Umntwana ubhalelwe embhedeni - abazali abaninzi abaselula bajamelana nale ngxaki. Kwaye ukufumana impendulo kulo mbuzo "Indlela yokululela umntwana ukuba abhale ebusuku?" Ngaba akazami nje kuphela ngamama kunye noodade, kodwa kunye nabagadi bezingane. Ngoko vsyo-taki, kutheni umntwana ebhaliwe ebusuku?
Le ngxaki ibandakanyeke kakhulu nophuhliso lomzimba kunye nokuphuhliswa kwenkqubo yakhe yomnatha. Njengomthetho, abantwana abafundiswa ukubhala kwiminyaka engama-4-5. Iidrafers zidlala indima enkulu kule nkqubo. Ukuba umntwana usetyenziselwa ukuhamba nokulala e-diaper, ke kunzima kakhulu kuye ukuba aziqhelane nale mkhuba.
Kwenzeka ukuba umntwana osele ejwayele ukucela ibhokhwe aqala ukubhala. Oku kungenxa yezizathu ezininzi:
- umntwana ukhululeka ebusuku. Ukushisa okuphantsi kwigumbi kuncedisa kule nkqubo. Njengomthetho, ngobusuku abantwana abavuki. Abazali abaninzi kamva bayaqaphela ukuba, nabantwana abaneminyaka emi-5 ubudala, babhalwa ebusuku, xa indlu iya kubanda;
- i-kindergarten. Abanye abantwana, xa beya engadini, baqale ukubhala. Ukuba umntwana ubhaliwe kwiminyaka emi-3 okanye emine, oko kungabangelwa kukubonakala okutsha. Ukuqokelela abantwana, imihla ngemihla, umoya omtsha-ezi zinto zichaphazela kakhulu uphuhliso kunye nemeko yomzimba;
- ukuvela komntwana omtsha kwintsapho. Ukuba umntwana waqala ukubhala emva kokuzalwa komntakwabo okanye udade omncinci, oku kubonisa iimvakalelo zakhe ezinzulu. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, abantwana asebekhulile bavakalelwa kukuba balahliwe. Ngenxa yamava, umntwana, ejwayele ibhokhwe, angaqala ukubhala;
- uxinzelelo. Umntwana unamandla kunabantu abadala abachaphazelekayo kwiinguqu kunye neemeko ezahlukeneyo. Utshintsho lweendawo zokuhlala, isangqa esitsha soqhagamshelwano, isangqa sokudala - zonke ezi zinto zinokubangela ukuba umntwana oneminyaka engama-3-4 uqala ukubhala kwakhona.
Indlela yokululela umntwana ukuba abhale?
Le nkqubo yendalo. Xa uneminyaka yobudala, umntwana uqala ukuqonda ukuba awukwazi ukubhala kwiincindi zakho okanye embhedeni, kodwa kufuneka ucele ibhokhwe. Abazali, nabo ke, kufanele ukuba bancedise kule nkqubo kwaye bathethe nomntwana. Kukho iingcebiso ezininzi, indlela yokululela umntwana ukuba abhale:
- ukushiya i-diaper okanye ukunciphisa ukusetyenziswa kwayo ubuncinci. Bonke oomama bayazi ukuba kulula kangakanani ukusebenzisa i-diaper. Enyanisweni, le nto iququzelela ubomi bobazali. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba ngaphezu kokulula, i-diaper ingabangela iingxaki ezibalulekileyo. Abantwana abasetyenziselwa i-diapers, ehlala "esomile kwaye ekhululekile" abaqala ukucela ibhodwe. Abayifuni nje isidingo sayo. Ngenxa yoko, ukusetyenziswa kwexesha elide kweedrafta kubangela ukuba kunzima ukuwenqaba - kwaye umntwana uyaqhubeka ebhala ebhedini. Abazali abaninzi banamathela kumbindi njengoko kulindelwe, kodwa qhubekani usebenzisa i-diaper ebusuku. Umntwana onjalo akabhalwa ebantwini emini, kodwa ubhalwa ephupheni ebusuku;
- utyala umntwana ebhodweni, ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunokwenzeka, nokuba akayi kubuza. Ingakumbi le nkqubo iyimfuneko ukuba umntwana ubhalwa njalo. Ngexesha elifanayo, umntwana kufuneka achaze isizathu sokuba kubalulekile ukucela ibhodwe. Abantwana badinga kuphela ezimbalwa
iiveki ukuqonda lo bulumko; - umkhwa umntwana kwindlu yangasese yasebusuku. Abantwana abaneminyaka engama-3-5 abanako ukunyamezela iiyure ezingama-9. Ngenxa yoko, ngokuqhelekileyo umntwana ubhalwa ebusuku. Kukulungele ukuvusa umntwana ebusuku ngamaxesha aphindwe kabini kwaye ubeke ebhodweni, nokuba uthe uthe akafuni. Emva kwexesha umntwana uya kufunda ukuba avuke yedwa yangasese yangasese.
Kwenzeka ukuba umntwana oneminyaka engama-6 okanye iminyaka engama-7 ngokukhawuleza uqala ukubhala. Kule meko, abazali abadingeki ukuba bathuke ngokukhawuleza baze babalekele ugqirha. Umele ulinde iintsuku ezimbalwa. Le ngxaki inokudibaniswa noxinzelelo kwaye, njengomthetho, iyanyamalala yodwa kwiintsuku ezingama-7-10. Ukuba umntwana omdala uyaqhubeka ebhala ixesha elide aze abonise ukwesaba, ngoko-ke kuyimfuneko ukutyelela udokotela wezilwanyana.