Kangaphi, ekhangele ngasemva, siqinisekisa ukuba usizi lomntu luye lwadlula enye yeemeko, emva kweminyaka, kubonakala ngathi sitshitshiswe. Omnye wabo undala njengehlabathi: amadoda abuyela kwixesha langaphambili.
Washiya, kwaye ngomzuzwana umtsalane wokuthukuthela wenza ukuba uyamzonda. Emva koko, ngenxa yesizathu esithile, yonke into yayikhunjulwa nje kuphela, kodwa emphefumlweni wam wenza ukukhanya okungaqondakali komnqweno wokuziphindezela. Kamva, kwaye inzondo yadlula, kukho intlungu kunye nokulangazelela intanda. Into embi iphelile kwimemori, kwaye kubonakala kuwe ukuba amaxesha amnandi njengalo, akayi kuphinda abe. Uqala ukuzigxeka kwaye uqhubeke ulinda, mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba nje ulindele ukulinda. Amadoda abonakala ebomini bakho abadluli uvavanyo "olunjengeye." Kwaye ungavumeli ulonwabo ebomini bakho, mhlawumbi uyazi. Mhlawumbi uzama ukuyibuyisela, kodwa ayikazange ifakwe ingubo.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni unomuvo wokuthi ubomi buqala ukuzisa uvuyo. Uqala ukuphefumlela imibono yabasemzini, usasaza amaphiko akho. Udibana nomntu omtsha. Uva amanqaku aqhelekileyo othando entliziyweni yakho. Ngomso uyavela ...
Kutheni amadoda ebuyela kwixesha langaphambili, kwaye kutheni i-psychology yabo ukuze bakhethe umzuzu ongenakwenzekayo kule nto? Njengengoma ingoma: "Ndiya kumisa ukulinda, kwaye uza kuza ... ngokukhawuleza."
Kutheni amadoda ehlala ebuyela?
Eyokuqala, makhe siqale ngento engekho rhoqo. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo. Okokuqala kufuneka uqonde ukuba kutheni amadoda asiphosa, kwaye kuphela-ke kutheni abuyele.
Mhlawumbi ulwalamano lwakho luya kwindawo apho eyeka ukuziva ngathi uyindoda. Indlela ayenayo kuwe ekuqaleni kobudlelwane. Awusayikumhlonela (kwaye mhlawumbi sele udidekile) wakhe umonakalo, uyamqonda njengengxenye efanelekileyo ebomini bakho. Awuzami ukubukeka ngathi ushiya nje i-salon yobuhle. Kwaye nanguyo ohlakisayo kwiintlanzi zakhe, ohlala evuya kwaye ehlambulukileyo. Indoda inomdla, ivakalelwa kukuba iyimfuneko, ithandwa. Uze ushiye apho uyavuya khona, apho ubomi obungaphelelwanga khona ngama-scandals kunye nobomi bemihla ngemihla.
Emva kwexesha elithile amadoda abuyele kule ngxaki. Njengomthetho, ngokukhawuleza ekupheleni kwexesha le-bouquet-candy nge-passion entsha. Xa efumanisa ukuba amahlaya akhe awasayi kuthoba, kwaye iziganeko zenzeke ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Kutheni oku kwenzekayo? Ngenxa yokuba sivame ukukhetha uhlobo oluthile lwabantu, oluhambelana nehlabathi lethu. Kwaye uqala ukukhumbula wena, kwaye iinkumbulo zakhe zivame ukupenda kwiitoni ezifudumalayo. Emva koko, ukutshaya, le ndoda iphinda ibuyele kwintsapho.
Ziziphi ezinye iimeko apho amadoda ethu abuya? Makhe siqwalasele lo mzekelo.
Mhlawumbi uzizise esibingelelweni sentsapho. Ndithwele umyeni wam njengomntwana omncinci. Ndilibale ngam. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, umntu unesilingo esikhulu kwaye aziphathe njengomntwana omncinci. Thatha okungagunyaziswanga. Ukutshatyalaliswa kwintlanzi, ngokombono wabo, abanonophelo. Kwaye umyeni washiya. Ngenxa yokuba uyazimela. Akufuneki ukuthetha, bangaphi abantu ababuyela kulo mzekelo. Ewe, ngokukhawuleza xa beva ukuba abanalo ukufudumala okwaneleyo nokunyamekela. Owesifazane omncinci uya kunika uncedo olunzulu ekuqaleni kobudlelwane. Okokuqala, umntwana ushiye
Kwenzeka, ke, ukuba indoda igxininiswe ngothando okanye uthando. Wena ungumzekelo womfazi ongcono kwihlabathi, kwaye ngoku uhlale kwindawo ephukile. Ngaba abantu bahlala bebuyela kubafazi abafanelekileyo? Ewe. Kodwa, ngelanga, iinjongo zabo ngamanye amaxesha ziyanqanda. Abaninzi baqala ukuhlazisa umfazi wakhe, bezama ukubonakalisa ihlabathi lonke kunye naye ngokwakhe ukuba kunamandla amakhulu kunye namandla kuye. Ngaba ndimele ndithathe umntu onjalo, ukuba abuyele kwintsapho, kufike kuwe ...