Ulwaphulo lwengqondo ngumntu okwazi ukuqonda iimvakalelo zakhe neemvakalelo zakhe. Iingcali zengqondo azikho enye iyakwamkela ingcaciso yegama elithi "ingqondo engqondweni". Oososayensi banamhlanje bakholelwa ukuba iimvakalelo zixhobo esimele sifunde ukuyisebenzisa. Abantu abanengqondo-bulumko bayazi indlela yokuzijonga ngayo nayiphi na imeko kwaye bavelise kakuhle ubudlelwane nabanye. Ukukwazi ukuqonda nokulawula iimvakalelo kaninzi kuxhomekeke kwimpumelelo emsebenzini nakubomi bomntu. Njengoko uphando kwiinkalo zobulumko bobuchopho bubonise, ukucacisa ngakumbi kunye nokuvelela iimvakalelo zabantu.
Iingcali zeengqondo zaseMerika uP. P. Salovei kunye noJe. Meier bacebisa ukuba baqwalasele ingqiqo yeengqondo njengenxalenye yolwazi lwezentlalo. Ngokombono wabo, ezi zimbini zibambe. Zijoliswe ngokufanayo kwiindawo zentlalo kunye nezomntu. Kodwa bahluke ekubeni ulwaphulo-zentlalo lujolise ekuqondeni iziganeko zentlalo, kunye nemvakalelo-ukuqonda iimvakalelo zabo kunye neemvakalelo zabanye. Isakhiwo sengqondo esicetywayo nguSalovay singolu hlobo:
- ukuqaphela nokubonakalisa iimvakalelo;
- lawula;
- Ukusetyenziswa kolwazi olufumeneyo lwengqondo ekucingeni nasekusebenzeni.
Lo ngumzekelo wokuqala kunye owaziwayo kakhulu weengqondo zengqondo kwizengqondo zenzululwazi.
Njengoko sibona, ukukwazi ukuqonda iimvakalelo kuyimfuneko ebalulekileyo ekuphuhlisweni kwengqondo engqondweni.
Izindlela zokufumanisa ukuqonda kwengqondo
Indlela ephambili yokuxilonga ihlola. Kuye kwenziwa iimvavanyo eziliqela kwisakhelo sokuqeqesha kunye neeprogram ukuphuhlisa ingqondo engqondweni. Iziphumo zovavanyo zinikezelwa kwezi zilandelayo:
- ukuziphatha;
- u khuthazo;
- ulwazi;
- ukungena emzimbeni;
- ukubonakalisa iimvakalelo;
- intuition yentlalo kunye novelwano.
I-Institute of RAS Institute of Psychology iye yavelisa indlela eyahlukileyo yokuxilongwa. Kuye kwadalwa i-questionnaire ehambelana nokuhlula kobunzima bobuchopho kumntu ongeyomntu kunye noluntu. Njengomphumo wokuvavanya, umntu angakwazi ukufunda ngamakhono akhe ukutolika zabo neemvakalelo zabanye.
Indlela yokuphuhlisa ingqondo engqondweni?
Ukuze kuphuhliswe ingqiqo yakho yeemvakalelo kubalulekile ukuhlakulela ukuqonda nokuzilawula ukuzisebenzisa.
- Ukuzijonga kakuhle kukunika ithuba lokuba uqonde kakuhle iimvakalelo zakho, uziqonde, ziqonde izizathu zokuvela kwazo. Abantu abazazi kakuhle iimvakalelo zabo, ngokuqhelekileyo baba yienkokeli, kuba banako ukuzithemba zabo iimvakalelo kwaye benze izigqibo ezinzima.
- Ukuzilawula ngokuzimeleyo kuyinkalo yesibini yokhiye wengqondo. Kuya kufundisa ukuzilawula nakweyiphi na imeko, uncede ukugcina ukulinganisela ngokomzwelo, ukuze ukwesaba, umsindo okanye ukukhathazeka kungaphazamisi ngokucacileyo ukucinga kwaye ungakuvumeli ukuba ungene kwi-stupor.
- Ukongezelela, kubalulekile ukuphuhlisa intlalo
ubuchule. Isekelwe kwimimiselo yoluntu kunye nolawulo lwalamano. - Ubungcali bezentlalo kukukwazi ukuqonda abanye, ukukwazi ukuzibeka kwindawo yomntu ukuqonda iingcamango neemvakalelo zabanye abantu. Intlalo yoluntu ithetha ukukwazi ukubona kunye nokwanelisa iimfuno zabantu abakujikelezile.
- Ulwalamano lolwalamano lukuvumela ukuba uqhagamshelane noonxibelelwano nabanye abantu.
Zonke ezi zine ziqulunqa isiseko sokuphuhliswa kwengqondo. Ukukhulisa ngaphakathi kwakho kungafikelela impumelelo nokusebenza kuyo nayiphi na imisebenzi.