Umnqweno wokukholisa umthandayo uyasenza sibheke into entsha, isikhuthaza ukuba siqonde konke okukhathazayo ngesondo. Ngamanye amaxesha, abaninzi banombuzo othi: "Indlela yokulala ngesondo kunye nendlela yokufunda ubugcisa bothando?" Namhlanje siza kuqwalasela lo mbandela ngokubanzi.
Ixesha lokuqala
Amava okuqala ngokwesini kubaluleke kakhulu ekusebenzeni ubomi obusondeleyo. Lo ngumfanekiso oqhelekileyo, xa intombazana encinci idibana nendoda, phakathi kwayo "iqhubekile" iimvakalelo, ubudlelwane bunamathele kwaye kunye naye uzimisele ukulahlekelwa ubuntombi bakhe. Njengoko intombazana ifunda ukulala ngesondo kunye nalapho uqala khona-lo ngumbuzo, impendulo ayifunayo.
Ngaphambi kokuba ulale ngesondo kuqala, kufuneka ulungiselele ngokwengqondo.
- ukulahla izakhiwo. Ukuze ujabulele ukusondelana, kufuneka ukhululeke, vumela ezinye iingcinga kunye neengxaki. Ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nesifuba esincinci okanye iindawo ezinqamlekileyo, okanye ukhathazeka malunga nayiphi na impazamo ebonakalayo yakho, ngoko uya kutyinwa kwaye uzinze. Ngenxa yoko, kuya kuba nzima kakhulu ukunandipha inkqubo. Yamkele kwaye uzithande ukuba ungubani. Indoda yakho ayiboni iimpazamo zakho, ngenxa yokuba azikho. Kukho nawuphi na, unako ukuhlala usebenza kumfanekiso wakho. Ukuzivocavoca ekhaya okanye ukuvocavoca akukhenxiswanga;
- sifumana ulwazi olutsha. Ukufunda iimpawu zobunqunu nabesilisa, ukufumanisa apho iindawo ezinobungozi emzimbeni zitholakala khona, ukufakela kwiincwadi ngezesondo - ukuqonda kwakho kuya kunceda "isizathu";
- siyazi thina. Ngamanye amaxesha unokuxelela umlingane wakho ukuba ungathini na oko ungathanda. Ukuqokelela ukuhlamba okufudumeleyo, yongeza i-foam ephosakeleyo kwaye ufunde umzimba wakho. Xhaphaza, phawula imimandla emnandi kakhulu, khumbula ukuhamba kunye nazo zonke izinto ezikukhangayo. Ungabi neentloni kwaye ungakhathazeki kakhulu;
- Siyilungiselela umboniso we-movie. Mayelana nefilimu yesondo ezininzi. Phakathi kwabo kukho intshukumo ephosakeleyo yoononophala, kunye nokubonakalisa ukukhanya nokuhle. Enyanisweni, kwiimeko zokuqala neyesibini, unokufumana "ubuchule" obuncedo. Iimfesane zengxowa-mboleko zingakwazi ukufunda indlela yokuhamba kakuhle kwezocansi, zenza ngokufanelekileyo. Ukutshatyalaliswa kwezinto ezinqamlekileyo, ukunyakaza kwesisu kunye nokuhluma okunomdla - kungcono ukuyijonga kanye.
Olu cebiso luya kuba lukhokelo olulungileyo malunga nendlela yokufunda ukulala ngesondo, yenza "ngokufanelekileyo kunye nekhwalithi."
Ngaphandle
Ubomi obusondeleyo kufuneka bube mnandi kwaye buhluke. Oku akusiyo kutshintsho oluqhubekayo lwamaqabane, kodwa ukukhangela izimvo ezintsha zokufumana izilo. Izabelo zesini zesini, ngokuqinisekileyo, zinikezelwa ngokukhethekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho ambalwa amadoda ayenqaba ukuthetha ngomlomo okanye ngesondo. Indlela yokufunda ubuchule be-blowjob cinga ngokulandelayo.
Kukho ubuchule obuninzi okwazi ukufunda nokuzama. Ukwamkela "ukukhawuleza" kuyona elula, kodwa, nangona kunjalo, enye yeyona nto inomdla kakhulu. Gcoba ngobuncwane i-scrotum kunye necala langaphakathi lamathanga ngesandla sakho, enye ithathe ipenisi kwaye, uyibeke kwindawo ebonakalayo, ngokukhawuleza uze uyikhawuleze isicaciso seelwimi. Qala ukusuka kwiphakamiso yentloko, imingxuma yayo, ngokuzithemba "isonga" ilwimi lonke ilungu. Khawuchukumise umyalelo womda weqabane lomlingane.
Unokuzama kwakhona indlela "yokujika". Kuyimfuneko ukugcina intloko yepenisi emlonyeni, ngelixa uqhubeka ujikelezisa ulwimi, wenze ukunyakaza okujikelezayo okanye ukunyuka kwenyani kunye nomgangatho we-penis.
Ngaphandle kwemida, indawo ekhoyo phakathi kwamathambo kunye ne-anus yomntu onokunyusa ngokwaneleyo kunokubangela ukuba i-orgasm emele ngokuzimeleyo. Unokuluvuyisa ulwimi kwaye ucinezele iminwe yakho.
Ngokubhekelana ngesondo somzimba, ngoko ke into ephambili kukuba ukhethe i-positive ehamba phambili, i-lubrication efanelekileyo (esithengiswa kuma-pharmacy kunye "neentengiso zabantu abadala") kwaye uqale ngokungena kancane. Buza umntu wakho ukuba abonise umonde, uqaphele kwaye agcine ucoceko olunzulu. Akunakulungele ukusebenzisa ikondom yesilwanyana.
Thandanani kunye nokubonisa uthando kunye nokucinga.