Abasetyhini abaninzi, ngokukodwa kwiminyaka yokuqala yomtshato, imihla yokuzalwa kamama-mkhwenkwe balindele ngokulumkisa, njengokungathi uvavanyo olunzima. Efuna ukunqanda ama-scandals kunye nokugxeka kumama womyeni wakhe, badidekile ekukhetheni isipho esifanelekileyo. Enyanisweni, ukuthengwa ngempumelelo kukunceda ukuseka ubudlelwane, ukukhetha ikona efanelekileyo entliziyweni. Ukukhethwa kwesipho sokuqala sikamamazala ngokuxhomekeka kuxhomekeke kwimeko yowesifazane, umsebenzi wakhe, imbono yakhe ebomini, ngoko kufuneka uhambe ulungiselelwe usuku lokuzalwa. Okokuqala, buze umyeni wakhe ngokucokisekileyo, kuba ufanele aqonde ngokuncinci ngokuthandwa ngumama. Ukuba kwibhunga lentsapho kukho ubunzima ekukhethweni kwezipho, ngoko usebenzise iingcamango ezintle kwiintombi ezininzi sele zilethe kuwe.
Yintoni endikunika ngayo umamazala kamhla wokuzalwa?
Amashishini amabhinqa ahlala enyamekela izinto ezinokusetyenziswa rhoqo ekhitshini okanye ekhaya. Esikhundleni samanye ama-trinkets ahlaziyiweyo, kufuneka avelise into ebalulekileyo - ityhula, italente, iilinen zokulala, iilesi zokulala, izitulo ezinokwethenjelwa ze-dacha okanye ikhitshini, umkhonto, umbane wendlu. Ukuba akanalo isitethi esihle seti okanye ibhodlo lobungakanani obufanelekileyo, fumana izitya ezifanelekileyo zokuzalwa kwenyanga yokuzalwa kwakhe.
Qaphela ukuba izixhobo zanamhlanje zifuna amava amancinci, kwaye ukuba loo ntokazi ayisebenzanga kunye nomenzi wesinkwa okanye isonka , kuya kuthatha ixesha elide de uyayixabisa ukunyamekela kwakho. Kodwa ukuba ukuqhuba umsebenzi wekhitshini kuphumelele, uninazala uya kukubulela iminyaka emininzi. Qiniseka ukuba umthengele incwadi kunye neempendulo, isethi seenkcukacha ezongezelelweyo kunye neekomityi, oku kuya kwenza kube lula kuye ukuba ajwayelane nento entsha.
Ukuba umama womyeni wakho usemncinci, umfazi osebenzayo kunye nosomashishini, ngoko umbuzo wokunikela uninazala umcimbi wokugubha isigqibo, ulungiswa ngokulula. Ngomhla ojikelezayo, unokunikela i-laptop, ithebhulethi, i-smart stylish neyendleko, enye indlela eyinkimbinkimbi yokwenza ikhaya kunye nomsebenzi. Inkosikazi yanamhlanje ayiyi kukhwela ithikithi kwikonsathi yeklasi, uhambo oluya kwibala lezemidlalo, ukusuka kwisitifiketi ukuya kwi-salon yobuhle okanye i-massage parlor. Kakade, isiphi isipho kufuneka senziwe ngokucophelela, ukuze ukupakishwa okukhangayo kuqinise ngakumbi umboniso kwaye kugxininise uthando lwakho.