Ngalesi sizukulwana, ukukhwabanisa komntwana kuphelile, ulutsha lukhulile, lwenza amanyathelo othembekileyo ebomini. Akunakwenzeka ukuba unike umntu wokuzalwa ngamanye ama-trinkets, kuyinqweneleka ukubonisa into enjalo iya kugxininisa ukubaluleka okukhethekileyo kokuza kwexesha.
Yintoni endimele ndinike unyana wam iminyaka eyi-18?
Ukunika imali kwimvulophu kuyindlela enokubangela ukukholisa indlalifa yakho. Ayize abe yinto engathandabuzekiyo kuye, kodwa abayiyo isipho esingakhohlwayo. Enye into ukuchaza isamba esikhulu ekuthengeni okuthile, okuyiyo umda weephupha zonyana wakho. Ukuba ngaba phantse ngeminyaka eyi-18 ezuze imali yokuthenga okubalulekileyo, kodwa engenayo imali eyaneleyo ukuya esitolo, ke uncedo lwezezimali kule ngxaki luya kuba luncedo kakhulu. Kuya kwenzeka ukuba ixesha lifumane ukufunyanwa ngumkhosi kunye nokubhiyozela yonke into kwitheyibhile yentsapho.
Ewe, kuninzi kuxhomekeka kubhajethi yabazali, abantwana bahlala benethemba lokumangalisa okukhulu, kodwa akusiyo wonke umntu onokukwazi ukufumana i-motorcycle okanye imoto entsha. Ukuthengwa okungabizi kangangoko kunye nokuthengwa ngokuncinci kwezinto ezinokusetyenziswa kwezixhobo zedijithali - ii-laptops, ii-smartphones , izixhobo ezilalelwayo, umshicileli, ikhompyutri yokumisa, umdlali wesitayela. Ngendlela, ezininzi zezinto ezidwelisweyo zingadingeka ukuba uyindlalifa yakho esikolweni okanye emsebenzini. Ngako oko, isipho esinjalo kumntwana wakhe ekuzaleni kokuzalwa kwe-18 kumama onothando akuyi kuba yinto exabisekileyo kuphela, kodwa nayo iyasebenza.
Ngaloo mini, nabazali abanenkathalo, ekufuneka kuqala ukuthenga kuqala, kufuneka bazame ekugqibeleni baqwalasele iimfuno zomntwana omdala. Ukuba ungumculi omculo omhle, into enhle kakhulu kumama wayo iya kuba ithikithi ekontweni yeqela lakhe elithandayo. Ii-Bibliophiles, ii-philatelists okanye abanye abaqokeleli ziya kuzisa uvuyo lwe-specimen ebalulekileyo ekukhuliseni ukuqokelela kwabo kwizinga elitsha. Iingqondo ezifana ne-souvenir chess okanye umshicileli omibalabala kumxholo oyithandayo. Kulo mbuzo, sisiphi isipho esilungileyo ukunika unyana wakho iminyaka eyi-18, unokubonisa ingcinga kunye nobuchule. Kodwa kungcono, xa ukuthenga kuba yinto enqwenelekayo kumntwana, kuya kunceda ukuphumeza izicwangciso zakhe ezide.