Abantwana banamhlanje banqwenela ukuthatha i-pacifier. Kodwa kubazali abathile, uba ngumsindisi wokwenene ngexesha le-colic okanye into ekhoyo. Xa eli xesha elilukhuni liphela, abazali abayazi indlela yokutshatsana umntwana osiswini. Sizakuzama ukukunceda kule ngxaki enzima, uphendule imibuzo echaphazelekayo.
Ngaba ndinokuyinika i-pacifier kumntwana?
Umbuzo, impendulo yonyani yinyani engazange inikezwe. Akukho ugqirha oye wakwazi ukuthelekisa ukubaluleka kokulimala ekutshiseni i-dummy (leyo, ngendlela, oogqirha abaninzi bayaphika) kunye nokulala okulekileyo kwabazali nabantwana. Ingaba umntwana wakho ufuna i-ingxube, ifike kuwe. Abanye abazali abanamava banikezela le ndlela: nikela i-pacifier umntwana wakho. Ukuba uyayithatha, ungayisebenzisa (kodwa, ngokuqinisekileyo, ayisoloko ikhona), kwaye ukuba akunjalo - ngoko akufanele unqume nantoni na, umntwana sele sele enqume konke. Landela isiluleko esingathandabuzekiyo kwaye uqhube ngokunyanisekileyo umntwana kwi-ingono ngokuwugubungela ngobusi (ukungena kwiswekile) ngokuqinisekileyo akufanelekanga.
Kwaye, ukuba, umzekelo, umntwana akalala ngaphandle kwengono, ngaba kunengqondo ukuzithuthukisa wena nomntwana? Ufanele ukwazi ukuba ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva bonke abantwana abaphuhlisayo ngokweminyaka yabo baya kukwazi ukulala bengenangono.
Kukho nawuphi na, unokukwazi kuphela ukuba umntwana ufuna i-pacifier, kwaye kungekhona oomakhelwane okanye izihlobo ezikude ezingazange zimbone umntwana kwiso, kodwa ngubani owaziyo ukuba amphakamise njani.
Xa kuyimfuneko ukuthambisa umntwana kumvumba?
Kwakhona, kuphela umama womntwana owaziyo impendulo yalo mbuzo. Kwaye, ekuqwalaseleni ukutshintsha kwindlela yakhe yokuziphatha, uyakwazi ukubona umzuzu nje xa i-dummy evela kwinqanaba lezinto eziyimfuneko likhula libe ngumkhwa.
Yintoni ekumele ayiqwalasele? Isibonakaliso esibonakalayo kunokuba unokwazi ukuzama ukuncika umntwana kumvalo kukungakhathaleli kwakhe. Unokuzibonakalisa njani? Ngeli thuba, umntwana akanakulinda ixesha elide ukuba akhumbule malunga ne-pacifier, enze izinto zakhe, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, akaceli ukuba i-pacifier. Yaye ukuba ngokukhawuleza ubona i-pacifier yakhe, okanye ubona i-pacifier emlonyeni womnye umntwana, kwaye ke ukhumbula nje ngoko, ke oku kukho uphawu lokuba umntu angaqala ukuthambisa umntwana entombeni.
Ukongezelela, kukho iimeko ezintathu apho umama kufuneka anqume ngokukhawuleza indlela yokulusa umntwana kwi-ingono:
- Usana lukhula ukuphuculwa kokuphuculwa kwentetho okanye intetho. Kodwa ugqirha kufuneka athethe oku. Ukubonwa kwangaphandle ngathi "Kutheni engakutshilo okwamanje?" Musa ukuhlala ubonisa iingxaki.
- Ukuba umntwana uthabatha ingono ixesha elide, kwaye sele sele eseneminyaka emithathu ubudala. Ngalesi sikhathi, njengommiselo, sele sele iphela ingqalelo kubantwana bonke i-reflex yokutsala iyaphela, kunye kunye nayo imfuno yokwaneliseka kwayo iyafa.
- Ukuba umntanakho ukhetha iintlawu zomphakathi ukuthetha nabanye abantwana. Kule meko, kunokubakho iingxaki ekuhlaleni, kwaye umntwana kufuneka uqhotyoshelwe kwimidlalo kunye noontanga.
Indlela yokunciphisa umntwana ukuba anamise ingono?
Kukho iindlela ezimbini ezahlukileyo kwi-sieve indlela yokulusa umntwana osiswini.
Indlela yokuqala ibalulekileyo. Unika ngelinye ilanga zonke iimbumba "ngokumangalisa" zichitheka zisuka endlwini. Unokuxelela umntwana ibali ukuba imouse ithathe ingono, kubantwana bayo. Kodwa kufuneka kuphawulwe ukuba kumntwana oku kulimala ngokwaneleyo, kwaye le ndlela ayifaneleki kuwo wonke umntwana.
Indlela yesibini ihamba kancane. Okokuqala, zama ukunciphisa uxhulumaniso kunye nentsimbi kuphela ngexesha lokulala. Ngexesha lokuvuka, ngandlela yonke indlela, mkhohlisa umntwana ngeemidlalo, ukuze akanalo ixesha lokukhumbula isikhopho. Ngokuthe ngcembe, umele umxelele ukuba iimbongolo ziya kusondela kwindoda efanayo, okanye kwinkwenkwana eyalelwa emnyango. Kwaye kuye, kumntu omdala, sele kunokwenzeka ukuba ubaba nomama balele ngaphandle kwe-ingono. Okanye unako ukunikela umntwana ukuba alahle i-pacifier kwingxube okanye izitya ezikhethekileyo kule (le nkcubeko ithathele ingcambu kwezinye iidolophu zehlabathi).