Njengoko umntwana ekhula, iingxaki zabazali zikhula. Sekunje izolo ingxaki ebalulekileyo yayikutya ngexesha, kwaye namhlanje kufuneka sichukumise into eyadla into ethile. Umntwana utshintshisa nje phambi kwamehlo akhe, kwaye emva kokuthobela nokuhlala, uba ngumntu ongenakwenzeka kwaye onenkani. Umfanekiso oqhelekileyo? Masiqonde.
Inkxwaleko okanye ukwesaba?
Ngokuqinisekileyo, imihla ngemihla imele ihlale ihleli kwimida engqongqo kwaye umntwana uzakukhawuleza okanye emva koko kufuneka azi kakuhle imida yento evunyelweyo. Kodwa masingahambi kule mijelo, kodwa okokuqala siya kuzama ukufumana ingcinezelo yokukhanyela.
Phantse kwiminyaka emibili umntwana uqala ukuhlala aguguze intloko yakhe nayiphi na isicelo okanye ukuthintela abantu abadala. Oku akusiyo i-whim okanye i-whim, kodwa indlela yokukhusela umbono kunye nesimo sakho. Kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo yedwa kuphela, kuba akusiyo yonke umzali onomdla nokuba umntwana ufuna ukuthobela imithetho ethile. Ekudala, ukuya kwiminyaka emine, iintsana ziqala ukukhula ngokukhawuleza kwaye zifuna isimo sengqondo esahlukileyo. Kodwa ngoku aqala nje ukugubha iintloko zawo okanye ukuba zingabonakali. Le nto isele ingxoxo epheleleyo kwaye ngamanye amaxesha abantwana banikela iingxabano ezibeka abantu abadala ekufeni.
Ukwahlula okwesibini kwimeko ke ukwesaba kwabantwana . Nantsi kubalulekile ukuhlawula ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kumntwana. Ukuba i-crumb iyenqaba ukulala ebhokisini lakhe, oku kungabonakalisa ukwesaba ubumnyama okanye i-monsters eyakhelwe, kungekhona umnqweno wokugaya izibilini zabazali. Ngendlela, le nkxalabo yabantwana ayinakucatshulwa, kwaye umthombo uyingozi kubantu abadala: beza kunye nama-cannibals, izilo okanye ezinye iindaba ezibuhlungu.
Ubugcisa beentetho
Ngoko, uzimisele ukuba inkunzi inenkani kwaye akukho nto ibonakalayo apha. Ewe, ke uya kufuneka ube nesineke uze uqale ukusebenza kule ngxaki. Cinga ngamacandelo ambalwa "abafuniyo" kunye namaqhinga omzekelo yabazali.
- "Andifuni ukuyidla!" . Le ngxaki yileyo yonke intsapho kwaye iminyaka iyahluka. Ukuba i-crumb efuna ukuphosa ibhotile, ngoko imeko yinto elula kakhulu: yidla kunye kunye nentsapho yonke kwaye emva kwesikhashana uza kufumana i-spoon ngokwakhe. Ngaba ufunde ukutya kwi-spoon, kodwa ungafuni ukuyigcina ngokwakho? Ukukhawuleza ukuza nomdlalo kunye kunye nosana, siqale sidle izandla zethu sithi "fu", size sizenze ngokuzibamba ngeepuni! Ngokweminyaka yobudala, mhlawumbi umntwana ufuna ukuhamba ngaphezulu aze adle isondlo, okanye atshintshe ukutya okungathandwayo kunye nezilinganayo.
- "Andiyi kulala!" . Nantsi yonke into iyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu, kuba akusayi kudingeke ukuba isebenze kumntwana, kodwa ngokwakho. Phantse inyanga kuya kwanele ukuba umntwana abandakanyeke ngokupheleleyo kwi-regime kwaye iwashi yakhe ye-biological ishintshile. Iphuzu elibalulekileyo: Iimvakalelo zohlwaya zidla ngenye yezindlela zokuphumelela ingqalelo kamama. Thatha umgaqo wesiqingatha seyure ngaphambi kokuba ulale ngokwengqondo uthetha nomntwana kwaye uhlanganyele naye ngosuku aphume ngalo, oku kuya kumvumela ukuba aphumle kwaye akhohlwe malunga neefom. Ngendlela, lo mgaqo kufuneka usebenze nayiphi na imeko: akukho nto yokunyanzela ngeveki, ngexesha lokutyelelwa koogogo.
- "Andifuni ukugqoka!" . Nantsi kukho iindlela ezimbini. Ngamanye amaxesha le yimiphumo yemfundo engafanelekanga: khawuleza ugqoke umntwana
Kulula kakhulu kunokuba umfundise oku kwaye mxhomeke ukuba umtsale. Emva koko indlela yokuphela yokugqoka kunye kunye nokubonisa umntwana isinyathelo ngasinye. Xa sele bekhulile, iimvumba zinezinto ezizithandayo okanye ezingathandwa, ziya kufuneka zibale ngaphandle kwengcinezelo.
Ezi zimbalwa nje zeziganeko ezisisiseko ze-nehochuhi. Kodwa inkqubo yokuxazulula le ngxaki ihlala isela into enye: abazali kufuneka bafunde indlela yokuqhuba iintetho zoxolo kwaye bangafaki uxinzelelo kumntwana. Khumbula umthetho ovela kwi-physics: amandla amanyathelo alinganayo namandla ochasayo. Fundisa, uthetha, uthethe kwaye uzame ukufumana impembelelo yoxolo.