Iqhinga lomyeni ukuphulaphula umfazi wakhe

Amaxesha apho kwakukholelwa ukuba indoda - intloko yentsapho, sele idlulile. Namhlanje, kwiimbini ezininzi, abafazi bahlala kwisikhundla esiphambili. Amadoda amaninzi afana nale meko maxa wambi ecasulayo kwaye aphephe ama-scandals, ungasebenzisa imidala yamandulo.

Iqhinga lokuthwasa kwenyanga ukuba indoda iphulaphule umfazi wayo

Kukholelwa ukuba kwimihla yokuphela kwenyanga apho amandla amabhinqa anamandla athile, ngoko yonke imicimbi eyenziwa iya kusebenza. Ngenxa yesi siko, kufuneka ulungiselele amatye omlambo, ongayifumana ukusuka emlanjeni wakho ngesandla sakho sokunene. Ukuya ekhaya, ungathethi nabani na. Ngomso wolu suku olulandelayo, faka amatye kwisihlunu kwaye uphelele amanzi kwiglasi, ngelixa utsho le ngqungquthela, ukuze indoda iphulaphule umfazi wayo:

"Ilitye elingaphantsi lithe cwaka, alisho nto.

Uzimisele ngokuthanda kwam,

Uya kuphila ukususela ngoku ekuthinjweni.

Ngaba umyeni wam, inceku kaThixo (igama)

Mna, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama), wamthobela,

Waqubuda phambi kwam.

Ngaphandle kwam, andizange ndiphule.

Ndingumtya wakhe, mna namanzi.

Ndinguyise, unina nam.

Ngamana ukuthanda kwam kwenzelwe bonke.

Zithini na ezi zitye, kunjalo

Musa ukuphazamisa am amazwi.

Isitshixo, ukhiye, ulwimi. Amen. Amen. Amen. "

Kumele unike umyeni isiselo kumyeni. Umkhosi unokuphindaphindiwe rhoqo ukulungisa umphumo.

Iqhinga lomyeni ukuphulaphula umfazi wakhe

Ukuba iqabane litsho nje liphikisana kwaye lilungisa ama-scandals, ngoko unokwenza umkhosi olula ngokuncedisa ikhandlela lebandla. Kuyo kufuneka ukhange igama lomyeni wakho enaliti. Ebusuku, ngaphambi kokulala, khanyisa ikhandlela uze uthi la magama:

"Ilanga enyangeni liya kuvuma, umhlaba ngamanzi, kunye (igama lomyeni) kunye nam (igama lomfazi). Njengabantu abathelwayo bayithobela iNkosi, ngoko uya kunqotshwa kum. Amen! "

Iqhinga liphinda kathathu. Vumela isibani sitshise ngokupheleleyo, uze usifihle isikhombi kwindawo eyimfihlo. Iziphumo ziyakubonwa ngenyanga.

Iqhinga lokuba indoda ingaliphulaphuli umama nodade

Ukuba indoda ethandekayo kunye nesinyathelo asikwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kweengcebiso zezihlobo zakhe, ngelixa uqikelela ukuba unobulumko kakhulu, unokwenza isiko. Kuye kuyimfuneko ukulungiselela ithawula, apho ibhokisi iyancitshiswa khona engcwabeni. Kubalulekile ukuqhuba umcimbi ongaphantsi kweentsuku ezithoba ukususela ekufeni komntu ofileyo. Ukuqala isithethe ngokuqinisekileyo phakathi kobusuku. Beka ithawula phantsi, yima phezu kwayo uze ufunde isalathiso esinjalo ukuze indoda ingamlaleli uninazala:

"Njengoko indoda eyilumko ingayifumana icebiso kumntwana, kunjalo nenkosikazi (igama), ungahambi ngcebiso kwi-khoboka (igama lomama). Ndicebise, ndikhangele, inceku kaThixo (igama), ukususela kwangoku, naphakade, naphakade. Amen. "

Ngentsasa, vumela ithawula ithile. Emva koko, umngcwaba kwindawo eyincithakalo ukuze amandla ayo engekhoyo endlwini.