Ngomntu ngamnye, ukuzithemba kuyimfuneko ebalulekileyo evumela umntu ukuba enze ngokuchanekileyo. Kwaye ebusheni, ixabiso lalo alikwazi ukuxhaswa! Ukuba ukuzithemba komntwana osemtsha kuyanele, ke amathuba akhe okuba yimpumelelo yokuphila. Kuthetha ntoni "okwaneleyo"? Xa umntwana ekwazi ukuvavanya amakhono akhe ngokucacileyo, uyaziqonda indawo ayithatha kwiqela kunye noluntu ngokubanzi. Akumangalisi ukuba kubazali, izinga lokuzivandlakanya kobuntu bomntwana osemtsha lidlala indima ebalulekileyo, kuba ukunyamekela ikamva layo ngumsebenzi oyintloko. Nangona kunjalo, akuyena wonke umntu oqonda kwaye uyaqonda indlela yokukhulisa unyana okanye intombi ukuze ukuzithemba kwanele.
Isikolo esiphakamileyo
Masibhale ngokukhawuleza, ukuba ukususela kwiintsuku zokuqala zobomi ukulinganisela komntwana ongenasiphelo! Kodwa ekukhuleni, inkwenkwe iyaqonda into ebaluleke kakhulu kubazali, kwaye ihlabathi lonke lidalwa kuye. Ngako oko kwakhiwa ukuzithemba ngokuzenzekelayo. Ngaphambi kweminyaka yobudala, isondela kwizinto ezaneleyo, kuba umntwana ubhekene neemeko zehlabathi ezizungezile: akayena umntwana kuphela ehlabathini, kwaye uyabathanda abanye abantwana. Kuphela esikolweni esikolweni esiphakathi kukho isidingo sokulungiswa kunye nokwakhiwa kokuzithemba kwabantwana abaselula, njengokuba kwezinye iyalithatha ngokoqobo, kwaye kwezinye ihla.
Ukususela ebuntwaneni, ukubunjwa kwento yokuzithembela komntwana kwathonywe ikakhulu ngabazali, ootitshala kwi-kindergarten, ootitshala. Esikolweni esikolweni esiphakathi, oontanga bafika phambili. Apha amanqaku asele asemgangathweni enendima ayidlalayo - kubafundi esikolweni kunye nabahlobo iimpawu zabo (ukukwazi ukuthetha, ukukhusela isikhundla, ukuba ngabahlobo, njl.) Zibaluleke kakhulu.
Ngeli xesha, abantu abadala kufuneka bancede umfana ukuba aphathe iminqweno, iimvakalelo, iimvakalelo, agxininise iimpawu ezintle kwaye alahlekise izinto ezimbi. Ukugxila kuphela ekusebenzeni kwezemfundo akuyiyo inketho. Esikolweni esikolweni esiphakathi, ukuzithemba kwe-adolescence kungaba yintlupheko, kwaye ubuqaqawuli bayo kukuba kukho umngcipheko wokugqithisa. Ngokuphathelele ukuzithemba ukuzithembela kweenkokheli zentsha kunye nokuphantsi kakhulu phakathi kokukhutshwa kwentsha. Bobabini ukhetho lokuqala nolwesibini luphawu lokuba amanyathelo okuphuthuma makanyathelwe. Abazali kufuneka:
- uncedo nenkxaso;
- themba;
- lungisa;
- Ukuhlonipha;
- ukungabikho kolawulo olupheleleyo;
- inomdla kwizinto ezithandwayo zentombazana.
Isikolo esiphakamileyo
Akukho mfihlelo yokuba izinga lokuzikhusela nokuzithemba komfundi wesikolo esiphakamileyo se-adolescents isiphumo sobudlelwane kunye noontanga. Ukuba umntwana uyinkokheli ngendalo okanye ukukhutshwa, akufuneki ukuba kulindeleke ukuba umntwana akwazi ukuzithemba ngokwaneleyo. Izilwanyana zeklasi zingajika iimpazamo zabo kunye nokungafani kwiziqhamo, ukubeka umzekelo kwabanye. Oku kuphakamisa kwiindawo eziphakamileyo, kwaye ngokwenene, kungekudala okanye emva kwexesha angeke kugwenywe! Ngaphambi kokuba intsha ixelelwe ukuba ukugxeka okungekho nto kuya kumlimaza. Abazali bafanele baqonde ukuba indumiso engafanelekanga yindlela ecacileyo yokunyaniseka.
Kwimeko yokuzihlamba okuphantsi, okwakhiwa kwintsholongwane engaphantsi kwempembelelo yentsapho, i-classmates, intsingiselo engathandekiyo, ukuzigxeka ngokweqile, ukunganeliseki ngokwakho, izinto ziyinkimbinkimbi. Ngelishwa, ngaba ngabantwana abahlala becinga ngokushiya ekhaya baze bazibulale . Intombazana idinga ukunakwa, uthando, intlonipho. Nangona ufanele ukugxekwa, kufuneka ubaleke kuyo. Kodwa kuzo zonke iimpawu ezilungileyo kunye nezenzo, kubalulekile ukugxininisa ukuba umntwana osemva uyaqonda ukuba ufanelwe udumo nenhlonipho.
Ukufundisa umntu onokuzithemba akulula, kodwa abazali abanothando banokukwenza konke!