Ukuzihlonela

Sonke siyazi ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukuzithemba. Emva kwakho konke, ukuba kungagqithwanga, ngoko umntu akaqinisekanga kuye kunye nemikhosi yakhe, akakwazi ukufeza injongo zakhe, uyazibamba kwaye akanako ukuzimela. Kwaye ukuba ukuzithemba kuphezulu, ngoko umntu uyazikhukhumeza, ukholelwa ukuba yonke into inokwenza kuye, ifuna ukuzithemba, inokuzithemba kwaye kaninzi ayihambisani nayo ibha yakhe. Naluphi na ukuphambuka kokuzithemba ngokwaneleyo yinto engxaki kumntu.

Iimpawu zokuziphakamisa

Ngaba ukhathazeka ukuba unokufumana le ngxaki engavamile? Khangela uluhlu lwethu, mhlawumbi luza kukunceda ubeke onke amanqaku "kunye". Ngoko, unesidima sokuzithemba, ukuba unempawu ezilandelayo:

1. Ukuzithemba ngokupheleleyo kwizinto zakhe kunye nokufaneleka; "Kukho imbono ezimbini - zam kunye nokungalunganga" - oku kuvela kwisicatshulwa somntu ojongene nokuzithemba ngokweqile.
2. Nangona uluvo olusekelwe kwisayensi, ukuba luhluke kwimbono yaloo mntu, kuthathwa njengento oyisilumko kunye nobudenge.
3. Ukuba unesiqiniseko sokuba kubaluleke kakhulu kwindlela nganye yokuphikisana nokugxeka ukubonakalisa ukufaneleka - oku kuyimpawu eziphambili.
4. Umntu onjalo "akwazi ukuzenza iimpazamo" kwaye ukholelwa ukuba ukuba kukho into engalunganga, emva koko, abanye abantu, izalamane okanye indawo yeenkwenkwezi zisola. Nantoni na, kodwa musa nje ukuvuma ityala lam. Ewe, abantu abanjalo abazi indlela yokuxolisa.
5. Umnqweno wokuba luphawu olubaluleke ngakumbi, olungcono kunabanye, kunoma yiphi inkampani ukuhlala kwindawo ekhokelayo kunye nokuhlambela kwimimangaliso yozuko lwendalo yonke. Kwanqanaba lomzi okanye idolophana yakho.
6. Abantu abanjalo bazama ukuvakalisa uluvo lwabo kwimiba yonke, nangona kungekho mntu ubuze. Ukongeza, ngeleta "I" iqala i-70% yazo zonke iibinzana abazithethayo.
7. Umntu onjalo uyayidelela inceba kwaye ancede, kwaye ukuba unikwe isandla, ubona ukuba ngumqondiso wokulwa kwakhe.
8. Abantu abanjalo abawuthathi nxamnye nokugxekwa kunyanisekileyo kunye nenjongo, nokuba ngaba kubaluleke kakhulu kule meko.
9. Ukwesaba iimpazamo zomntu kungenye yezinto eziphambili. Kubalulekile ukuba kukho konke okokuqala, okuphambili, eyona nto kwaye eyona nto iyabonwa.
10. Ukungaphumeleli kubenza baphelelwe ingcinezelo - iimeko zabo mazibe nemihlali!

Izizathu zokuzihlonipha eziphezulu zihlukile kubo bonke - umntu wayedunyiswa ngabazali, kwaye umntu weza kuye ngokwakhe. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, ukuba unesidima sokuzithemba, kwaye oku kukuthintela - mhlawumbi uzibambe kwiimpawu kwaye ungazivumeli ukuba uzibonele, okanye ungaqhagamshelana neengcali.

Izinga eliphakamileyo lokuzithemba lilungile kwaye libi

Umntu onokuzithemba ngokuphakamileyo uyaziqhenya kwaye uyazithemba, esetyenziselwa ukuqhubela phambili kwaye afinyelele iinjongo zakhe. Ekuqaleni, abantu abanjalo bazibeka ngokwasemsebenzini imisebenzi engeyomfuneko, bathambekele ekubaleni ingozi. Iimpawu ezinjalo zobuntu zikunceda ngokugqibeleleyo emsebenzini ohambelana nokuthengisa, uphando, imidlalo okanye imisebenzi yentlalontle. Ngaloo ndlela, ukuzithemba okuphezulu kulunge ngakumbi kuneyona ephantsi.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, linika umntu iingxaki ezininzi ekunxibelelaneni. Ngempumelelo encinane kunazo zonke, bafumana "inkwenkwezi yeenkwenkwezi" kwangoko kwaye baqala ukukholelwa ngokungaqinisekiyo ukuba banokubongwa kuphela. Ukongezelela, kwabo bonke abasondelene nabo baqulunqa iimfuno ezingenangqondo, ngokugxeka bonke ababaziyo.

Konke oku, ukuhluleka komntu onjalo kuya kuba sisihlandlo sokuwela kwintlango yolwabilo nokugatya ubomi. Umane wenqaba ukuqonda ukuba iimeko azikwazi ukuhlala zikhula njengoko zifanelekile. Kule nkalo, ukuba umntu ukhethe indlela engafanelekanga kwaye ahlale ebhekana nezinto ezithintekayo, uya kuziziva engumntu oxabisekileyo kwaye abe ngumntu ongenamdla.