Ukuba ukhetha njengabalingani bobulili bobulili obuhlukile, ulwabelana ngesondo, ukuba ubulili bakho buyingqingili. Kodwa kukho izikhundla eziphakathi. Owokuqala ukuthetha ngolu hlobo nguAlfred Kinsey, owakha isiqhelo sokugqweswa kwesigxina sesini, ngokubhekiselele kuyo ixabiso 0 libonisa ukuziphatha kwangaphambili kwesini, kunye nexabiso le-6 libonisa ubungqingili obupheleleyo. Ngokusekelwe kwisikali seKinsey, akukho mnye uvavanyo oluthile lokuqhelanisa nokwabelana ngesondo, ungakwazi ukuhamba ngenye yazo ngoku.
Uvavanyo kwizinga lezibonakaliso zeGaysey
Ukugqithisa uvavanyo ngokusekelwe kwisikali seKinsey, kufuneka uphendule le mibuzo ingezantsi. Inombolo yempendulo yinani lamaphupha. Uvavanyo lwabafazi:
1. Ngaba abafazi banokukugxeka?
- njani?
- Ewe, kodwa ngengozi;
- enye okanye kabini;
- Imifanekiso enesithunzi esuka kumaphephancwadi ewe, eqinisweni-ayikho;
- Amantombazana amantombazana amthanda kum ngaphezu kwamadoda;
- rhoqo;
- Mnandi kuphela amantombazana.
2. Uziva njani ngoontanga bakho xa uselula?
- bahlobo nje;
- Intombi yam ibonakala ibumnandi kum;
- ngezinye izihlandlo zothando;
- Emva kokuba umgca wobuhlobo uwele kwaye ndingathanda ukuphinda ndiphinde;
- Ndandithandana kakhulu nomnye wam bahlobo bam;
- ngokwaneleyo ukuba uthandane ukuqonda ukuba ndingumlingani wesini;
- kwakukho ubulili obukhulu kunye nezinto ezithandwayo.
3. Ngaba unobomi phakathi kweentombi zakho?
- akukho;
- kukho umhlobo kwi-Internet-correspondence;
- Ewe, kodwa asizange sithethe ixesha elide;
- Ndiyathetha nomtshato wesibini;
- kukho ezininzi, kwaye ndihlala ndithetha nabo;
- Ewe, kwaye sihlala sidibana;
- abaninzi, zonke iintombi zam ziintombi.
4. Ngaba uke wamanga umfazi?
- ngazange;
- kuphela kwiingcamango zabo;
- mhlawumbi unako, kodwa akuzange kube njalo;
- Ukubanga amadoda namabhinqa, kwakulungile;
- kwenzeka, kodwa kwakungabantu;
- ewe, kwaye kaninzi;
- Ndiyamanga nabasetyhini kuphela.
5. Ungathanda ngaphezulu:
- isidlo sothando kunye nendoda;
- ukudibana neentombi kunye nabahlobo;
- iqela elinomxholo ongcolileyo wesondo;
- iqela kwiklabhu yeqabane lesini, mhlawumbi iya kuba ngumfazi;
- iqela kwindawo edibeneyo;
- Ubusuku bendoda yobungqingili nabahlobo bezesondo, nangona unako ukubiza kunye namantombazana engqingili;
- iklabhu yezintshatsheli.
6. Udibana nomfazi onomdla. Yintoni elandelayo?
- uya kubona kulo ukhuphiswano;
- the lekisa nawe;
- amenze uncomo;
- Buza umntu wakho ukuba uyamthanda;
- cinga ukuba bekuya kuba kuhle njani embhedeni;
- zama u kudlala;
- ngokukhawuleza uthethe naye ngokuthe ngqiqo.
7. Xa ulala ngokulala nendoda, u ...
- nandipha;
- akubi, kodwa unako kwaye ungcono;
- Bathi isondo kunye nomfazi kunokuthabatha;
- Ngesinye isikhathi bacinga ukuba ulala embhedeni nentombazana;
- Baye bacinga ukuba ibhinqa likujoyine;
- kunye nomnye umfazi;
- awukhumbuli ixesha lokugqibela ulala ngesondo.
8. Ubesembhedeni omnye kunye nomfazi, kwenzekani?
- akukho mbuzo woqhagamshelwano lomzimba;
- Ukuthintana nomntu ongenamacala kunokwenzeka;
- zithinteka kwaye zibonakala zithintela;
- bekuya kukhokelela ingxoxo malunga nendoda edibana nawe;
- thandana, kodwa ude uhambe;
- ubusuku bovavanyo lwezesondo;
- ngesondo.
9. Uvakalelwa kakhulu ngesondo xa kuwe:
- iingubo zangaphantsi ezisezantsi;
- into edibana neendlela zakutshanje;
- iingaphantsi kweengubo zangaphantsi phantsi kweso sityithi;
- into enokuyithanda kuphela intombazana;
- i jeans kunye neebini zezinto zokuhlobisa;
- yunifomu yempi kunye neebhuthi eziphezulu;
- iingubo zobungqina.
10. Ukukhubeka kwiphepha le-pornography, wena:
- ulilahle;
- jongeka, uzama ukuqonda i-psychology yesintu;
- jonga nge nqwenela;
- ufunde ngenyameko nganye yeefoto;
- Ukuqwalasela ngononophelo imifanekiso yamantombazana;
- fumana kwaye ufunde ngokucophelela iifoto "intombazana + intombazana";
- Ndonwabile kwaye uza kuhlambalaza.
Ngoku ubala amanqaku uze uhlule isahlulelo ngo-10, inani liya kufanisa isikhundla sakho kwisilinganiselo sobulili. Ukuba ufumana inombolo encinci, uyijikeleze. Ngokomzekelo, umzobo 2.6 uthetha ukuba usondele kwisikhundla sesi-3.
Umlinganiselo wesini
- 0 - Ngokugqithisileyo. Akukho nto iguqula ngaphezu kwengcamango yokuba uyathanda indoda enhle. Eyona nto ufanele uyibize indoda eqinile, ishishini kunye nenjongo, oya kuthi uzolile, njengodonga lwamatye.
- 1 - Ngokubanzi isondo. Uyakuthanda amadoda, uthanda iimvo zabo, kodwa kufuneka benze umgudu wokufumana ingqalelo yakho. Awucingi ngolu hlobo, kodwa ukuba ufuna ukukhetha phakathi kwendoda nentombazana, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kukhetha owokuqala.
- 2 - Bioriented. Awucingi ukuba ungumntu wesini, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukuthatha amehlo akho kumfazi okhangayo. Mhlawumbi, xa unomntu ongenamdla kunye nentombazana, kodwa awufuni ukuyiphinda.
- I-3 - Ngokuqhelekileyo ubuhlobo bobulili. Uthanda abesilisa nabasetyhini, awukwazi ukwahlula phakathi kwabo, ukhetha iqabane lezesondo.
- 4 - Inkoliso yesini. Awuyithandana nabo, kwaye musa ukuzijonga njengaloo nto, kodwa nokho uthanda abasetyhini ngaphezu kwamadoda. Kwaye
Ukuba ufanele ukhethe phakathi kwendoda nentombazana, unokukhetha ukhetho lokugqibela. - 5 - Ininzi isini. Ucinga ukuba ungumlingani, kodwa emva kokuba unamava nomntu. Ewe, awufuni ukuyiphinda.
- 6- Ngaphandle kwesini. Awunakuza kunye nembono yabantu, kwaye akukho buhlobo nabo ebomini bakho. Kwaye ukuba oko kwakunokwenzeka, kwakungeke kushintshe into kuwe.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ufumana ntoni, ungayithathi ngokubaluleke kakhulu - yinto nje yokuvavanya.