Ikati ebomvu, ebonwa kwiphupha, idibanisa iimpawu eziphikisanayo: isilwanyana esinomdla nombala womlilo. Ukuze uchaze iphupha, kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ubuninzi beqhinga njengoko kunokwenzeka.
Kutheni uphupha ikati ebomvu?
Ngokusoloko eli phupha linxulumene nehlabathi langaphakathi lomntu. Ikati enkulu ebomvu ibonisa ukuba uthobela umntu ngobomi bokwenene. Mhlawumbi umntu ukuxhaphaza ngendlela yobuqhetseba. Ngesondo esifanelekileyo, iphupha ngekati elibomvu liyisilumkiso malunga nokuvela kweengxaki zomntu othandekayo. Kwezinye iimeko, oku kungabonakalisa ukungcatsha. Kubantu, iphupha apho kubonakala khona ikati ebomvu-ebomvu, liqikelele intlanganiso kunye nomfazi oqinileyo omeleyo.
Ukuba ubambe ikati ezandleni zakho ephupheni, oku kuyisixwayiso sokuba kukho iintshaba kwiimeko ezikufutshane. Ukubona indlela iilwanyana ehlanjwe ngayo, kuthetha ukuba intlanganiso engalindelekanga kunye nomntu omnandi iya kudala. Uphuphe ikati ebomvu ehlaselayo-yi-harbinger yokutshatyalaliswa komoya. Ukuba unako ukunika ukulungiswa kwesilwanyana, ke iingxaki ziya kuphelisa ngokukhawuleza, ngaphandle kokuchaphazela ubomi. Umbono ebusuku, apho inja egijima emva kwekati ebomvu, ibonisa ukuba kulungile ukunyaniseka kubahlobo, njengokuba naluphi na ubuqhetseba lunokuchaphazela kakubi isimo sengqondo nabo.
Ukuphupha ikati ebomvu, iinwele zakhe zenziwe ngefestile emthunzini omnyama, kuthetha ukuba unokuba nethemba ekuphuculeni ubomi kunye nempilo. Ukuba umbala ukhanyayo kuyimpawu yokuba emsebenzini kuyafuneka ukwenza ukhetho olunzulu: ukugcina ubudlelwane kunye noogxa okanye ukuqhubela phambili kwinqanaba lomsebenzi kwiintloko. Iphupha, apho ikati ebomvu idlulisa imouse, ilumkisa ngobukho beentlobo ezininzi kunye neengcinga. Ukuba isilwanyana sifinyelele injongo yaso, uya kuba nexinzelelo kwizenzo zeentshaba.