Inani elikhulu kakhulu labesetyhini liyinto yokucinga ngokubanzi kunye nokucinga ngokuphathelele amadoda ngokukodwa. Ngokuqhelekileyo umxholo weengcamango ezinjalo uvavanyo lokuthi ulungile kangakanani embhedeni. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba kukho iindlela ezininzi apho abafazi abathandekayo banokufumanisa indlela abafumana ngayo amaqabane abo kwizondo zesini. Kwaye abo banomdla kakhulu kulo mbandela, nango-5 izibonakaliso zomntu omthandayo nombi.
Iimpawu zothando olungenalwazi
Ngoko ke, sinika ulwazi lwakho uluhlu lwezenzo ezibonisa ngokucacileyo abanolwazi kwiKazanova, apho umntu angakwazi ukubeka ngokucacileyo le miqondiso ephawulekayo yintshahla yeentliziyo zeentombi kwaye, ngokungaqhelekanga njengoko kubonakala ngathi, imizimba.
- Akayena mvakalelo, i-phlegmatic, ukuba ukuthintela kwakhe akubangeli isizathu esincinci. Kodwa emva koko, uthinte, kwindawo yokuqala, uthethe malunga nokuba umntu unobuntu obuthandayo. Ukufuphi, njengoko kuyaziwa, kuyadingeka ukuze kutshabalalise, kuvusa isithandwa. Ngoko ke, ukuba uyakuphepha ukuchukumisa ngemihla yakho, oku kubonisa ukuba akayinto enhle kakhulu ngokuvuya. Khumbula: umntu wokwenene wenza konke ofunayo.
- Ukungabi nento yokuhlaziya kunye namandla. Ukuba loo mntu akayazi indlela yokuhleka, ukhangeleka kakhulu. Akufanele uxabise nethemba lokuba unalo naziphi izakhono zomthandayo. Yena, ngokukhawuleza, uya kuba ngumgca omnye kwaye akayi kukwazi ukongeza izinto zokuzonwabisa kwimidlalo yokulala. Umntu onwabileyo, onwabileyo kuphela onokuyichitha imeko, kwaye ke ke, ingqalelo.
- Umfana ukhathazeke kakhulu ngokubonakala kwakhe. Ukuba uthetha ngokungapheziyo okanye ngokubonakala kwakhe, oku kuwuphawu lokuba ebhedeni akayi kukwazi ukubonakalisa ubuntu bakhe, ukudibanisa kwihlabathi lonwabo kwaye ujabulise. Indoda elandelayo ngokuqinisekileyo, kodwa ngokulinganayo. Uya kugxininiswa nokubonakala kwakhe, kungekhona wena, okubonisa ukuba ukulala naye kuya kuphela ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zakhe, kungekhona zakho. Ngokuqhelekileyo, isondo kunye nomntu ongqingiliyo, uthi, akuyona into ekhethekileyo.
- Usoloko ufuna kwaye uyakhawuleza esi siganeko. Ukuba iqabane likhawuleza kwaye lifuna ukwenza uthando ngoku, ke amathuba okuba amava akhe ezesondo alula. Ngoko, ngokukhawuleza xa umthandi omhle elenza ulinde loo mzuzwana, mthandayo kwaye umcele ukuba abe naye. Uyazi ukuba ixesha elide elinde, elihle liza kuba yisipho.
- Akayangeli kakuhle. Ndikholelwe, phantse uphawu olubaluleke kakhulu lomthandi ongalunganga kukukwazi ukumanga. Ukuba loo mntu akakwazi ukukunqwenela ngokukhawuleza kunye nokukhanga ngobuchule, ngoko ke, kwezinye iziganeko, akayinto enhle kwaye akayi kuphelelwa yithemba elingenanto. U kiss uthi konke.
Hlangana noKazanov
Kwaye ngoku iziqalo 5 zomthandi omkhulu:
- Ukhaliphe kwaye akaqhayisa. Ukuba umntu uhlangabezana ngokugqibeleleyo nexesha lokulala lokubhinqa, akayi kuthetha ngaye ngasekunene nakwesobunxele, ebonisa izakhono zakhe. Ngokuphambene noko, umntu oqolileyo akaze aziqhayise ngexesha lakhe elidlulileyo, akaqhathanisi nabanye, kodwa uyaqonda yonke into njengento edlulileyo kwaye akukho nto. Ubunjalo bomntu bubumnandi kakhulu, kuya kukunceda, ndikholelwe.
- Amehlo kunye namehlo. Ukuqhagamshelana kwamehlo ekuthandaneni, ukudlala ngothando kubaluleke kakhulu. Kubukeka kwintliziyo yakho, ngamanye amaxesha, kunokubonisa unomdla wokwenene. Umzuzu osisigxina uthetha ubuninzi. Ngoko qaphela indlela umhlobo wakho ekhangele ngayo. Emva koko, imbono ibonisa ukubonakalisa kwakhe ukulala ebhedeni.
- Ulwimi lwezandla njengento yokuzibonakalisa. Umzimba womntu uthetha kakhulu ngokuzithemba okanye ukuxhalaba, ukuxhatshazwa okanye ukulingana. Umthandi othandekayo ngokwakhe uya kukubonisa oku ngokuzenzekelayo kunye nesimo sombuso . Kunzima ukuphawula izibonakaliso ezicacileyo zomzimba (indlela abamba ngayo izandla, indlela ekuthintela ngayo, indlela aguqa ngayo, ukukrazula into enhle kakhulu endlebeni yakho). Konke oku kunokubonisa uphawu lothandayo.
- Unomonde kwaye unomdla.
Umntu onjalo uyazi indlela yokwenza umonde kwaye uthathe amanyathelo ngokukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza, ngokukhawuleza, okwenza ube nandipha yonke into yesibini yokuchitha ixesha kunye naye. Uya kukunyanzela ukuba ube nomdla kuye kwaye unyameze yonke ikhosi yeziganeko. Yaye akumangalisi. Emva koko, umonde womntu onjalo uyintloko. - Uyabanga kwakhona. Uphakame uthando, u-kisses ophantsi. Kwakhona siza kuphinda: kisses bathethe malunga nomfana kakhulu. Ukuba u kisses lukhulu, yenza intliziyo yakho ingabetha ngokukhawuleza, kwaye amadolo aguqa - oku kubonisa ukuba inkwenkwe yakho inomdla obalaseleyo kwaye iya kukunika unonwabo olukhulu.