Umntu ngamnye ubeka intsingiselo yakhe kwiingcamango zeziphi iinjongo. Omnye ukholelwa ukuba lo luphawu oluphambili kumntu womntu ophumeleleyo, ngelixa abanye bechasene - cinga ukuba le ntetho engenanto kwaye akukho nto incike kwiinjongo, kodwa kunoko. Ngaba oku oku kulungile okanye okungalunganga? Baya kunceda bani, kwaye badlala nini na?
Yintoni iinjongo zomntu?
Abantu bazalwa benesethi ethile yezakhono neempawu. Ukuzinqwenela - kunemibandela ethile, uphawu lomntu ngamnye, olwenziwe kumlinganiselo omkhulu okanye ngaphantsi. Uphuhliso lwawo luxhomekeke kwimeko yentlalo ngexesha lokubunjwa kobuntu, oko kukuthi, ukususela kwimpumelelo yokuqala yobuntwaneni kuze kusetyenziswe ngokupheleleyo ubuntu. Abantu abanqwenelekayo akubona abo bafumana yonke into kanye, ngokuchaseneyo - bafezekisa injongo yabo ngokwabo, inyathelo ngesinyathelo.
Ukuthanda - ngaba kuhle okanye kubi?
Ukufezekisa ubuncinci impumelelo encinci, yinto yokuqala ukuqala ukuhamba, umntu kufuneka abe nomnqweno wokwenza izenzo, uqonde oko akufunayo, jonga amathemba okuvula. Ngoko ke, umntu onomdla ngumntu ohamba phambili ekujoliswe kuyo. Wonke umntu unento yokwenza ngobomi. Kuphela abanye abantu bayakha "izicwangciso zeNapoleonic", ngelixa ezinye zanele.
Ziziphi iinjongo?
Kukho iinjongo ezifana neenjongo zobunqunu, ezibonisa umntu othetha kakhulu, ufuna yonke into, ukwakha izicwangciso ezinkulu, kodwa uhlala kwindawo. Iqondo lokubonakalisa ukuzithemba lixhomekeke kwimeko yomntu , ukujonga kwakhe izinto ezizungezile kunye nokukwazi ukuhlalutya okwenzekayo. Into ebalulekileyo yikhono lokugxila kuphela ekufezeni iinjongo zakho, kodwa kwakhona ukuba uqaphele ukuba oku akuyi kubalimaza abanye. Ngokwezinga lokuphuhliswa kweembambano zikhona iintlobo ezahlukeneyo:
- gqithisa;
- ngaphantsi;
- esekelwe.
Iinjongo ezinengqiqo
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ukwazi ukuqonda kakuhle iinjongo. Ukwamkelwa okwaneleyo kwenyaniso kunye nokuqhathaniswa kwezinto-isibambiso sokuzifezekisa ngokuphumelelayo kuluntu, ekukhuthazeni izinga lezemisebenzi. Abantu abanezimangalo ezisemgangathweni bayazi kakuhle into abayifunayo, babala izixhobo ngokuchanekileyo (amandla abo), ngoko ke banempumelelo enkulu ekuzaliseni izicwangciso zabo zobomi. Ubuntu obulula lula ulwimi oluqhelekileyo nabantu ngokuqhelekileyo baphatha ukugxeka kunye neengcebiso. Akusiyo yonke into ayifuni ngaso sonke isikhathi ngokukhawuleza, kodwa ewa, awanciphisi ngezandla zabo, kodwa avuke aze ahambe ngokuzithemba ekujoliswe kuyo.
Ukunyanzelisa iinjongo
Ngenxa yokuzithoba, iinjongo zomntu ziya kubakho phantsi. Olu hlobo lubonakaliswe ngendlela yokungabi nkululeko, ukungakwazi ukubonakalisa. Abantu abanjalo abanalo inkcazelo malunga naluphi na ulwalathiso lokuhamba. Bahlala bezinikezela okwangoku kwaye bazame ukuphepha ithuba lokuba bathathe inxaxheba ebomini bentlalo, nakwabo. Umfanekiso wesimo "samagundane asegrey". Njengomthetho, ngumntu ongenakubonwa okanye ukuva. Oku akuthethi ukuba abantu abanjalo abanalo iminqweno okanye iimfuno, abazami ukuzama ukwenza nayiphi na imizamo yokulungisa iingxaki.
Iinjongo ezingaphezulu
Olu hlobo lugqwesileyo kubantu abanokuzithemba kakhulu. Iinjongo ezigqithiseleyo zifuna iimfuno eziphezulu kakhulu nakwezinye. Ngakumbi kwabanye. Umntu ugxininise ekufezekiseni iinjongo zakhe ezizimeleyo eziyeka ukuphawula ezinye iimfuno zabantu. Oku kuziphatha akunikezeli ngendlela efanelekileyo yokwakha ubudlelwane kuluntu. Ekugqibeleni ukhokelela ekubeni yedwa, ukuxabana, ukungathandi.
Indlela yokuphuhlisa iinjongo zomntu?
Izibongo kubantu zifakwa kwisibeleko. Zonke ezi zinto zingathintela ukwandisa ukuzithemba , nokuphakamisa okanye ukunciphisa iimfuno zakho kunye nehlabathi elikujikelezayo. Konke oku akuthethi ukuba awukwazi ukuhlakulela iinjongo kwixesha eliziwayo. Uphuhliso oluchanekileyo luxhomekeke kwizinto ezininzi:
- imfundo yentsapho;
- inkqubo yexabiso elibekwe ebuntwaneni;
- ngokumalunga nokuphumelela komntu;
- impembelelo yentlalo esikolweni kwiminyaka.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uqonde ngokwaneleyo amandla akho namathuba - ngoko awuyi kucinga ukucinga ngombuzo weliphi iinjongo. Ukuba ukuzithemba kuhlaziywa, kufuneka ukwandise.
- Umzekelo, unokuzama ukwenza into ongayenzanga ngaphambili. Kufuneka ukholelwe ukuba uya kuphumelela, naye. Inokufana nokuxuma kweparachute, kunye nento engaphantsi kakhulu kunye nokudala. Zama ukubhala iinkondlo, ukuba awuzange wenze oku ngaphambili, okanye ukupheka isidlo esiphunga, ukuba ngaphezu kweeyayi awufumani nantoni na.
- Kubalulekile ukwakha ukucinga ngokufanelekileyo ngamakhono akho. Zinike isimo sengqondo uze uzifanise nabanye, qiniseka ukuba awukho mbi nakakhulu, kwaye banako - unako, kwaye mhlawumbi ungcono. Nika ingqalelo kwimpumelelo onayo kakade kwaye ucinge, bangaphi abantu abangenakukwenza oko sele ukwenzile.
Indlela yokumodareyitha inqwenela?
Iinjongo ezingekho phantsi kwezinto ezibutyebi zingabonakali nje kuphela kwimpilo yazo, kodwa kuzo zonke iindawo, ngokukodwa xa zidibana nolwalamano phakathi kwendoda nomfazi, ngoko kuyafaneleka ukuba ulungelelanise ukunyanzela kwakho kwaye uhlolisise. Ukujonga izinto ukusuka kwinqanaba elithile kwaye unqume ukuba ngaba ngokwenene uzama ukufezekisa ulonwabo okanye nokuba ufuna ukuyeka kwaye ukhangele ixesha elifutshane, uvavanye oko. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba ukuqonda ukuba imilinganiselo eninzi ingancitshiswa, isimo sengqondo kwihlabathi nakwabanye siya kutshintsha ngokuphawulekayo kwaye isimo sengqondo kuluntu siya kutshintsha kwakhona.
Ngaloo ndlela, isiphelo sikhombisa ukuba umntu onomdla ngumntu onayo yonke imisebenzi yokwenza impumelelo. Wonke umntu uya kwiinjongo zakhe. Omnye unentsapho, umntu unendawo ephakamileyo. Ngomlinganiselo wokukhuliswa kwabo kunye nokuqonda kwexabiso, bonke abantu bahluke kwaye iindlela zokufezekisa iinjongo ziya kuhluka. Ukufuna iinjongo ezinkulu akubi. Into ephambili ukuhlolwa okuchanekileyo kwimeko kunye namathuba.