Amanyathelo okuqala omntwana ahlala esonwabisayo. Emva koko, oku kuthetha ukuba i-crumb yakho isele yindoda encinci kwaye kungekudala uza kubaleka kuwe kunye nale milenze kunye nokuhleka ngokuvuya. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba kwenzeke oko, kubalulekile ukusombulula umsebenzi onzima-indlela yokunceda umntwana afunde ukuhamba, ukuze abe neentembelo kwimilenze emibini. Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokunciphisa ukutshintsha kwengane ukusuka ekukhaleni ukuhamba ngokuzimela. Eyona ndlela iphumelele ngayo esiya kuyiqwalasela kweli nqaku.
Bangaphi abantwana abaqala ukuhamba?
Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali badidekile ngeengxoxo zabantu abangaziwayo kunye nabangamaziyo malunga nokuba into ethile umntwana eyayihamba ngayo ngeenyanga eziyi-9-9. Kwaye ngexesha elifanayo, umntwana wakhe, sele sele ephawulwe unyaka wokuqala wobomi, akaphuthumi ukuhamba kwimigangatho emibini. Ukukhathazeka ngale nto, kunjalo, akufanelekanga. Okokuqala sifuna ukucacisa encinci indlela le nkqubo iyenzeka ngayo kwindalo:
- Ukuhamba kokuqala kwemilenze yomntwana iqala ukwenza emva kweeveki ezimbalwa emva kokuzalwa. Uzama ukunyuka kuyo nayiphi na indawo, kodwa ngoku ukuphela kwinqanaba le-reflex;
- ukuya kwiinyanga ezi-5, umntwana, ogcinwe ngokuthe tye, uzama ukutyhutyha kunye neenyawo zakhe njengokungathi uyaqhayisa. Yiyo ntshukumo eqaqambileyo eyenziwa ngumsebenzi oyintloko kunye nentandokazi yomntwana de kube malunga neenyanga ezi-6-7 ngelixa efunda ukuhlala phantsi nokukhwela;
- malunga neenyanga eziyi-8-9 umntwana uqala ukuzama ukuvuka, ukubambelela kwizinto ezizungezile. Ngeli xesha, abantwana abasebenza ngakumbi sele bezama ukujikeleza kwindlu, bebamba ifenitshala. Ngamanye amaxesha banokumisa kwaye bajonge ixesha elithile kungekho inkxaso;
- Kwiinyanga ezili-11 umntwana usenokufunda ukuhlala phantsi aze eme yodwa. Ngeli xesha, uya kuzama ukuya epeni kunye nabazali bakhe, okanye ukuma kwi-tiptoe;
- Ngeenyanga ezili-13, abaninzi abantwana sele behamba bengenawo uncedo lwabazali babo, nangona le nto ipholile kwaye ayithembi ngokupheleleyo. Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana baqala ukuhamba ngokuzimeleyo kwimilenze yabo emi-16-17. Kodwa akusiyo isizathu sokwesaba, kutheni umntwana engazange ahambe. Akukho nto iyingozi kule meko.
Ezi manani zibalo nje ukuveliswa kwemigangatho yophuhliso lweintsana. Omnye unayo le nkqubo ngokukhawuleza, kodwa umntu akangxamanga ukukholisa abazali bakhe ngempumelelo yabo. Kodwa ukuba umntwana wakho wesaba ukuhamba yedwa, musa ukukhawuleza ukumthabatha ugqirha. Mhlawumbi unokumnceda yena.
Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba ahambe?
Ngoko, umntwana wakho akahambanga - yintoni oyenzayo kule meko? Njengawuphi na umzali ozihloniphayo, kufuneka ubonise inkwenkwe oogqirha rhoqo ngenyanga. Ukuba awunakatshelwanga ukuba izidumbu zentsana zibuthathaka kwaye zifuna ukuqiniswa, ngoko akukho nto ibangela ukukhathazeka, kwaye umntwana ukhula ngokwemimiselo. Kwaye umgangatho ngamnye kumntu ngamnye. Musa ukukhawuleza umntwana, kwaye ungawuchukumisi. Uninzi lwazo zonke ifuna inkxaso yakho. Ngoko ke, into engcono kakhulu ongayenza kukuba uzame imithetho embalwa ekusebenzeni, indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba ahambe yedwa:
- Inqwenela. Ulwazi lwehlabathi elikujikelezayo lona msebenzi oyintloko wengane kunye nexesha eligqibeleleyo lokufumana umntwana ukuba ahambe. Mfudumise umnqweno womntwana ukuba ahambe izinto eziya kumshukumisela ukuba ame kwiinyawo zakhe ukuze afikelele. Yakhele "i-pavement" ukusuka kwibhedeni, izihlalo kunye nezinye izinto, ukwenzela ukuba umntwana angakwazi ukufeza injongo yakhe, abambelele kulezi zinto. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, ukwandisa umgama phakathi kwezinto ezixhasayo kwaye uhlale ukhusela umntwana ekuwaweni nasekukhuselweni.
- Ukukopisha. Ukuxelisa omnye umsebenzi ozithandayo kubantwana. Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba ahambe usebenzisa le propati? Zama ukuthobela ingqalelo ngexesha lokuhamba ukuya kwengqalelo kwintsana kwindlela abantwana abadala abahamba ngayo, njengabantu abadala, njl. Ngokwenza njalo, gqabaza ngezenzo zabo ukuze unomdla kumntwana.
- Lahla umhambi. Ngokuqhelekileyo esi sizathu sokuba umntwana wenqabe ukuhamba. Emva koko, kuhambahamba akudingeki ukuba uxinzelele izihlunu. Nangona kunjalo, uphuhliso oluzimeleyo lwezakhono zokuhamba luya kwenza ukuba isifo somntwana siqine, kwaye ukulungelelaniswa kwayo kulungile.
- Nika umntwana ngakumbi ukuzimela. Ukuphuma esitrato, ungayifaki kwi-stroller, kodwa cinga malunga nendlela yokunceda umntwana aqale ukuhamba. Makhe azive ezinyaweni phantsi kweenyawo zakhe kunye nazo zonke izitenxo. Misela umatshini ngentambo okanye i-gurney, ukuze kube mnandi ukuba umntwana ahambe.
- Inkqubo = uphuhliso. Khumbula ukuba esemncinci, ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo yakhe kuxhomekeke kwimisebenzi yomzimba. Vumela umntwana inkululeko yokuhamba. Makhele izithintelo ezivela kwiingubo kunye nemithwalo apho uya kukhwela ngokunyanisekileyo, kwaye ahlakulele imisipha yakhe.
- Ungesabi ukuwa. Akukho mzamo yokufunda ukuhamba ayikwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kokuwa komntwana. Kuyafaneleka ukudibanisa nale nto kwaye ukuba oko kwenzeka kwakhona,
Musa ukumemeza, ungayeki kwaye ungazami ukuthatha umntwana. Ngezenzo ezinjalo unokuphefumlela umntwana ngoyika kunye nexesha elide lokuphelisa umnqweno wokuhamba.
Ngaphambi kokuba uqale uhambo olude ukusuka kumanyathelo okuqala ukuya kuhamba ngokuzithemba, qiniseka ukuba indlu yakho ayinayo ingozi, iziseko kunye nezinye izinto ezinokulimaza umntwana. Zama ukugubungela indlela yakhe kunye neenkomfa ezithambileyo kunye ne-ottomans xa kwenzeka ukuwa. Jabulela kwimpumelelo yomntwana, nokuba ayibalulekanga. Uziva nje inkxaso yakho, inkunzi iya kwenza amanyathelo akhe athembekileyo kwixesha elizayo.