Izigaba zokuphuhliswa kwengane zigcinwa ngenyameko ngabo bonke unina. Ixesha libaleka ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ngoku inkwenkwe ivele inika unina ukumncoma kokuqala, ekugqibeleni iphendukele, iqhube, kwaye phambi kokuba amanyathelo okuqala angaphumi. Ewe, konke oku kuyenzeki ngokwalo, kwaye kuyimfuneko ukwenza imizamo ethile-ukwenza i-gymnastics nomntwana, ukuthetha naye, ukunika karapuza lonke ixesha lakhe. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba i-kid yenziwe njani kwaye ibuza, xa umntwana enqaba ukuhlala phantsi kwebhodeni, inokukhubaza kwaye ididekise ngisho nabazali abanezigulane. Musa ukukhathazeka, kuba ukufundisa umntwana ukuba acele ibumbi kungekudala okanye kamva ufezekisa konke, kwaye awunjalo. Into ephambili kukuba ukhethe ixesha elifanelekileyo, indawo kunye neemeko.
Xa ukubeka umntwana ebhodweni?
Okokuqala, umntwana uqala ukufunda ukulawula ukucoca kunye nokuchaswa ngeenyanga ezintandathu. Kulo xesha lo mntwana ubona ngomdla wakhe umzimba kunye neenkqubo eziza kuye. Ngokomzekelo, umntwana uyaphonsa okanye aphephe, emva koko afunde nomdla okubhalwe kwiphuko. Kulo xesha unokufundisa umntwana ukuba ahambe ebhodweni okanye ubuncinane abonise umdla osebenzayo kuwo. Asifuni ukukucasula, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kukwazi ukuziqhelisela ebhodweni lebhokhwe ekhutheleyo, kuba akanalo umonde ukuhlala ixesha elide. Ukuba umntwana wakho uzolile kwaye akayiyo imfono - unokuphuma kuloo mfazwe ngumqhubi kwaye ufundise umntwana wakho ukuba acele ibhokhwe ngexesha elidala.
Ukuba umntwana oneminyaka elilodwa unqabe ukuhlala phantsi ebhodweni, musa ukukhawuleza ukuvakala i-alamu - inyaniso kukuba kule minyaka ubudala umntwana uqala ukuzama ukuzimela kwaye angenza umququzelelo wokwenene xa kukho into engavunyelwe okanye yenziwe, kuquka nokusebenzisa ibhodwe.
Kule minyaka eyi-10-13 iinyanga abanye abantwana beyeka ukuyiqonda ibhokhwe, nokuba ngaba basebenzisa ngaphambili.
Ixesha elifanelekileyo apho kufuneka ufundise umntwana ukuba asebenzise ibhodwe - ukususela kwiminyaka emibini. Ngeli xesha, inkunzi iyakwazi ukuqonda yonke into, kulula kwaye kulula ukuxoxisana naye, kuba umntwana onjalo unokuchazwa lula ukuba uya kuba "njengomntu omdala" ukuba ufunda ukusebenzisa ibhodlo kwindawo eya kuyo.
Indlela yokufundisa umntwana kumbindi?
Okona kubaluleke kakhulu - musa ukuzama ukuncintisana nomntu, ukuphulaphula amabali abanye oomama ukuba umntwana wakhe ubude wabuza ibhokhwe kwaye uyisebenzise ngokwakhe. Okokuqala, ungatsho nantoni na, kwaye okwesibini, inkunzi nganye iyimntu, kwaye, enyanisweni, akukho ntlukwano kwixesha apho uya kuqala ukusebenzisa ibhodwe.
Ewe, imfundiso yomntwana ebhodweni ineempawu zayo. Ngokomzekelo, abo bantwana bashesha ngokukhawuleza ukuya ebhodweni,
Ngoko ke, iindlela zokufundela umntwana ebhodweni zingahluka, kodwa kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ezi zinto zilandelayo, ngenxa yokuba inkqubo yokuqeqesha umntwana iya kudlula ngokukhawuleza. Umntwana ulungele ukujwayela ibhokhwe ukuba:
- Waqala ukuthanda umdla wakhe, ukuwufunda;
- Umntwana unengcamango yokuba zeziphi izitho zesini, uye wafumana ngaphezu kweyodwa inkqubo yokucoca kunye nokuchaswa.
Jonga ngokuziphatha komntwana wakho, thintela umzuzu - ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba i-crumb iziphatha ngendlela ethile ngaphambi kokuba iimfuno zendalo zilungiswe (umzekelo, uhlahlela okanye uhambelana). Ngeli xesha ngokukhawuleza umnike ibhokhwe. Yaye, ukuba izimo zivumelekile, gcina umntwana uhamba-ke ngoko uya kufumana ukuhlala phantsi ebhodweni, kuba akayi kuhamba nantoni na.