Intsapho yentsapho kunye nokukhathalela - umahluko

Uninzi lwabantu aluyazi nto malunga nezinto eziphambili kwiinkedama. Kodwa akukho mntu uya kuphikisana ukuba nokuba intsana enhle kakhulu ayinakuze yatshintshe umntwana kunye nosapho.

Xa isibini esitshatileyo, ngenxa yezizathu ezithile, senza isigqibo sokuthatha intandane, umbuzo uvela -yiphi i-legal form of guardians okufanele ikhethwe?

Makhe siqwalasele ukuba yintoni umehluko phakathi kokulondoloza kunye nosapho olusondezayo.

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Le fomu yokugcina ivumela umntwana ukuba amkelwe kwintsapho yakhe njengomntwana. Ubudala bomntwana akufanele kudlule iminyaka engama-14. Umgcini unikezwa ngamalungelo afanelekileyo njengomzali wegazi kwimicimbi yemfundo yabantwana, unyango kunye nokukhuliswa.

Kubantwana abanjalo, urhulumente uhlawula isibonelelo, kwaye amagunya asekuhlaleni kufuneka, ukuba kuyimfuneko, bancede kwimfundo, kunyango okanye ukuvuselelwa. Emva kweminyaka eyi-18, banelungelo lokufaka izicelo zendlu yoluntu.

Kodwa iibhodi zokulondoloza zinelungelo lokuqhuba rhoqo ukuhlolwa kweemeko zokuphila komntwana, unelungelo lokungenelela xa kungabikho ukuthotyelwa okanye ukuphulwa. Kwakhona, imfihlelo yokudluliselwa komntwana ekugcinweni kwayo ingagcinwa, okwenza umntwana akwazi ukudibanisa izihlobo zakhe zegazi. Ukongezelela, nangaliphi na ixesha, kunokukho umntu ofuna ukufumana umntwana.

Phakathi kweenzuzo zokubhalisa ukugcinwa - akukho mfuno eziqinileyo kumgcini ngokwakhe kunye neemeko zezindlu zakhe.

Usapho lwabazali

Abazali abazithandayo banokuthatha intsapho ukusuka kwedwa ukuya kwabasibhozo abantwana baze babakhuphe ekhaya. Esi sisisombululo esihle kakhulu kubantwana, abangasetyenziswanga okanye babanjwe ngenxa yezizathu ezithile.

Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba abazali abasandul 'ukwenziwa banelungelo lokufumana umvuzo kwaye banamava kwincwadi yokusebenza. Umntwana ufumana isibonelelo senyanga, kwaye uneenzuzo ezininzi.

Kodwa ngelo xesha, abaphathi bamagada baya kubajonga rhoqo abagcini kunye nenkcitho yemali. Inkqubo yokubhaliswa nayo iyanzima. Kubalulekile ukwenza iSikontrakthi ngokudluliselwa kwimfundo kunye nesivumelwano somsebenzi.

Ubungqina, usapho olwamkelayo kunye nokwamkelwa - yintoni umehluko? Iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokulondoloza zinamanqanaba ahlukeneyo enoxanduva lobomi bomntwana. Ukwamukelwa kunomlinganiselo ohambelana nolu hlobo lwezomthetho lokugcinwa njengomlondolozi wosapho kunye nolondolozo. Le yinqanaba eliphezulu lexanduva. Ukwamukelwa kukumenyezelwa komntwana kanye kunye. Umntwana ufumana ngokusemthethweni amalungelo ehlobene negazi, njengokungathi ubelethe. Abazali banelungelo lokutshintsha nje kuphela igama, kodwa kwanomhla wokuzalwa komntwana. Ezinye iifom zokugcina zinika iphakamileyo, kodwa ayikho inqanaba elipheleleyo loxanduva.

Intsapho yokugcina okanye ukugcinwa - ukukhetha kushiywa ngabazali abaza kuzaliswa. Ngomntwana, ubomi kwintsapho liphupha elide elilindelwe, elithandwa ngumntwana ngamnye wezintandane.