Ukuze ibe yinto enqwenelekayo ... yilokho abaninzi abafazi besemhlabeni bazama. Ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala ngathi ngaba ngabameli bezesondo ezifanelekileyo kwigazi-umnqweno wokuba njalo. Sonke sifuna ukuthabatha abantu kunye nathi, kuba kukuhle ukuvuyela ukubonakalisa kwakho kwisibuko, kwaye ungabonakali xa umbona. Kodwa njani ukuphumeza oku? Uyithanda njani wena nabanye, wenze impembelelo kumadoda? Indlela yokwenza umdla? Makhe sijonge kule ngxaki ngokungakumbi.
Indlela yokuba intombazana enhle?
Ekubeni umkhangeli unomxholo wangaphandle nangaphakathi, makhe sijonge ngokwahlukileyo, ngoko kuthetha, ukuqonda kangcono ukuba le ngcamango iyintoni.
Kubonakala . Ngoko, uninzi lwabasetyhini lunomdla kwindlela yokuba yinto enhle kwaye ikhangele. Emva koko, eqinisweni, isekelwe kwimbonakalo yangaphandle. Ngoko ke, amantombazana ofuna ukukhangeka, kufuneka uhambelane neminye imithetho yokuzinyamekela. Okokuqala, kufuneka uhlale ugqoke ngokugqibeleleyo . Kule meko, izambatho akufanele zivuseleleke, ngokuchasene noko, kufuneka kube ngumfazi kunye nenhle. Kwakhona kufuneka uhlale ulungelelanisa kunye nekhwele okanye umzobo. Okwesibini, kufuneka uqaphele umlinganiselo wakho kwaye uphile ngendlela ephilileyo. Oku kuya kunceda ukuhlala unomzimba kwaye uzive uvuyo. Okwesithathu, ungalibali ukuzinyamekela kwaye uziphephe ukuphumla. Ukutyelela i-spa-salon, hamba ukuyothenga ... nceda khawunene, ndoloko ubonakale ubonwabile kwaye ubonwabile ubomi, kuba ngaphandle kokuba kungabonakali.
Ihlabathi elingaphakathi . Kodwa akukho nto ibaluleke kakhulu umbuzo wendlela yokuthakazelisa nokukhangayo. Enye ubuhle akwanele ukukhupha abo bajikelezayo. Abanye abantu bacinga ukuba kwanele. Abaninzi banomlinganiselo wokufunda indlela yokuba ngumfazi kunye nokukhangayo ngaphandle, ukukholelwa ukuba oku kwanele. Kodwa hayi. Iimpawu zangaphakathi nazo ziyadingeka. Ngokomzekelo, ukumnandi, ukunyaniseka okuvela entliziyweni. Ecacileyo, amehlo kunye novuyo amehlo. Yonke le nto ayikwazi ukufezwa ngoncedo lwe-yokwenza enye okanye yoga. Udinga ukutshintsha into ngaphakathi kwakho ukuba ibe mnandi. Emva kwakho konke, mhlawumbi waqaphela ukuba ngamanye amaxesha amantombazana aphethwe kakhulu, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo elomomothekayo, elinyanisekileyo nelomnene, athanda umdla ngakumbi ngaphezu kokuzikhukhumeza, kodwa egqoke izinto ezibizayo.
Ukuba mnandi, ukuthakazelisa nokuthakazelisa kulula. Shintsha isimo sakho sengqondo ebomini, wena kwaye ujabule.
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