihlupheke ngakumbi kwaye isangqa esichukumisayo siphuma. Bafanelekile ukubhukuda nokudansa , kodwa kungekhona kwinqanaba elinobuchule, kodwa ngokuzodwa.
- Indlela yokuphucula umntwana onokukhubazeka - iingcebiso kunye neengcebiso kunokuba luninzi. Okokuqala, akunakwenzeka ukuyeka umntwana olo. Kubalulekile ukuzama ukutshintshisa amandla ayo kwelinye ishaneli, ukulidlulisela kwimisebenzi esebenzayo ukuya kwelinye uxolo. Kwimeko nayiphi na, musa ukuvumela ukuhlwa ngokubukela iTV kunye nemidlalo yangaphandle. Ukuba umntwana akanakunomdla kwincwadi okanye umzobo, vumela imidlalo yakhe ibe nomntu ozolileyo kwaye abazali bachaphazelekayo ekulawuleni kwabo.
- Amageyimu abantwana abaswelekileyo. Yonke imidlalo yezingane ezinjalo kufuneka ifundise umntwana ukulawula ukuziphatha kwayo.
Iimidlalo zeqela leqela azifanelekanga, kuba zibandakanyeka kwinani elikhulu labantwana kwaye zide ziphendukela kuwo wonke umntu, ingqwalasela kunye nomonde womntwana uya kuphelelwa kamsinya kwaye le mdlalo ayiyi kuba nomdla kumntwana. Amaklasi kufuneka aqeqeshe imemori aze afundise umonde, khula ngokukhawuleza, kodwa unomdla kumntwana.
Iingcebiso kubazali abanomntwana okhuselekileyo baya kunika ngengqondo yengqondo yomntwana oya kufundisa indlela yokukhula, ukuhlakulela nokufundisa umntwana othethekileyo ukuze akwazi ukuzilimaza. Kwaye i-neurologist izakuyalela unyango wokulungisa, ngokuqhelekileyo lubandakanya ukuguquka kunye neminye imichiza.