Ikati ebomvu idibanisa iimpawu eziliqela kanye, ezixhomekeke kwizilwanyana kunye nombala wazo. Umbala obomvu kwicala elinye linxulumene nobuqili, kwaye ngakolunye uhlangothi luphawu lombane obalulekileyo. Ukuze ufumane ulwazi oluchanekileyo nolunyanisekileyo, kufanelekile ukuqwalasela ezinye iinkcukacha, umzekelo, yintoni isilwanyana esenzayo kunye nento oyenzayo, njl.
Kutheni uphupha ikati ebomvu?
Ngesondo esifanelekileyo, iphupha elinjalo luphawu olubi, olubonisa ukuvela kweengxaki kumntu othandekayo. Kwakhona ngeli xesha kukhulisa umngcipheko wokugwenxa. Umbono wobusuku, apho ubamba khona isilwanyana kwizandla zakho kwaye usixabise, kuyisilumkiso sokuba ufanele ukhangele ngakumbi abantu abakujikelezile, kuba kunokuba notshaba phakathi kwabo. Ukuba uphupha ikati ebomvu enkulu - luphawu lokuthi ungumntu ongeyena mlawuli. Mhlawumbi esinye sezihlobo zizama ukukusebenzisa ngenxa yazo.
Iphupha apho ikati ebomvu ihlambulukileyo ngumqondiso obonakalisiweyo othembisa ixesha lokuzonwabisa kunye nomntu onomdla. Ukubona indlela izilwanyana ezihlaselwa ngayo kuthetha ukuba uya kuba nemvakalelo engathandekiyo. Ukuba walwa nekati, ngoko ebomini bokwenene unokujamelana neengxaki ezikhoyo, ngaphandle kokulahleka okukhulu. Ikati ebomvu iyahlulwa, ilandelwa yinja, nto leyo ithetha ukuba kwikamva kuyimfuneko ukuba ibe ngunyanisekileyo kunokwenzeka kunye nabahlobo, kuba nokuba inkohliso encinane inokubangela ukuphulwa kobudlelwane.
Umbono ebusuku, apho isilwanyana sigijima imouse - luphawu lweentlanzi kunye neentlebo, ezixhaphaza iintshaba emva kwakho.
Ephusheni ukubona ikati ebomvu kwaye uyondla, kuthetha ukuba uhlala ucebile ngokwenene, lixesha lokuqalisa ishishini elitsha. Iphupha apho ubamba ikati, liya kukuxelela ukuba ulonwabo sele lusondele kakhulu kwaye kuyafaneleka ukuzama ukuyifumana. Ukuba ikati elibomvu ephupheni likhange isifuba sakho, ngoko unesifo sengqondo ngaphambi kwakho esiza kukukhumbuza ngokwakho ixesha elide.