I-subconscious yethu ingakwazi kwaye ifanele ifuthe. Ukuba ufuna ukuphumelela , kufuneka udale izimo zalo. Okubaluleke kakhulu ukuphelelwa yithemba. Xa uqinisekile ukuba uphumelele, i-subconscious ayinanto engayenzayo, indlela yokuyiguqulela ibe yinyani. Iziqinisekiso ezintle zisebenza kakuhle. Makhe sibone indlela yokwenza ngokuchanekileyo.
Iinkcukacha
Ukuqinisekiswa sisitatimende, isitatimenti sokuthi umntu uphinda ngokuphindaphindiweyo okanye ngokwakhe. Sinokucinga ukuba le ndlela yindlela elula yokuphatha ingqondo yakho engqondweni, ukuba "uyilungise".
Iingqinisiso ezilungileyo yizo ezifakwe kwifom eqinisekisiweyo. Ukuba ukwakha izitatimenti zakho kwisakhiwo esibi, umzekelo: "Andiyi kulahleka," ngoko ayiyi kusebenza njengoko ungathanda. Ingqondo ilungisa igama elithi "Ndilahlekelwa," i-particle engafanelekanga "ayikho" inganakwa. Inqaku elilandelayo liya kusebenza ngakumbi: "Ndiyine". Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba iziqinisekiso zokuphumelela kunye nenhlanhla zikhoyo. Xa uthetha malunga nento eyenzekayo apha kwaye ngoku, kodwa ngokwenene okufunwayo akukenzekanga okwangoku, ukuxilongwa kwamava engqondo. Kukho ukungafani phakathi kwamazwi akho okwenyaniso. Kule meko, ingqondo engacatshangayo imele ukhethe amanyathelo athile: ukungafuni ukukholelwa amagama akho okanye ukuguqula amagama.
Ewe, kulula ukungafuni ukukholelwa. Kodwa ukuba uqhubeka nokuqinisekisa kwakho, ingqondo yakho engqondweni iya "kunika" kwaye ihlawule ishishini. Imvakalelo yakho, iingcamango, ukuziphatha kuya kusebenza kwisikhokelo esiza kukukhokelela ekujoliswe kuyo. Yaye ukuba uthe wongeza ukubonwa kuzo zonke ezi zinto, ngoko uya kulahlwa yimpumelelo. Olu lizayo liya kuza kuwe ngaphambili kunokuba ulindele. Amandla okubonakalisa akanakuncitshiswa.
Ukuqinisekiswa okulungileyo
Ngexesha loxinzelelo, inzondo kunye neziganeko ezingathandekiyo ebomini, unokuzinceda. Unokuzihlawula ngokwentliziyo, ithemba kunye nokholo kwikamva eliqaqambileyo neliyolo. Kufuneka nje ukuba kuqinisekiswe ubungqina bokuqinisekisa. Oku kungaba ngamazwi alandelayo:
- Ndivuyayo, ndilungile;
- konke kulungile, akukho nto inokukhathazeka ngayo;
- Ndingumntu onempumelelo;
- Ndiyindoda yokuzithemba;
- u xolela;
- Ndiya kutshata;
- intlungu iyadlula, sele ilula kum;
- Ndifumene umsebenzi;
- Ndiya kuhlala elwandle, njl njl
Khumbula ukuba onke amagama akho kufuneka axhaswe ngezenzo. Yiya kwiinjongo kunye neminqweno yakho, ungatshintshi iphupha lakho.