Indlela yokunciphisa unina wamalungelo omzali?

Ngelishwa, akubona bonke oomama kuluntu lwethu banokunyamekela ngomntwana wabo. Ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka, umntwana kufuneka alondoloze ngokoqobo kumzali onomvandalo onjalo. Ngendlela ongayicima ngayo umama wamalungelo omzali, kwaye iya kuxutyushwa.

Kuqala kuphi?

Njengomthetho, unina womntwana unokunyanzelwa ngamalungelo omzali nguyise. Kodwa izalamane zinokufaka isicelo kubaphathi bamagcini kunye nabaphathi bamatrasti kunye nabamelwane abangenamdla, ukuba unina umhlekisa umntwana phambi kwamehlo abo, oko kukuthi, kubangela ukuba umonakalo wokuziphatha kunye nomzimba kuye.

Ngokusekelwe kwisicelo esithunyelwe ngabazalwana, iziphathamandla zokugcinwa zifaka isicelo kwiofisi yomtshutshisi okanye ngqo kwinkundla yokunciphisa umama wamalungelo omzali. Utata okanye izalamane kufuneka zilungele ukubonelela ngeenyaniso ezingenakuphikiswa zokusetyenziswa kotywala, ukuxhatshazwa kweziyobisi, ukuziphatha okubi ngokwesini. Izatifikethi ezinjalo zingatholakala kwiziko lonyango apho ibhinqa ibhaliswe khona. Kwakhona, ubungqina bommelwane kufuneka.

Indlela yokunciphisa amalungelo omzali womama waseRashiya?

Ngokubhekiselele kwiSiqendu 69 soMthetho weNtsapho weRussian Federation, nawuphi na umama owela kuloluhlu angabiza impendulo:

• Ingane ishiywe esibhedlele okanye kwisiko lonyango kwiinyanga ezili-6 okanye ngaphezulu ngaphandle kwesizathu esihle;
• unina akazalisekanga imisebenzi yakhe ngqo kumntwana;
• ukuphathwa kakubi kwonyana okanye intombi;
• utywala obunaphakade kunye nokulutha kweziyobisi;
• ukuxhaphazwa kwabantwana (ukucela, ukuxhatshazwa, ubuhenyu);
• Umama unetyala lolwaphulo-mthetho malunga nomntwana.

Indlela yokunciphisa amalungelo omzali womama e-Ukraine?

E-Ukraine, inkqubo enye inikwe, ejoliswe kwiSiqendu 164, inxalenye ye-Code Family.

Inyaniso yokuba umama uya kulahlwa ngamalungelo omzali ayithethi ukuba ngokuphathelele kumntwana, waba ngumfokazi. Unomsebenzi wakhe, oko kukuthi, kufuneka ahlawule umxholo, kunye nokuqeqeshwa kunye nokunyangwa.

Indlela yokunciphisa umama onxilisayo wamalungelo omzali ngokuqhawula umtshato?

Xa abazali beqhawule umtshato kwaye uyise ufuna umntwana ukuba ahlale naye ngenxa yobunxila, ukuxhatshazwa kweziyobisi okanye ezinye iziphambuko ezivela kumfazi, ngoko kanye kunye namaxwebhu afanelekileyo ekutshatyalalisweni komtshato, kufuneka afake isicelo esifanayo nokunyanzelwa komama wamalungelo akhe, kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zeembonakalo eziqinisekisa umfanekiso wokuziphatha kakubi komfazi owayengumfazi.

Kukholelwa kakhulu ukuba umbuzo wendlela yokunciphisa amalungelo omzali womama ongenamzali unzima. Enyanisweni, oku akunjalo, kwaye iingxelo ezinjalo ziqwalaselwa ngokubanzi. Emva kokuba kuthathwe isigqibo, umntwana uyathunyelwa kwikhaya lezintandane, okanye ukugcinwa kwezihlobo eziseduze kusekwe phezu kwakhe.

Uyazi njani ukuba unina akanalo ilungelo lomzali?

Ukuba umama ongenamdla utshintshile ingqondo yakhe kwaye wakhumbula ngomntwana wakhe, ngoko ukucacisa imeko ayifunayo ukuba abuyele esitokisini. Ukuba abayinike impendulo ngokuthe ngqo, ngoko baya enkundleni bacele indawo yokuhlala.