Ingxabano

Impikiswano yembambano ayikho imeko engqubuzanayo eyenzeka phakathi kwabantu ababini okanye ngaphezulu. Kwenzeka ngaphakathi kumntu wonke. Singaxelela ukuba sonke sinabantu obuninzi ngaphakathi kwethu. Musa ukuphelisa ngokukhawuleza malunga nesimo sakho sengqondo. Ngoko, ngamnye wethu wenza imisebenzi ethile yentlalo (umama, umphathi, intombi, njl.). Leyo mpikiswano phakathi kwabo bonke kwaye iya kuqhubeka inkulumo.

Iindidi zendima zendima

1. Ingxabano yendawo . Akukho nanye yale nkonzo. Ngoko, umntu uhlala kwindawo entsha. Unethemba kunye nokulindela, kwaye ngokukhawuleza, ngenxa yezizathu ezithile, akakwazi ukuthethelela. Ngenxa yoko, ivelisa uluvo lwabanye malunga nalo njengengenakukwazi, ukukwazi ukuzalisekisa izithembiso zalo kumntu. Ngaphezu koko, ukuba umsebenzi ungumntu weqela, kukho ubunzima ekusebenzisaneni nomqeshwa ngamnye.
2. Ubuntu obuphakathi . Isizathu salolu daba lokungqubana nxamnye nokuchasana okwavela phakathi kokulindela kwabo kunye nobuchule babo. Umzekelo, umntu ukholelwa ukuba unako ukujamelana nobunzima obuthile bokuphila, kodwa ekusebenzeni kwakhe akunakulungelelwanga, uhlanganiswa ngentlanzi kwaye akakwazi ukwenza nantoni na. Akuyi kuba ngumbono wokunika umzekelo apho kunzima umntu ukuba akwazi ukujamelana nokusebenza kwendima entsha ngesizathu sokuba 'akayikukhula' ukusuka kumdala. EIndiya, amantombazana anikwe umtshato wokuqala. Omnye wala mabhinqa wagxotha umntwana. Yayiyiphi isizathu? Umama wakhe omncinci akazange abone ingozi. bahamba badlala needodoli bephila.
3. Ukungahambi kakuhle . Ukungqubuzana kwendima yokubambisana kwenzeka xa umntu eneemfuno ezimbini ezihlukeneyo, ukungangqinelani kweemeko ezingamgxotha kwisimo esicinezelekileyo. Ngokomzekelo, ukusebenza komsebenzi wabo kunokwenzeka xa kunokwenzeka ukuba imigaqo emiselweyo yokhuseleko iyagcinwa. Zonke aziyi kuba nto, kodwa kule ndawo, ukurhweba, loo mithetho ayinikeziwe.
4. Izibonelelo ezinganeleyo . Kule meko, imbangela yongquzulwano yendima kukungabikho kwexesha, impembelelo yeemeko, ukungabi nzishukumiso , njl, okwenza kube nzima ukwenza imisebenzi eyabelwe umntu.

Yintoni eyona nto ibalulekileyo yenkqubela-mbambano?

Ingxabano yohlobo luhlobo oluthile lwamava amaninzi, okwenzeka njengemzabalazo phakathi kweendawo zehlabathi zangaphakathi. Olu luhlobo lwesalathisi sobukho beengxaki ekusebenzisaneni nommandla. Ulibazise ukuzenzela izigqibo. Ndiyabulela kwimpikiswano enjalo, umntu ukhula, uzama ukuzibonakalisa, uthuthukise, kwaye ngoko uyazi "mna". Ewe, akukho mntu uthi le nkqubo inokumnandi, kodwa, njengoko uyazi, akukho nto inkulu, inentsingiselo ayihambi nje loo nto. Ekuqaleni, okwangoku ukubunjwa kwendima, kuthathwa njengento eqhelekileyo yezinto eziphazamisayo. Ngeendlela ezininzi, kuxhomekeka kwizenzo zomntu nokuba uya kuhlangabezana neengxabano zendima okanye cha.

Umzekelo ocacileyo wendima enjalo kwimibandela ebomini kukuba: umntu onobuchule obuncedisayo ungena kwiyunivesiti yobuchwepheshe, apho eqineni, uhlangabezana neengxaki. Ngokufanayo kufakazelwana kukungquzulwano, xa kuyimfuneko "ukusetyenziswa" kwendima yomama, umfazi osetshatiweyo, umhlalaphantsi okanye umfundi.

Ukuze kunqobe ukungqubuzana kwanoma yimuphi uhlobo kwenzeka ngaphandle kwemiphumo emibi, ukulungiswa kwengqondo, amandla kunye nesifiso sokuphucula impilo yengqondo kuyimfuneko.