Bathi uhlobo lwendalo luyinto yokuzalwa. Kodwa nabani na ukunyamezela ukuba ningakhuthazi, uba ngumntwana, ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo unyuse ukuqiniseka ukuba umlingiswa wakhe unako kwaye kufuneka uguqulwe. Ngokwabo. Nangona kunjalo, xa kuziwa kwizenzo, iimpawu zomntu eziphambili ziya kuzinza. Apha abantu banokukhethwa ezimbini: ukushiya umntwana wedwa, kwaye ukucinga ngokuphuhliswa kwakhe kwemvelo, okanye ukuqhubeka "nokudlwengula", ukuchaza intshukumo yakhe, inzala ekhubekileyo, kufuneka ukuba ahlale ekhuni, enesibindi, njengoyise.
Asiyi kukufundisa imfundo yabantwana, kodwa siya kuqalisa ibali lethu malunga nempawu eziphambili zobuntu bomntu ukususela kwimvelaphi yazo.
Umntu wabantwana
Umntwana uzalwe ngesimo sengqondo. Isimiselo sinye omnye wabalinganiswa bombini oqala ukuqala ukususela kwiintsuku zokuqala zobomi ekukhanyeni okumhlophe, idluliselwa kwizityalo ezivela kubazali. Kodwa iimpawu eziphambili zobume bomntwana nazo zichaphazelwa yintlalo yomntu:
- bazali;
- umzekelo wabazali kunye nabantu abajikelezile;
- iinkqubo zenkcubeko kunye nemigaqo yokuziphatha apho umntwana ekhula khona;
- ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu abakujikelezile.
Kufuneka uqaphele ukuba umntwana wakho akazalwanga ungumqambimanga kunye nomlondolozi, unokubekwa phambili kule mimpawu ngokuphathelele kwimfuza owayidlulisela kuyo, kodwa abantwana bafunda ukulala kanye nabazali babo.
Ukwahlula iimpawu zobuntu
Kukho amaqela amathathu awona mpawu:
- u kuthetha;
- shishini;
- ngokwemimiselo.
Kuyinyaniso ukusho, zingaphi iimpawu zomntu umntu akakwazi, kodwa inani elilingana lisuka kwi-150 ukuya kuma-500, kwaye lixhomekeke kubani okholelwayo.
Makhe sibhale iinkalo eziphambili zomdlalo wakho ngamaqela.
Iimpawu zezoshishino zibonakaliswe kumsebenzi wobuntu:
- u buvila;
- msebenzi onzima;
- hlulele;
- ukunganakwa;
- ukunganyaniseki;
- kuchaneka;
- u xanduva;
- xanduva.
Impawu yokuqhagamshelana ibonakaliswa ngemizwa yokunxibelelana:
- kuzingca;
- ukuphendula;
- bubele;
- thozama;
- ukukhubazeka;
- ugonyamelo;
- ukukrakra;
- ukucaphuka.
Iimpawu zentshukumo zibonakaliswa ekubonakaleni komgaqo womntu:
- nya mezela;
- ntembelo;
- ngenjongo;
- nya mezela;
- thotyelwa;
- ukungafuni;
- ukungqinelani.
Ngokuphathelele iintlobo zobuninzi, oko kukuthi, iindidi zeetayitile ezithile, izenzululwazi zenza amacandelo amabini kuphela: i-introvert ne-extrovert. Kakade ke, akukho ziqalo ezi-100% kwaye zixakile, kuba ngamnye wethu unokuba ngumdlali weempawu eziphikisanayo.