Ubunjani ubuntombi obuyingozi emva komzimba wesetyhini?
Ngokwezibalo, namhlanje, intombazana ehlala kwisixeko, eneminyaka engama-22 ubudala, sele isenamava ezesondo, kwaye ngaphezu koko, kulo nyaka, njengomthetho, sele sele sele iqabane lamadoda amaninzi. Nangona kunjalo, malunga nama-20% amantombazana akangxamanga ukungena ebomini bobulili kude kube ngama-25-27 iminyaka, ngelixa belinde kuphela.
Ukuba siyakuqwalasela iingxelo ze-sexologists, ngoko ukulahleka kwezinto zobuntombi ngokukhawuleza kuya kuba yinto ephuculayo yokuphuhlisa ububele. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, i- orgasm kunye nobuhlobo bobulili obuqhelekileyo ibhinqa lifumana ixesha elingaphantsi.
Ukuba sicinga emva koko ukungabi nobuntombi ukusuka kwicala lempilo, ngokwemiqathango yezokwelapha, loo ntombazana ihlala eneengxaki zengqondo, ezidibaniswa noxinzelelo olungenakunceda kwiintombi zamantombazana.
Ngokumalunga nabesilisa, bayaxolisa abo bafazi abangazange balahlekelwe ubuntombi babo kwixesha elide, bebakhoxela ukungathembeki nokungaqiniseki. Emva koko, ngenxa yamadoda amaninzi, isondo siyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yolwalamano phakathi kwesini esahlukileyo. Ngako oko, eli qiniso libhekwa njenge-asexualality, ekugqibeleni likhokelela ekubeni bhinqa bahlala bengatshatanga kwaye abatshati.
Ziziphi iingxaki iintombazana ezilahlekelwa ngobuntombi babo ebomini bombuso?
Akunjalo yonke intombazana eye yenze isigqibo sokuba ingalali ixesha elide liyazi ukuba ubuntombi bakhe buyingozi. Ngokuqhelekileyo le nto ibangela ukuba:
- abantu abakujikeleze intombazana baqala ukukrokra, ukuba bayabona,
ukuba akanalo uxhumano olunzulu; - le ntombazana iyamoyika ukuvuma kwakhethiweyo yakhe, ukuba ihlambulukile intombi;
- zonke iindwendwe ze-gynecologist ziba ngumnye uvavanyo lweentsholongwane, ngenxa yokungacacisi nokunyaniseka kwabagqirha ngabanye;
- ukunciphisa ukuzithemba, ngenxa yokuba Iimbono zoluntu zihlala zithetha ngeziphoso zala ma ntombazana.
Imiphumo engentla apha yobuntombi obusondeleyo ayinakubizwa ngokuba luhlu olupheleleyo lwezinto zonke ezinokuthi zenzeke kuloo ntombazana. Nangona kunjalo, ku funeka kuqatshelwe ukuba ngamnye umfazi unelungelo lokuthatha isigqibo ngokuzimeleyo xa eqala ubomi bakhe besondo.