Siqokelele iingcebiso ezibalulekileyo eziza kunceda ekutshintsheni ubomi balo nawuphi na umntu onokuphucula. Qaphela, kwaye emva kweveki uya kuqaphela ukuba imeko iyatshintsha, kwaye emva kwenyanga - yonke into iya kuhluke ngokupheleleyo.
- Ukuba umntu akazange adibana neengxaki: "Ngubani na ongakhethayo" - unokuthiwa unoyolo ngokukhuselekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ngokuqhelekileyo bevela kumaqabane abo abaninzi beva oku. Eli cebiso liya kunceda ekuqinisekiseni ukhetho.
- Ngaba uhlala ukhumbule ngawe kwindawo yokugqibela okanye ubalekele ngokukodwa ukumema kwenye indawo? Mhlawumbi uzama ukungena kwindawo yakho yentlalo. Ukuhamba eceleni kwithuba elithile, ungabona ukuba ufuna abantu abanjalo, nokuba ngaba kuyimfuneko kuwe.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abaninzi benza izinto ezithile, ngokusekelwe kwintoni abanye abantu abacinga ngazo. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kukhokelela kwiziphumo ezingenelisekile kwi-100% ngomntu.
- Uthando kunye nobuhlobo kukuxolelwa kunye nomonde. Kodwa kwanona mntu unesigulane uthe wathi kuye: "Kwanele! Ndanele! " Ishiya kwakhona ngokungenakwenzeka.
- Ukuba akukho zihlobo, kunokufuneka utshintshe into ebomini okanye kumlingiswa wakho. Kodwa ukuba ngaba kunjalo, mhlawumbi kungcono ukutshintsha isangqa soqhagamshelwano. Abahlobo abanjalo banokubethwa ngasemva ngasiphi na umzuzu.
- Xa abantu abaphumelelayo bebuzwa malunga neemfihlo eziphambili zempumelelo yabo, bakhumbula oko kuphela. Iphupha kunye neeplani zilahlekelwa kubaluleka emva kokuba zivakaliswe ngaphandle. Kwaye, mhlawumbi, umntu uya kufuna ukuphazamisa iingcamango ezibalulekileyo.
- Yingakho umntu otshintshile kanye, unokukwenza oko okwesibini nowesithathu. Akunakulungile ngabantu abanjalo.
- Wonke umntu kufuneka alwele okuthile. Eyona nto ingcono, ukuba ezi ngcamango zangempela ziyakwenziwa. Ukubeka nje-iphupha elilodwa elikhulu, lihlukaniswe kwiincinci ezincinci, liya kukuvumela ukuba uphile ngokuphumelelayo kwaye ngononophelo.
- Ngelishwa, oku kudla ngokuba yimeko ebomini. Ngoko ke, 'ungabachithi' abantu - bawaxabise.
Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba kwiimeko ezininzi abantu bazingca kwaye bacinga kuphela. Ulwalamano lwadlulela uvavanyo lwamandla? Yinyamekele loo mntu, ubaluleke kakhulu. Kodwa ukuba ungenalo ithemba kumntu, musa ukuthatha ubomi bomnye umntu entliziyweni. Lo mgaqo uvumela ukuba wenze lula indlela yakho.