Ubomi bentsapho ngumsebenzi omude kunye onzima. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba amaninzi amadoda akwazi ukuma aze aphule "ngakwesobunxele." Ukufunda ngale nto kubuhlungu kwaye kunzima, kodwa kunzima kukuba uyazi ngokuchanekileyo, kwaye umyeni uyaqhubeka elala emehlweni akho. Kule meko, ukuba umyeni utshintshile, kukho iingcebiso zengqondo.
Indoda iyatshintsha, kodwa ayibonakaliswa - iingcebiso zesazi sengqondo
Ukuqonda le ngxaki, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba abafazi banokukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza, besengozini kwaye ngamanye amaxesha benza iimpazamo, apho bona ngokwabo bafumana oko. Iingcebiso zengqondo yengqondo engafanele ukuba yenze, ukuba indoda iyatshintsha, iya kuba nakho ukunceda ukuqonda imeko.
Akukho mzekelo kufuneka wenze ezintathu iimpazamo eziphambili zomfazi okhubekileyo:
- Ukugijimela kumchasi kwaye uhlele ukuhlaziywa, kuya kuhlazisa isidima sakho.
- Ukunyuka kwi-scandals yindoda ngeentlanzi kunye neinyembezi.
- Qalisa ukuphindezela ngeendlela zakhe.
Ukuba umyeni wakho ukukopela kuwe, kodwa akayi kuvuma, isiluleko sengqondo sengqondo siya kunceda uqonde ingxaki. Kubalulekile ukuhlola ngenyameko imeko kwaye ungayifumani umkhuhlane. Zama ukufumanisa ukuba umntu uhlasele okanye uhlalutye. Kwimeko yexesha elilodwa, ngoko mhlawumbi umyeni ukwesaba ukutshabalalisa intsapho, ukuthetha ngephutha. Ukwahlukana ngokuchanekileyo kuluhlu oluthile . Kule meko, kuyafaneleka ukuba sicinge ukuba umyeni wakho ukhetha phakathi kwabasetyhini ababini.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu kule meko ayikukhawuleza. Ukuba uceba ukulwa lwakho nosapho, zama ukutshintsha ixesha elifutshane ngexesha elifutshane. Iingcebiso zengqondo ngeendlela zokuziphatha xa indoda ithe yatshintsha, thetha ngento enye. Ziqonde kwaye uziqonde, ngaba uyayidinga lo mntu, uya kuvuya naye? Ngaba unako ukuxolela umxokelelwane kwaye uhlale umfazi othembekileyo nozinikeleyo? Emva koko isigqibo siya kuza, ngokwazo, ngaphandle kwenkxaso yangaphandle kwaye uya kuqonda ukubaluleka kwayo ebomini bakho.