Kuhlala kunzima ngamnye kuthi ukuba athathe inxaxheba nezinto ezithandekayo kuthi. Kodwa ukuba abanye abantu banelungelo lokuvuma ukuba bakhula kwimpahla yabo eyintandokazi, izinto zekhaya ziphuka kunye nefenitshala inempilo yeshefu, abanye bakulungele ukwazisa isantya esisodwa esivela kwiqela eliye lafunda ukukhwela okanye ukugcina izicathulo ezigqityiweyo kwiqrijini elidala kwiloglog !!
Into ebangel 'umdla kukuba abantu abavela kwicandelo lokuqala banako ukufumana izinto ezintsha kwaye banandipha ubomi, kodwa abameli becandelo lesibini, nangona u-frugality, alas, kufuneka ukuba bafumane iiphelo.
Kubonakala ngathi lixesha lokufumanisa-kutheni le nto yenzeka kwaye izizathu ezibalulekileyo zokuba kutheni ufuna ukulahla izinto ezindala kwaye ezingadingekile!
1. Umthetho wobuninzi: "Ukuze ufikelele entsha, kufuneka ulahlekelwe endala."
Imithetho yendalo yonke ayinakunqunyulwa, kwaye isebenza, nokuba uyayithanda okanye ayikho! Kwaye ngokomthetho wobuninzi, i-Universe (kakuhle, okanye Amandla Aphakamileyo) ayiboni nje indawo apho "ungathumela" into entsha, ngeli xesha kunamathuba amaninzi akudala!
Umzekeliso wesiTshayina - "Umdala akayi kuhamba, omtsha akayi kuza!"
Nantoni na into ongayithethayo, ifilosofi yaseMpuma ayizange iqhutywe ngokukhawuleza kwaye ibe nefuthe njengeYurophu, kwaye i-millennia yayixhomekeke ngobulumko bendoda. Ngaba ufuna ukunandipha ubomi, uxolo nokuvisisana? Ngoko, sithatha umzekeliso!
3. Ngokutsho kwe-feng shui, izinto ezindala zivimba ukuhamba kokukhululeka kwamandla okunika ubomi ka-Qi.
Isenzo sikaDaoist sokuphuhliswa kwesithuba (feng shui) sekude sizinzile njengomnye wezona zihamba phambili! Ngokwemfundiso yakhe, de uze uvumele ukujikeleza amandla angundoqo e-Qi, oko kukuthi, ungalahleki izinto ezingadingekile, udoti, udoti, akukho tshintsho oluhle ebomini okanye ukuthengwa kwezinto ezintsha kwaye akunako! Ukongezelela, izinto eziphukileyo okanye izinto ezinokusilela (zitywinwe, zihlanjwe, ziqhekeke) zisebenza njengemimpires - zithatha amandla akho amandla kwaye ziqinisa amandla angalunganga, ezichaphazela impilo yakho nentlalo.
4. I-"anchors" yeemeko zangaphambili
Xa sifumana isambatho esidala size sizame, sebenzisa i-perfume engasetyenziswanga iminyaka eyi-10, okanye ukuva ingoma, phantsi kwesi siganeko esibalulekileyo senzeke kanye, ngoko siba ngaphantsi kweempembelelo ze "anchors" ezedlulileyo okanye, ngokugqithiseleyo, sithunyelwa ngexesha elihambelana nabo iinkumbulo (akusoloko zilungile). Hayi, oonxibelelwano abanjalo abavelisi iimvakalelo kuphela, kodwa iingcinga ezindala. Kwaye ukuba sinikwe ukuba iingcamango zenze ubomi bethu, singakwazi ukubuyela apho siye saqala khona ...
5. Ukuziphatha kwabampofu
Ngokuqhelekileyo asikwazi ukuhlukana nezinto ezindala, siphikisa ukuba akukho mali entsha, kwaye asiyi kuba nako ukufumana enye into ezayo kusasa. Yaye uyazi ukuba kwenzekani kulo mzuzwana? Siqala ukuxubusha ngengqondo yabampofu (ukuba sibe ngongoma olinganayo wamandla) kwaye sifumane ubuhlwempu ngokubuyisela. Sizicwangcisa ngokwenene ukuba siswele ubuhlwempu! Ngexesha elifanayo, ukukhupha izinto eziphukileyo, ezindala okanye ezingadingekanga ngeengcamango "Ndiza kuthenga ngaphezulu okanye ihlabathi liza kundinceda ndikhethe kangcono", unokukhawuleza ukuxhamla kwisityebi kwaye uqale "ukusasaza" amandla okuchuma!
Naluphi na into, ihamba ngokwayo amandla angokwengqondo, eyayibeka le ndoda. Ukuba awuzange uyisebenzise iminyaka engaphezu kwembini, okanye ukuba ayiluncedo kuwe, "iyafa". Yaye yonke into ejikelezileyo kufuneka inika uvuyo, umnqweno wokuphila kwaye uqhubeke phambili. Ixesha lokutshintsha ubomi ngokubhetele kwaye "kucace" indawo yolonwabo nobuninzi!