Ukuba kwintsapho yakho yabantwana ababini bobulili obuhlukeneyo bakhula, ngubani na ohlala kwigumbi elinye, ukuklanywa kwesithuba sabo siqu kunokubangela ubunzima. Emva koko, amakhwenkwe namantombazana baneminqweno eyahlukeneyo, izinto ezithandwayo, amathoyizi. Makhe sicinge ngeendlela ezimbini ezibalulekileyo zokukhetha iphepha lodonga kwikamelo labantwana labantwana beesondo ezahlukeneyo.
Ukungqinelana
Ikhetho lokuqala lokukhetha iphepha lodonga kwigumbi labantwana kubantwana beesondo ezahlukeneyo kusekelwe ekukhangekeni kwimiqathango yenkwenkwana nentombazana. Ngoko ke, ukuba sithetha ngombala wekratshi, oko kuya kukhwankqisa okanye kuzinzile, kodwa kungathathi hlangothi: ophuzi, obomvu, obomvu. Kule meko, ngokuqinisekileyo, kuyaqiniseke ukuba izinto ezinjalo njengepinki okanye i-lilac ziya kutshabalala, ezithi, ngokubhekiselele kumbono ochanekileyo, zifanelekile kuphela kumantombazana. Kodwa ukhetho lokusebenzisa i-blue blue okanye iphepha lesibhakabhaka liyakucingwa, kuba ukubopha kwalo mbala ukuqonda kwindoda yesini ayinamandla.
Ukuba siyeka kwiipatheni, ke ukutshatyalaliswa kwintsholongwane yomntwana wesini ohlukeneyo kunokufunyanwa ngokubonakalisa umdla oqhelekileyo. Ngokomzekelo, inkwenkwe ayifuni ukuba neentyantyambo okanye iifetflethi kwiphepha lodonga, kodwa intombazana ngokumelene neerobhothi kunye neemoto. Kodwa ngokubhekiselele kwimidwebo yezilwanyana okanye iinkwenkwezi, abanakunanto kwaye bobabini bavumelana nale ndlela. Kufuneka ukhethe iphepha lodonga , ukuba ufuna ukuyisebenzisa ngaphakathi. Khetha isihloko esingathathi hlangothi, kwaye ngoko imeko ekwindlwana iya kubhenela ngokubini inyana nentombi.
Ukwahlula umdla
Indlela yesibini onokuya ngayo xa uthenge iphepha lodonga kwigumbi labantwana labantwana beesondo ezahlukeneyo kukucwangcisa igumbi kwinxalenye yenkwenkwana kunye nenxalenye yentombazana. Ngamanye amaxesha ukuhlukana okunjalo kunokubonakaliswa ngoluhlu oluncinane phakathi kwegumbi.
Ngethuba elifanayo, izinto eziphambili zomdonga wodonga kufuneka zibe zifanayo kwimizuzu yomibini. Ngoko ke, ukuba unquma ukusebenzisa iphepha lodonga ngentsimbi kwinxalenye yentombazana, kufuneka uthabathe amaphephadonga kunye nemoto okanye i-superhero yesiqingatha somfana. Kodwa imibala okanye iipatheni zephepha lodonga kumacala omabini ahlukeneyo. Unokukhetha inhlanganisela yeklastiki: i-blue / pink, kwaye ungazibuza abantwana ngokwabo umbala ababefuna ukukubona. Into edibanisayo yangaphakathi kule ngxaki inokusebenza njengeenkcukacha zokugqitywa kweendonga, isilingi kunye nomgangatho: amabhodi amhlophe aguqayo, isitifiketi esifanayo samacala omabini, isitya esisodwa. Ungasebenzisa kwakhona iphepha lodonga (umzekelo, umhlophe), oludibaniswe nalabo abakhethiweyo kwiihafu.
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