Ulwimi lwezandla kunye nempawu zinika ulwazi olunokwenene nolucacileyo kunamagama. Umntu angakwazi ukulawula intetho yakhe, kodwa ubuso bakhe ubuso , ukunyameka kunye nemisebenzi eyahlukileyo kwenza ukuba kube lula ukuqonda iingcamango zangempela kunye neenjongo zomnxibelelwano.
I-Psychology yolwimi lomzimba kunye nezenzo
Abantu abaninzi benza impazamo ephosakeleyo, bengayithobeli ingqalelo yokuthintana kwabo. Inqaku elipheleleyo kukuba ukwazi ulwimi lomzimba, ungafunda iingcamango zabanye. Ulwazi olufunyenweyo luya kuba luncedo kwiimeko ezahlukileyo, umzekelo, ngelixa udliwano-ndlebe, ukuxoxisana, ukuqhelana nesini esahlukileyo, njl njl.
Inxaxheba yolwimi lwezandla kunye nomzimba ekunxibelelaneni lukhulu, kuba unokufunda ulwazi oluninzi oluncedo malunga nomntu. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba intloko ingashiywanga, ke umnxibelelwano uyafihla into ethile. Ukuba umntu udibana neenyawo zakhe ngumqondiso wokuba akanakunakwa. Umnxibelelwano, ojonge ngeenxa zonke, ukhohlise okanye unentloni. Xa umntu ehlamba izandla zakhe okanye ethintela umzimba wakhe, yile ndlela azenza ngayo. Izandla, ziphonswe phezu kwentloko yakhe, zibonisa ukuba umnxibelelwano ukhululekile, kwaye uyaqonda ngokulula isihloko esixoxwe ngaso. Ukuba, ngethuba le ngxoxo, umntu uphendukela umzimba kwicala lokuphuma, ngoko ufuna ukuphelisa aze ahambe. Ukuxhamla isandla kunokutshixa kakhulu, ngoko ke ukuba isandla sogqithiso siphezulu-oku kukubonakalisa kwakhe ukuphakama ngokomzimba. Xa ulindele ukufumana into enqwenelekayo, umntu uqala ukugxeka ngomlomo wakhe ngokungenasiphelo.
Ulwimi lomzimba kunye nempawu yamantombazana
- Ukuba iingalo ziyawela, ke le ntombi ayikho ukuthetha ngokufutshane, yaye ufuna ukugcina umgama.
- Uvelwano lweentombazana luya kuboniswa ngokubetha isalathisi, kuba le ndawo ithathwa njengenye yeendawo eziqhelekileyo eziqhelekileyo.
- Isibonakaliso sesondo kukuba ukunyuka kwentamo kwizinwele kunye nokuyihlaba. Kule meko, le ndoda ayinakuqiniseka ukuba le nkosikazi ikhona ekuthintana naye.
- Ngomdla we ntombazana ethile kwindoda ethile iya kuboniswa ngumgubo womlenze ohlangothini
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Ulwimi lomzimba kunye nezenzo zomntu
- Umlomo ogxininiswe ngokugqithiseleyo ubonisa isimo sengqondo esinobudlova, kwaye ukuba umntu uchitha ulwimi lwakhe emlonyeni ngethuba le ngxoxo, ngoko ke iingcamango zakhe zikude.
- Ukuba ugoba iminwe yakhe etafileni - luphawu lokucaphuka. Ukukhangela i-ear lobe kubonisa ukukhathala kwintetho.
- Kwimizimba yomzimba kunye nokuthinta abantu, kukholelwa ukuba ukutshintsha i-collar kubonisa ukukhohlisa okanye ukucaphuka.
- Kwimeko apho amehlo ahamba ngendlela eyahlukileyo, loo mntu uyakhohlisa okanye uzive engakhuselekanga kuye.