"Yabed" - eli gama lithetha elowo kuthi ubuncinane kanye, kodwa weva kwidilesi yakhe njengomntwana. Akumangalisi ukuba umthunzi weli gama libi, kodwa ngaba kunjalo? Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ngokukhawuleza ukuba ngokumalunga nabantwana abangazange baphenduke iminyaka emithathu ubudala, ayikwazi ukusetyenziswa kuyo yonke into, kuba inyane alikhongozi, kodwa liyazisa izihlobo zakhe ukuba umntu wenze kakubi. Okokuthi, umntwana uziphatha ngokuqhelekileyo, kwaye ngamazwi akhe ubonisa indlela yokuphula umthetho, ngokombono wakhe, wobulungisa. Abazali kwiimvumba bayigunya eliphezulu. Nguye othetha naye ukubuyisela ubulungisa.
Yingakho abazali bengafanele batyelele inkunzi yebhokhwe ngegama elithi "Ukumhlophe - kubi!", Kodwa ukumfundisa ukuba ajamelane neemeko ezingathandekiyo kwaye ezingalunganga.
Street Street
Umgaqo oyintloko awuyikugxotha umntwana ngamazwi "Ziqonde wena!". Okokuqala, phulaphula ngokukhawuleza ekuqaleni. Oku kuya kukunceda uhlolisise le meko: ngaba uncedo olungumntu omdala oluyimfuneko? Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba yena unako ukusombulula ingxaki, uncede ngoncedo.
Maxa wambi umntwana akakwazi ukujamelana naye. Emva koko umntu omdala makangenelele. Kodwa ukungenelela akuthethi ukugweba ababenecala! Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukuphulaphula kokubili umntwana kunye neyesibini, kwaye wenze izigqibo zokulungisa ingxabano ngokuthula nangendlela zonke.
Cingisisa, ukucima umntwana ukuba akhohlise - umsebenzi unzima. Kungenzeka ukuba uzongenela amanyathelo amaninzi, kodwa ekugqibeleni abantwana ngokwabo baya kuqala ukuqonda indlela yokuziphatha kwiimeko ezinjalo. Emva koko, ukugijimela kumama kunye nomva ixesha, kwaye umonde kaninzi akwanele abantwana.
Sneakers Home
Ukuba intsapho inabantwana ababini okanye ngaphezulu, ngaba abazali bayazi kakuhle imeko xa inkwenkwe enye ithetha nomnye. Kwaye akunjalo ukuba ungumnyelona. Kungenzeka ukuba kuncinci ukuncintisana nothando lomzali, lubonisa umona wesikhwele okanye ukungabikho kwengqalelo. Ngaba unesiqiniseko sokuthi akukho namnye wabantwana olahlwayo? Emva koko musa ukuphazamisa, kodwa ngokuphepha ubeke isigqibo semibandela yonke kubantwana. Fundisa abazalwana noodade ukuba bathethe.
Jade
Ayikho imfihlelo yokuba abantwana baxhamli abaninzi. Bayakwazi ukulawula ukuziphatha kwabo bajikeleze ngokungaqondakali rhoqo. Ngoxa uncedwa ngumama nobawo, abanikela ingqalelo nakwiyiphi isikhalazo, umntwana unokuhlwaya umntu. Oku kuziphatha kukubonisa ukuba umntwana akasalili ngenxa yokungabikho koxanduva lwabazali, aze avume ukungabikho kwakhe. Nayabednichov kwaye ujabulela indlela abazali abajezisa ngayo "umoni", umntwana uvakalelwa ngamandla onke. Le migaqo kufuneka imiswe ngokukhawuleza! Ungalokothi uphazamise "kubonakaliso" kwabantwana, uziva uncedo lokuzama ukuphatha umntwana!
Neurotic ezingaqhelekanga
Ukuba umntwana uhlala ekhononda ngabanye kwaye uzibheka njengexhoba, unokuba ngumqondiso wokuphambuka kwegazi. Mhlawumbi, unengxaki enkulu engayikuphumla. Yingakho edonsa unina kwiimeko ezincinane. Ungabi neentloni kwaye ungasebenzisi kakubi umntwana! Ukuba uzilandele ngokuzimela
Kwaye ekugqibeleni, fundisa umntwana ukuba ahlule phakathi "kokulungileyo" kunye "okubi." Ukuba abafundi beklasi baye bafumana into enobungozi (ukuba baqhube into ethile, bahlekise phezu kophahla lwezakhiwo eziphakamileyo), ngoko ukuxelela umntu omdala ngale nto akuyiyo isohlwayo! Ngokukodwa, ukuba injongo yokuxelela inyaniso kubantu abadala, abantwana ofunda nabo bayazi. Yaye ukuba umoni womntwana ungumntu omdala, ukuthatha inxaxheba kwabazali kuyimfuneko!