Ndiyakhumbula xa mna nabahlobo bam besemncinci kwaye sikhululekile, sasihlala siphela ingxoxo yokuhlwaya kwifowuni ngesifiso sokuphupha kwamaphupho. Omnye uphuphayo, abanye abayithandi, oku akusiyo nto. Yaye inyaniso kukuba abanye abafazi abavumi nje ukuphupha ngokuqulathekileyo kokubona, ngokunjalo ukuzonwabisa kwabo kubaphatha. Kuthe nokuba ne-orgasm ephupheni.
Ukufumana i-orgasm ephupheni iqhelekileyo?
Ngamanye amaxesha abafazi abaye bafumana i-orgasm ngexesha lokulala, banemibuzo malunga nempilo yabo yengqondo. Ewe, ngokwenene, fumana i-orgasm ebusuku, ubuthongo, ngaphandle kokuvuselela, akunjalo? Enyanisweni, "ulwaphulo-mthetho" akukho nto kule nto, ubuncinane, kukuba uluvo olunjalo lulwazi lulwazi. Izibalo zichaza ukuba ama-68% amabhinqa awabona amaphupha angamaqhinga angama-5 ngeenyanga, ngelixa i-35% yabasetyhini bafumana i-orgasm ngexesha lokulala. Yintoni enxulumene namava anzima kunzima ukusho, kuba akukho nxu lumano phakathi kobunzima bobulili besini kunye namava angamakhwenkwe ephupheni. Abanye abafazi bafumana ukungabikho kwemvakalelo yezesondo, umzekelo, ngexesha lohambo olude lomyeni. Abanye, benomntu ngecala, bengenakuqwenela ukuba basondele kuye, ngokukhawuleza bavuke kwixesha elide lobusuku. Kwaye okokuqala amava afanelekileyo ephupheni ayenzeka kumantombazana ukususela ebusheni. Inyaniso kule meko, yonke into ibhalwa ukulungiswa kwakhona kwe-hormonal.
Ngokukodwa kubalulekile ukuxelela malunga ne-orgasm ephupheni xa ukhulelwa. Amanye amaxesha omama anokukhathazeka kakhulu ngale nto. Enyanisweni, le nto inokulimaza umntwana? Kulo mbandela, oogqirha bahlangene - ukuba akukho sisongelo sokukhupha isisu kunye nezinye iingxaki, ngoko-ke i-orgasm, nokuba iphupha okanye inyaniso, iya kuba luncedo kuphela kumfazi okhulelweyo nomntwana.
Yintoni engayichaza amaphupha angenangqondo?
Ngokweziphumo zeengcali zenzululwazi zephupha (ewe, kwaye ezo ziqhutyelwe), kwagqitywa ukuba amaphupha anjalo abonwa ngabasetyhini abaneminyaka engama-20 ukuya kwimi-25 nangemva kweminyaka engama-40, ngaba ngamaxesha amaninzi anqatshelwe ukuba awanelisekanga ngesondo. Kodwa kunjalo, iinjongo zesondo zithetha ntoni okanye zizama nje ukukhulula ingqondo ekhulelwe? Kwimpendulo yalo mbuzo ukuhlukaniswa kwamaphupha afanayo kuya kusinceda. Iyakwamkelwa ukuhlukanisa amaqela amathathu: iingubo ezicacileyo, ezifanekisayo nezingaqhelekanga. Makhe sithethe ngohlobo ngalunye ngokubanzi.
- Amaphupha acacileyo. La maphupha abonisa iminqweno yakho, ngenxa yesizathu esithile awukwazi ukuyenza, okanye uxelele ngabo. Umzekelo, ufuna ngokwenene ukulala ngesicatshulwa, kodwa awukwazi ukwenza (unomfazi, abantwana abathathu, kwaye awukhululwa). Nanku umzimba wakho kwaye uzama ukuzalisekisa umnqweno wakho nakwiphupha. Kwakhona, amaphupha anjalo ayenzeka kumntu ixesha elide elithintekayo ngokwesini. Ngokude ukuzilahla, ngokuphindaphindiweyo amaphupha, zibonakalisa ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini, ezingenakususwa ngokwenene. Kwaye amaphupha aloo mvelo angabonakalisa iminqweno yesini, enoba ungayifumani. Ngokuqhelekileyo abafazi babona isondo kunye namadoda amabini, isondo somlomo, isondo kunye nolwazi oluqhelekileyo, njl njl.
- Amaphupha afanayo. Iimpawu zabantu abenza ngenxa yokukhuliswa kwabo, baxubushe ngesondo into engcolileyo kwaye engafanelekiyo. Ezi nkathazo zibonakaliswa ngamaphupha kungekhona ngento echasayo, ubuchopho babo
i-encrypts kwiibali ezahlukeneyo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuqhuba imoto, ukubhabha, ukuwa, ukuhlola (ukungena kwangaphakathi) impompo, ukubonakala kwezinto zephalli - ubhanana, ukhukhamba, njl. - Amaphupha angaqhelekanga. Eli candelo libandakanya amaphupha afika kumntu oyinkunzi engama-100%, malunga nokuthatha inxaxheba kwisini kunye nabalingani bobulili obufanayo. Musa ukuqwalasela lo mboniso weminqweno yakho eyimfihlo, akusoloko kunjalo. Ngokomzekelo, umfazi unokufumana ithuba lokujonga ngesondo nentombazana ngenxa yokungabikho kwe-caress, ingqwalasela kunye neengqondo ezintle. Kule nto akukho nto iphosakeleyo, ngaphezu koko, oogqirha baqukumbele ukuba amaphupha anesifo esiluncedo anceda umfazi ukuba akwazi ukujamelana nokuxinezeleka.