Ukhohlisayo kumntwana oneminyaka engama-3 ubudala - isiluleko sengqondo yeengqondo

Ukukhulisa umntwana ayikho indlela elula kwaye elula, enokufana nokuxazulula i-puzzle. Ngako oko, abazali abahlali besazi ukuba benzani ukuba umntwana uneminyaka engama-3 ubudala kwaye uhlala eqaqa. Enyanisweni, uninzi lwabafazi kunye nabantwana bawela kwiimeko zokuxhamla, okanye baqala ukuziphatha kakubi. Zombini ziphosakele ngokukodwa, ngoko siya kuhlawula ngokukhethekileyo le ngxaki yengqondo.

Iingcebiso zeengcali malunga nabahlaziyi kule minyaka

Xa umntwana wakho eneminyaka engama-3 engabonakaliyo, ingcebiso yengcali yengqondo iza kulungile. Phakathi kwezizathu zezi mpawu zilandelayo:

• umzamo wokutsala ingqalelo kubazali;
• ukungazingca - inkunzi ifuna ukufezekisa okufunwayo, umzekelo, ithoyizi entsha okanye uhambo oluya kwi-zoo;
• ukungabikho kokulala;
• impilo ebuthathaka ngexesha lokugula okanye inxulumene nokushisa nokubandayo;
• ukungakwazi ukuveza ukunganeliseki ngamazwi;
• izigwebo eziqhelekileyo okanye ukubonakaliswa kwe- hyperope.

Ngamanye amaxesha amaqhinga amaninzi kumntwana oneminyaka engama-3 abangela ukwethuka kwaye awukwazi ukuba wenzeni. Okokuqala, thatha umoya kwaye ujonge njalo iindlela ezilandelayo ukulungisa imeko:

1. Zama ukuthintela ukuhlaziya kuze kube yilapho igqiba ngokugcwele. Ukwenza oku, i-crumb kufanele iphazamiseke: ukumema ukuba udlale into ethile, hamba uhambo, funda incwadi, njl. Nangona kunjalo, le nkqubo isebenza kuphela kwinqanaba lokuqala, okokuba, xa ubona kuphela ukuba umntwana akanakonwaba kwaye uyabetha.
2. Isiphakamiso esihle kakhulu malunga nendlela yokujongana nabahlaziyi bomntwana weminyaka engama-3 ukuhlala uzinzile. Nika umntwana ukuba aqonde ukuba awunenjongo yokuhamba ngendlela yakhe kwaye uvumele ukuziphatha okunjalo kukuchaphazele izigqibo zakho okanye ukuziphatha. Ngaphandle kokuba uphakamise ilizwi lakho, chazela inkwenkwe ukuba awuyiqondi into ayifunayo xa ekhala kwaye eqaqa iinyawo zakhe. Ukuba umntwana wakho akakwazi ukuphuma kumaqhinga, kungcono ukushiya kwigumbi okwethutyana kwaye uthethe naye xa efika kuye.
3. Impendulo yombuzo wokuba unokuhlangabezana njani neengxabano zomntwana weminyaka emithathu iza kuza ngokwawo xa utshintsha kakhulu ubuhlobo bakho nonyana wakho okanye intombi yakho. Hlonipha uluvo lwabo, bakhuthaze ukuba benze loo misebenzi elula (ukugqoka, ukuhlamba, njl) njenjalo abakwaziyo ukwenza ngokwabo. Nika umntwana ngokukhetha: luhlobo luni lwe-t-shirt lokugqoka, apho uhamba khona ukuhamba, njl. Musa ukunyanzelisa nantoni na ukuba uyenze, kodwa cela uncedo - kwaye ke ungabikho ncitshiseko kumntwana oneminyaka emi-3 uya kumisa.