Yonke indoda ifuna ububele, uthando kwaye, ngokungathandabuzeki, uthando. Ukwenza oku, kubalulekile ukuba ulungiselele ukuhlwaya ngomyeni kumyeni othandekayo, nangona kunjalo, umbuzo uvele ngokukhawuleza: "Kufuneka lulungiswe njani na?". Emva kwakho konke, ubudlelwane yinto ohlala ufanele usebenze ngayo, ukuze ulonwabo, oluye lwafunyanwa ngeminyaka, aluqali ukukhahlela kwii-seams.
Indlela yokulungisa ilanga lomtshato ngomntu othandekayo?
- Isimo esihle . Okokuqala, kufuneka udibanise umgca wokuvumelanisa, uthando kunye nesimo esihle. Ukwenza oku, funda incwadi yakho oyithandayo, mamela ilizwi elikukhumbuza imihla yakho yokuqala.
- Indawo yokuhlangana . Ngokuqinisekileyo, khetha ukuhlwaya ngothando njengendawo enjalo, ekuthiwa bobabini uya kudibana nomhla wobaziyo. Olunye ukhetho luphahla lwezakhiwo ezininzi. Ngaba isidlo seenkwenkwezi phantsi kweenkwenkwezi, iimitha ezili-mitha ngaphaya kweendawo zasemadolobheni, kungekhona isithandwa? Enyanisweni, ukuba ngaphandle kwefasitela ukubhoboza umphefumlo wobusika busika, ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuchitha ixesha kwindawo yomlilo. Nangona ukhumbule ukuba i-classically ebekwe etafileni yekhitshini kunye nebhotile ye-champagne ayisoze yaphuma kwimoya, ukuba ibhekiselele kwixesha leentliziyo ezimbini.
- Kubonakala . Ukuba ulungisa ilanga langokuhlwa, ngandlela-thile olunxwemeni lolwandle, ukuhlobisa ulwandle kunye nezibane ezincinane ezikhanyayo, izambatho ezintle ziza kuhambelana ngokugqibeleleyo. Umsebenzi wakho: ukunqoba umntu akhethiweyo ngokubonakala kwakhe. Xa uxhomeke ekhayeni, gqoba ngokukhuselekileyo into ethile.
- Itheyibhile yokuzonwabisa . Kulo suku, yonke into kufuneka icatshangelwe ngokubanzi: ukuqala kumculo kwaye iphele ngezithende kwizihlangu. Kuyafana nokukhethwa kweziphuzo nezitya. Sincoma ukuba uyeke ukukhetha kwakho kwi-champagne yendabuko kunye newayini elomileyo. Kubo, lungise iiglasi kwiimilenze eziphakamileyo. Ngendlela, le ndlela yewayini ayigcini igazi kuphela emithanjeni, kodwa iphinda iphakamise imvakalelo. Ngokuphathelele izitya, ukhethe okukhethwa kukho ukutya okutyiwa kunye nokutya kwesitya esinye okanye ezimbini.
Khumbula ukuzonwabisa kwenzeni ngexesha lokutya, ngoko ke akuyi kuba yinto engabonakaliyo yokuhlobisa ngokufanelekileyo isitya ngasinye. Njengeesekese zifaka iipoktolethi zeseyile, eziza kubonakala zihambelana neziphuzo. - Ukukhonza . Ukulungiselela ubusuku bothando, kubalulekile ukucinga malunga nendlela osebenzela ngayo itafile. Ukwenza oku, qaphela ukuba phakathi kwetafile yeholide kuneziqhamo ezikhanyayo (iidiliya, i-mandarins, njl.). Igumbi linokuhlobisa ngamakhandlela enhle, kwaye kwitheyibhile ngokwayo ibeke ikhandlela eziphezulu zenziwe nge-honeycomb, umzekelo. Ukuba unqwenela, unokuyihobisa phakathi kwetafile kunye nesakhiwo esincinane seentyatyambo eziza kubonakala ngokuvisisana nesitayela esiqhelekileyo sokukhonza.