Ngexesha elide, intetho yethelevishini igxeka abaphulaphuli ngamabali malunga nokuba iminyaka eyi-10-20 emva kokuzalwa kwabantwana, abazali bafunda ukuba ngokwenene umntwana akayena owomthonyama - kwakukho ukutshintshwa kwabantwana kwikhaya lokubeleka. Ngaba le yinyani? Utshintsha kangangoko umntwana kwaye kutheni? Oku kwenzeka ngokwenene, kodwa kunqabile kakhulu. Ukuba awukhupheli iinjongo ezimbi zabasebenzi bezonyango kunye nokukhetha okwenziwe ngumntwana esibhedlele, ngoko kukho ukunganyaniseki kwababeleki kunye noogqirha.
Ukuqapha
Ukuba ukhathazekile, oku kungenzeka kwintsapho yakho, xhalabele malunga nokuzalwa komntu kunye ne-post-natal ward. Kwizindlu ezininzi zokubeletha esi sithethe sele sisetyenzisiwe. Umama nosana abahlulelwanga ngexesha lokuziswa. Ukongezelela, izenzo zolawulo zoMphathiswa wezeMpilo zinikezela ngamanani amanyathelo anceda ukuchonga iintsana. Ukuze kungabikho ukudibanisa abantwana esibhedlele, ngokukhawuleza emva kokuzalwa kwabo, umlinganiselo weempawu zemizimba uyenziwa ngokulungiswa kolwazi kwimiqulu. Itekisi elincinci elincinci linamathele kunyawo kunye nokusingatha komntwana, apho idatha yomama (igama), ixesha lokubonakala komntwana, ukuphakama kwayo, isondo kunye nesisindo kubonisiwe. Emva koko, la "maxwebhu" yokuqala omama agcinwe ngokucophelela ebomini bomntwana.
Yonke intokazi, ngokokuqala ngqa ebona i-crumb, ukhumbula ngonaphakade iimpawu zobuso bakhe. Aba bangaphandle bangathi zonke iintsana zivela ngaphandle. Nokuba iphunga kunye nezwi zikhunjulwa! Ukukhala umntwana wakho, owathi wathathwa ukuze ahlolwe okanye aphethwe rhoqo, uya kufunda kwiwaka lamazwi.
Enye indlela kuzalwa ngumlingani. Kule meko, kungekhona kuphela umama oya kumbona umntwana, kodwa noyise, onokuthatha inxaxheba ekusebenzeni.
Ukuze ungatshintshi abantwana esibhedlele, uMphathiswa wezeMpilo kwiiplani ezizayo ukusebenzisa iteknoloji, esetyenziswa ngoku
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