Ukuphuhliswa kwentetho kubantwana basenkulisa kuyashesha. Kule minyaka, abantwana abafundile ukuvakalisa izandi, kodwa bakwenza okulungileyo, ngelixa bexeshanye bazalise isigama sabo. Kubalulekile ukuba abazali bancede umntwana wabo, ngenxa yale njongo yentetho ekhethekileyo yentetho kunye nokuzilolonga zisetyenziselwa ukukhulisa intetho nokuseka ukuthetha ngokuphefumula.
Kutheni ufuna ukuthetha ngokuphefumula?
Ngokuqhelekileyo unokuva indlela abafunda ngayo abantwana, ukuthetha amabinzana amade, balahleka phakathi, baqala ukuthetha ngokuvuya, okanye bawagqibe kwi-whisper ezwakalayo. Isizathu salokhu siphefumlelwe intetho yokuphefumula. Umntwana nje akanalo umoya owaneleyo ukugqiba ibinzana.
Ukuphefumula ukuthetha kubancedisa abantwana ukuba bangabonakali ngokucacileyo iibinzana, kodwa nokulawula ukuvakalisa izwi labo ngokuxhomekeka kwimeko.
Imidlalo yokuphucula intetho yokuphefumula
Imidlalo ekhuthaza ukubunjwa kokuphefumula okufanelekileyo, abazali kufuneka banqunywe ngexesha. Ngenxa yokuphefumula nokuphefumula, umntwana angase ahlaziyeke.
Umdlalo "iBantiki"
Ngokuba umdlalo uya kufuna iimpondo, umtya kunye nentambo. Omnye umgca womgca kufuneka uhlangane nomtya, kunye nomnye kwisaphetha. Ngaloo ndlela, iindonga eziliqela zenziwe kwitambo.
Umsebenzi
Umntwana ufuna ukuphefumula ngeempumlo, vuthela emaphethelweni. Ngomdla, unokwenza umzuzu wokukhuphisana uze uphawule eminqubeni nomntwana. Uya kuphumelela lowo umnquba wakhe uya kubhabha ngaphezu komdlali.
Ngokufanayo, unokuza kunye nemidlalo emininzi kwaye uphuphe iiflethi zephepha, iifleflethi zamaphetshana okanye uphulaphule ingxolo yamagqabi kwi-vase xa "umoya" uvuthela kuwo.
Iimidlalo ezidlalwayo kunye nokuhambelana kwezwi
Imidlalo yokuthetha kunye nokunyakaza ngokukhethekileyo iyakuthandwa ngabantu abadala. Ukugxininiswa okukuyo kukho ukuhamba, endleleni abantwana bongeza ngayo isigama kwaye bafunde ukunyanzeliswa kokuphela kwexesha.
Umdlalo "Ukuvuna"
Umdlalo ungcono ukuthatha inxaxheba kwiqela labantwana. Umbonisi ufunda le ndinyana, kunye nabantwana, ukuphinda imida emva kwakhe, ukwenza ukuhamba okuthile.
Kwintsimi esiya kuyo (abantwana bahamba ngesangqa),
Ukuvuna siya kuqokelela.
Siza kudonsa iidroti (zihlala phantsi zikhuphe i-karoti),
Iifatate ziyakubanjwa (abantwana bazenza ngathi bahlume)
Sika sihlabe iklabishi ("sinqunyulwe" iklabishi),
Ukujikeleza, ezinomsoco, ezinoncoko kakhulu (izandla zichaza isangqa kathathu).
I-Sorrel siza kuthiwa encinci (abantwana, behleli phantsi, "bhidliza" i-sorrel)
Kwaye siya kubuya endleleni (abantwana, bebamba izandla, baphinde bajikeleze).