Kubonakala kuthi kuthi ekwindla isagcwele. Kuphela kwekota yokuqala yoqeqesho sele iphelile, amaqabunga okugqibela awile, kwaye phakathi kwemicimbi yethu yesiqhelo asiqapheli ukuba de kube uNyaka omtsha akakho ixesha elisele. Unyaka ngamnye omtsha sidibana nomoya okhethekileyo. Unyaka omtsha onoyolo - ngolonwabo olutsha, "sithetha, njengokungathi ulindele ukuqala kobomi obutsha, ukuzaliseka kweminqweno, ukuphunyezwa kwezicwangciso. Kodwa yonke iminyaka emine ngonyaka unyaka wokuqhawula.
Kubantu, ukudibanisa "unyaka wokuqhayisa" kubangela imizwa encinci. Kukholelwa ukuba kwiimeko ezinjengezinye iziganeko ezingonwabi zidla ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Ngaba oku kunjalo ngokwenene? Unyaka wokuqhawula kunye neempawu zawo kuya kunceda ukuqonda oku.
Oko, emva koko konke, akunakwenziwa kwithuba lonyaka. Iimpawu eziphambili zabantu zithi:
- Abafazi abalinde umntwana akufanele banqume iinwele zabo de kubekho ukuhanjiswa. Ngaphandle koko, ngokwetaleta, umntwana ozayo unokufumana iingxaki ngokuphuhliswa kwengqondo.
- Abantu abadala abakwazi ukugcina izinto zokungcwaba.
- Ukuhamba ngomnyaka weqhosha kukubi. Kukholelwa ukuba izindlu ezitsha aziyi kuvuyisa umnikazi wazo.
- Inkolelo efana nento malunga nokutshintsha imisebenzi. Umqondiso uthi akuyi kuba lula ukusebenza kwindawo entsha.
Abanye abambalwa baya kuthatha malunga nomnyaka wokunyuka
Ngoko, kusekho iimpawu zento ongeke ukwazi ukuyenza ngonyaka wonyaka:
- Awukwazi ukunikela abanye kwizicwangciso zakho, ukuze ungasabisi inhlanhla yakho.
- Awukwazi ukutshabalalisa umtshato. Ukwahlukaniswa ngeminyaka ekugqibeleni ngumqondiso ombi, ukumakisha iingxaki ezinokwenzeka xa udala intsapho entsha.
- Abalimi abacetyiswa ukuba bathengise imfuyo yabo, okanye banokuchaphazeleka ngendlala.
- U-Kolyaduyushchih unyaka ogqithiseleyo unokwazi ukubona umoya obi, ngoko ke lo mdlalo omdala waseRashiya awufanelekanga.
Ngokukodwa iinkolelo ezininzi ezinxulumene nomnyaka wokunyuka, zixhalabisayo ngemicimbi yomtshato. Ngaba kufanelekile ukudlala umtshato? Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukutshata ngomnyaka weqhosha - le mibuzo ixhalabisa kumantombazana amaninzi. Ngokutsho kwemiqondiso, imitshato, iphelile ngonyaka ogqithiseleyo, ayonwabile kwaye ihlala emfutshane. Nangona kunjalo, bambalwa bayazi ukuba iminyaka emibini ezayo, emva konyaka ophelileyo, kuthathwa njengento engathandekiyo kumtshato. Kuvela ukuba unokutshata nje ngokutshatyalaliswa kwimizuzu emine. Ngoko, zithembele kule nkolelo-ngokukodwa kwimeko yabafazi abasasa.
Ukuba, nangona kunjalo, uyakholelwa inkolelo, kwaye umhla wokutshata umiselwe omnye weentsuku zomnyaka wokuqhawula, kukho imiqondiso emininzi yempilo yobomi obonwabileyo:
- awukwazi ukugqoka imfesane emfutshane yomtshato.
- Awunakuzama ukugqoka umtshato wakho kwamanye amantombazana.
- Umtshato womtshato ugqityiwe kuphela ngomunwe ongekho kumlenze. Awukwazi ukugqoka isangqa kwiglavu!
Ukongezelela, unyaka ogqithiseleyo eRashiya wawuthathwa njengomnyaka wabatshatileyo. Ngoko, ingakumbi amantombazana akhathazekayo akakwazi ukukhathazeka.
Kwakhona, ukuzalwa kwabantwana kukwahlelwa ngethuba ngeli xesha. Ngokweminye impawu , abantwana abazalwa ngonyaka ogqithisiweyo baya kuhlaselwa yinto engonwabanga. Ukubonakala kweli hlabathi kulo nyaka uthembisa ukungaphumeleli kunye
Ngonyaka wokunyuka, wonke umntu uthatha ngokungafaniyo. Abanye bacinga ukuba unyaka oqhelekileyo, abanye bayesaba baze balandele imiqondiso endala. Naluphi na isimo sakho sengqondo, ungakulibali ukuba unyaka wokuqhaqha wasungulwa ukuze kulungiswe impazamo yexesha lekhalenda kunye nexesha langempela lempilo.
Khumbula, unyaka ogqithisileyo wawuqulunqwe ngabantu, kwaye abantu banquma ukuba bangaphila.