Ukubeletha ngakwesinye icala sisiganeko esihle, kuba umntu omtsha ubonakala kwihlabathi, kodwa ngeli xesha elinye ibhinqa linyamezele ubunzima obukhulu. Kwakhona ngamaphupha, nangona bahlala bechazwa kakuhle, ngamanye amaxesha, xa bebheka ezinye iintlobo, unokufumana ulwazi olungathandekiyo kuwe.
Ukuzalwa kwakho kubonakala ngathi?
Iimpazamo ezinjalo zokuphupha ukwamkelwa kweendaba ezimnandi okanye utshintsho lwekhadi ebomini obuya kubakhokelela kuwe. Kukho nolwazi ukuba abantu babone loo maphupha asebusuku ngaphambi kokuba benze ukhetho olunzima okanye balahle into ethile. Kwinye yeencwadi zokuphupha kukho ulwazi lokuba ukuba ukuzalwa kwakho kwakuphupha, uya kuba nethuba lokuqalisa ubomi bakho ukususela ekuqaleni. Ngeli thuba kunconywa ukuba uhlalutye ngokuziphatha kwakho kwaye unqume oko ufuna ngokwenene ubomi.
Ukuba ubelethe inkwenkwe, ithetha ukuba kwikamva elikufutshane kufuneka ulindele ukunyuka kwinqanaba lomsebenzi okanye uza kunikwa umsebenzi onomdla oza kuphucula kakhulu imeko yakho yempahla. Ukuphupha kokuzalwa kwakho kwaye ulinde ukubonakala kwentombazana, kwixesha elizayo uza kuba nokwenza oko uyithandayo kwaye ufumane imali. Umbono wobusuku owakhulela umntwana ofile uwuphawu lokuthi ibhola emnyama ebomini liya kuphelisa. Ukuba uye wazala amawele, kuyafaneleka ukuba ulungiselele iingxaki ezincinane kunye neengxaki. Kwintombazana encinci, iphupha elinjalo luphawu lokuba yindawo engabonakaliyo, ngenxa yokuba idumela lingahle libi.
Iphupha apho ububele bakho bude kwaye bubuhlungu, kuya kukuxelela ukuba uhamba ngendlela efanelekileyo ekujoliswe kuyo. Uya kukwazi ukufezekisa into oyifunayo ngokukwenza nje umzamo. Ukuba ukuzalwa kukhawuleza, ngokukhawuleza uza kufinyelela lula umgomo. Iphupha apho intombazana ibona ukuba ukubeleka kuqalile kuyinto ehamba phambili yokuba ingaba neengcambu ezingcolileyo. Ngeli xesha kulungele ukunyamekela kwaye ungathembi abantu abangaziwayo. Ukuba owesifazane okhulelwe wayenephupha lokuba ukuzalwa kwaqala, kungenokuba yinto yokwesaba nje. Kwintombazana encinci, iphupha apho abeletha khona umntwana uthembisa umtshato wokuqala kunye nokukhulelwa . Ukuba iphupha elifanayo liyabonwa ngumfazi omdala, oku kungathathwa njengesilumkiso sesifo esondelayo.