Iintloni yinto eyaziwayo kubo bonke abadala. Kwaye oku kuqhelekileyo, kuba imeko iyahluke. Enye into yokuba utywaba luhlobo lomntu ukususela ebuntwaneni. Ukuba uhlazo aluyiyo impahla ehambelana nomoya, ngoko kufuneka ilahlwe ngokukhawuleza. Uyavuma, imeko xa umntwana engabaza ukuphendula kwisifundo okanye ukuya kwindlu yangasese esikolweni, kunzima ukubiza ngokuqhelekileyo.
Nceda untloni
Ngaphambi kokuzama ukunceda umntwana ohlazo, abazali bafanele baqonde izizathu ezivakalayo zesi sinzo. Kungenzeka ukuba inkunzi ayinayo izakhono zoqhagamshelwano. Emva koko kufuneka bafundiswe ngomonde - umphumo uya kubonakala ngokukhawuleza.
Khumbula, umntwana onamahloni unobungozi obunobungozi, obunentlonelo, ongenakukhuseleka, ngoko ukuhlambalaza, iintloni zabanye abantu ("kwaye unamahloni!") Kuza kunzima kakhulu imeko. Ukunyamezela ngumsebenzi oyintloko wabazali abanenkxalabo yokufundisa umntwana ukuba angabi neentloni ngabanye abantu.
Into ephambili yokwenza ukuba umntwana unamahloni ukufundisa ukuba azihloniphe yena kwaye angesabi ubunzima. Kulula kakhulu ukusho ukuthi "Ndiyihlazo" ngaphandle kokuzama ukwenza nantoni na. Eli binzana lingahlala likhusela le-phantom bonke ubomi.
Mzekelo lo mzekelo. Iimeko eziqhelekileyo zemihla ngemihla: unxibelelwano nomthengisi kwisitolo esikhulu esiseduze, ukuhlawula ixabiso lokuhamba ngeeteksi okanye ngebhasi, uthetha nomfazi ohamba inja efanayo nawe. Kwaye okokuqala maxesha umntwana uthetha ngamaphethini ebinzana. Emva kwexesha uqonda ukuba kukho abantu abaninzi abanobungane, kwaye ukudibanisa kukuzonwabisa.
Ulwaphulo lweentloni
Kukho indlela engavamile yokunciphisa intloni yomntwana ngamandla akhe. Kubalulekile ukufumanisa ukuba umgangatho okanye ikhono elidlula izakhono ezifanayo phakathi koontanga kwiisangqa soqhagamshelwano. Ngokomzekelo, unyana wakho uhlamba kakuhle kwiikratshi ezinqabileyo okanye ugijimayo kakuhle. Ncedise umnqweno wakhe wokuzilungisa izakhono zakhe. Ilizwi malunga "nomda wokumisa umda" apha lifanelekileyo: esinye isakhono sinokuyinyanisekisa ihlazo. Umntwana kufuneka azi ukuba kukho indawo ethile apho inkokheli. Oku kuya kukwandisa ukuzithemba kwakhe, kumsindise kwizinto ezinobungozi kunye nama-phobias.
Ukunyamezela, inkxaso, ukuqonda - kwaye yonke into iya kulungiswa!