Xa belungiselela umtshato, abaninzi banomdla ngokucophelela impawu zomtshato kunye nezithethe. Ndifuna ukwenza yonke into eklasini eliphezulu, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ungabizi iintlungu, ukulibala malunga nezinye iimpawu ezimbi. Siza kuqwalasela iintetho ezahlukahlukeneyo zobulumko bendoda ezivumela ukulungiselela ukubhiyozela ngokuhambelana nezithethe.
Iimpawu malunga nomsitho womtshato
Isiqhamo somtshato siwuphawu lolonwaba lwentsapho, kwaye alukwazi kunikwa nabani na. Nguye kuphela umtshakazi, unina nomyeni abangamthinta. Ngaphandle koko, kukho umngcipheko wokonwaba kwintsapho iya ku "rhoxiswa". I-bouquet ayikwazi ukukhishwa ezandleni kuze kube yidlo ngokwalo, kwaye ukuba kukho imfuneko yokuyihamba-inokudluliselwa kuphela kunina.
Yingakho isibini esinezibini zidibanisa izimbali ezimbini-ezintle kunye ezinesidima, eziza kuba ngumtshakazi, kwaye okwesibini - kulula kwaye kulula, okuza kuphonswa phezu kwehlombe kwiintombi zakhe. Ngendlela, esi siko esitsha ngokupheleleyo, asihambelani nexesha laseSlavic.
Kukho imimiselo emibini echaseneyo malunga nento enokuyenza ngayo emva kwemtshato. Eminye ixesha elide ligcinwa ngesimo esomileyo, ikholelwa ukuba kuzisa uvuyo, abanye bayiphosa. Umqondiso uthi i-bouquet kufuneka isatshiswe, ukuze kungabikho mntu onqabileyo kwintsapho yolonwabo. Yiyiphi ikhetho ongakhetha kuyo kukuya kuwe.
Imiqondiso yomtshato yamantombazana angatshatanga
Kwabantombazana abangatshatanga, umtshato we-intombi uyindlela enhle yokusebenzisa impawu emitshatweni yomtshato eya kubanceda ukuba baphucule ubomi babo kwixesha elizayo elizayo. Umzekelo:
- uhleli etafileni lomtshato, ungasondeli ngokukhawuleza umgca weetafile - oku kuqinisekisa ukuba uza kutshata emva kweminyaka emibili ezayo;
- uphawu luthi - awukwazi ukuhlala "ekhoneni", oku kunqanda umtshato;
- Kukho uphawu oluphambene nalo: ukuba intombazana ihlezi "kwikona", umyeni uya kuba naye "ngekona" - oko kukuthi, kunye neendawo zakhe zokuhlala;
- uphawu luthi-ukuba umntu ongumhambi uthengile ngephutha (okuyi-champagne!) - kungekudala uza kutshata;
- udaniso nomntu ohlala kufuphi nawe etafileni - into embi: ngoko ubeka eceleni umtshato wakho; ngokuba udaniso kufuneka ukhethe abo bahleli kude nawe.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, awukwazi ukulibala malunga neyona nto ibalulekileyo: ukubamba isiqhamo somtshakazi-kwimitshato yokuqala. Yingakho kwimitshato ethile kukho ukuxhamla kwangempela kwi-bouquet ekulindele ixesha elide!
Imiqondiso yomtshato yamangqina
Kukho imiqondiso emininzi ebonisa ukuba ngubani ozakukhetha njengamangqina. Ngoku oku akusadingeki umtshato, kodwa ezininzi izibini zihlala zihambisana nesithethe. Nanku kuyimfuneko ukukhumbula ukuhlakanipha kwabantu:
- amangqina kufuneka abe ngumtshato ongatshatanga omnye ongatshatileyo ukunika ulonwabo lwasemncinci (kwiseko lecawa, yile ndlela ejikelezayo);
- amangqina akufanele abe nolwalamano nomnye umntu - oku kukwabi kakhulu ;
- akukho namangqina kufuneka ahlukaniswe - mhlawumbi abaqatshatsha abasayi kuhlala kunye kunye ixesha elide;
- Amangqina omtshato ebandleni kufuneka ukuba atshate, akholwe kwaye ngokukhethekileyo-atshate;
- ngamangqina kukho isibonakaliso: ephindwe kabini emtshatweni -
Umtshato wesithathu kufuneka ube ngowakho, ngaphandle koko ungahlala wedwa wubomi; - abasandul 'ukutshata banomemeza "ngobuhlungu", kwaye amangqina - "amnandi" okanye "amuncu"; ngoko kungcono ukhethe elinye iqabane elingatshatanga;
- ukuze isibini sinovuyo, ubungqina bamele ubuncinane ubuncinane iiyure ezimbalwa kunomtshakazi.
Kukho amazwi amaninzi - izibonakaliso malunga nendlela yokulinganisa ingubo yomtshato, malunga nantoni na inyanga yokudlala umbhiyozo, kwanokuba imozulu yawa namhlanje. Musa ukuyithatha ngokungathandekiyo: ukuba uzimisele ukusebenzela ubudlelwane kunye nokunciphisa, ulonwabo lwakho lwentsapho oluya kuwe aluyi kuhamba naphi na.