Ukuzibonakalisa kunye nesibonakaliso sobuso kunika iimvakalelo ezinzulu kunye neengcamango zomntu, efuna ukuzinqanda kuye. Ukongeza, i-gesticulation ayinakuba ngumntu ongekho nje kuphela, kodwa kunye nekhadi lamacilongo. Ukuba ufunda ngokuzenzekelayo ukuvavanya ngokwakho, kwaye uqeqeshe ezinye iigesticulations, unokwenza ngempumelelo ukudala impembelelo efanelekileyo kubantu. Ngokomzekelo, ukuqhutyelwa kweenqoma eziphakanyisiwe, ezithandwa kakhulu kwi-psychology ye-gestures, kufuneka zisetyenziswe ekuqheleni ukudala impembelelo efanelekileyo.
Gesticulation kunye namanga
Eyona nto ibonwa kakhulu kwi-psychology ye-gestures, eqinisweni, kukubala kwamanga. Sifuna ukukwazi ukuthetha amanga kwaye singabanjwa kwindawo eshushu, kwaye sibonakalisa kakhulu abo bazama ukuxhoma i-noodle ezindlebeni zethu.
Xa singakholelwa ngokwenene, siyazibandakanya ngokungathandabuzeki kwi-lobes yeendlebe (khangela ukuba i-noodle efanayo ixhomeke?)
Kwaye abaxoki bawuthinte entanyeni, amaqhosha angabonakaliyo, ikhola yekhola. Ngokuqhelekileyo banokuthinta umlenze phezu komlomo kunye nentonga yempumlo.
Ngokuchasene nentsholongwane eyaziwayo, ingqondo yengqondo yomntu kunye nesimo sombuso akuyena umcimbi wokujonga amehlo nomlomo. Ngokuqhelekileyo okuchaseneyo kuyinyaniso, kwaye ubuxoki, kunoko, bufanele kubalwe ngokuthinteka kwimizimba kunye nesimo somzimba. Umzekelo:
- ngokukhawuleza ukugxininiswa kwamehlo ngexesha lokulala;
- ukukhawuleza okanye ukunyuswa kwentetho yokuthetha.
Uvelwano kunye nokuchasana
Kwakhona kwengqondo yezenzo zomntu, ingqwalasela eninzi ihlawulwa ukubonisa uvelwano kunye nokuchasana, oko kukuthi, ukubalwa kokunyaniseka kweemvakalelo zomnxibelelwano.
Kwizengqondo, ezi zinto ziyaziwayo:
- Ukubamba isandla ngokuqinileyo;
- imilenze edibeneyo ngokubanzi, iisokisi zikhangelelwa kwicala lomnxibelelwano;
- ukuxelisa kwimpawu, amagama, ubuso obuso;
- ukuthambekela kancinci komzimba phambili;
- intende.
Imisindo yokuchasana (inzondo, ukucasula, ubugwenxa):
- ukumbamba ngesandla ngokulula;
- bawela iingalo nemilenze;
- Iintendelezo ezivaliweyo kunye neesithupha;
- ukuxhathisa amahlombe;
- zev;
- izandla ezandleni;
- izandla kwiipokethi;
- ukuguqula isihlalo sokubuya, umzekelo, ukuhamba kude nomnxibelelwano;
- imbono ejikelezayo.
Imizimba yesilisa
Abasetyhini, njengokuba kunjalo, banomdla kumbuzo onomdla: "bathanda okanye bangakuthandi." Umlinganiselo we-MCH onokuthi uza kunceda ukucacisa ingqondo yengqondo yabantu.
Ukuba uyakuthanda, le ndoda iya kunikwa impawu elandelayo:
- imilenze edibeneyo kwindawo ehleli okanye kwindawo yokuma;
- umdlalo ngeemisipha: ukusika, ukuguqula umva, ukufudumala kwezandla;
- Indoda iyahamba iphantsi, njengezilwanyana ezibonisa ubuhle bayo;
- ayibukeli ngqo emehlweni, kodwa i-glance islayila kuwo wonke umzimba;
- abafundi bahlutha;
- indoda kunye nomfazi onesihawu omnye komnye, unike ikopi yesenzo (izinwele ezibethekayo, inyawo "inyawo ngezinyawo").