Xa uneminyaka engama-5 ukuya ku-6 ubudala, umntwana kufuneka alungiselele isikolo ukwenzela ukuba ixesha elitsha lobomi lingamkhathazi. Oku akusebenzi nje kuphela ekuphuhliseni izakhono zobuchule bomntwana, kodwa nokuqeqeshwa kwakhe ngokomzimba, kunye nenkcazo yento eyenzekayo, kwiinjongo zokuziphatha.
Kule nqaku uza kufumana iingcebiso zengqondo yengqondo kunye neengcebiso kubazali indlela yokulungiselela umntwana esikolweni ngokuzimela ngaphandle kokubhekisela kwiingcali ezifanelekileyo.
Yintoni umntwana ayayiyazi kwaye akwazi ukuyenza xa engena kwibanga lokuqala?
Ukuphumelela ngokukhawuleza kwikharityhulam yekharityhulam, umntwana kufuneka abe nezakhono ezithile. Oomama nootata abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba esikolweni unyana wabo okanye intombi kufuneka bafundise yonke into. Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, imisebenzi yootitshala kunye nootitshala kufuneka bafundise abantwana izifundo ezithile, kodwa ngokubanzi abazali kufuneka banakekele ukuphuhliswa ngokupheleleyo kwengane yabo nokusebenza kwabo okuhle.
Ukongeza, ukungena kwiklasi yokuqala, inkunzi ayifanele igule emva kwinqanaba lokuphuhliswa kwiontanga zakhe, mhlawumbi yonke imikhosi yayo ayiyi kuhanjiswa ekufumaneni ulwazi olutsha, kodwa ekuphuculeni ezo zakhono azingenakuzifumana ngaphambili. Ngokuqhelekileyo ngenxa yesi sizathu, abantwana baqala ukuwa emva kwabantwana abafundela nabo, okungaqinisekanga ukuba kusebenza kakubi komntwana esikolweni, kunye nokucinezeleka okukhulu nokukhubazeka.
Phantse kwiminyaka emi-5-6, uvavanyo oluchanekileyo ngolwazi kunye nezakhono zomntwana wakho, ngexesha lokumfundisa ezinye izakhono ngaphambi kokungena esikolweni. Ngoko, xa uneminyaka engama-7, umntwana kufuneka abize:
- amagama athile kunye nezityalo zezilwanyana;
- inkcukacha, igama kunye negama lomsebenzisi kunye nabazali;
- ifowuni nedilesi yasekhaya;
- yonke imihla yeveki, amaxesha, amaxesha ezinyanga;
- malunga nemibala engama-10-15 kunye neesiseko zejometri;
- eminye imithetho yendlela;
- imisebenzi eqhelekileyo.
Ukongeza, umntwana kule minyaka kufuneka aqonde kwaye aqonde umahluko phakathi:
- imiqondo "ngasentla" kunye "ngezantsi", kunye "nelungelo" kunye "nekhohlo";
- izilwanyana zasendle nezifuywayo;
- imithi nemithi;
- izithelo, imifuno kunye namajikijolo;
- iileta kunye nezandi;
- izikhenkce kunye nezonononongo.
Ekugqibeleni, umqashi wokuqala kufuneka akwazi uku:
- funda izivakalisi ze-4-5 okanye amagama angaphezulu, kwaye uqonde ukufunda;
- ukuqiqa iipuzzles nokulungisa iingxaki ezilula kwixesha lakho;
- fumana ukungafani phakathi kweemifanekiso ezimbini kwaye ukhankanya iipropati eziqhelekileyo kwiqela lezinto;
- ukubuyisela iingqungquthela ezincinci kumgca we-5-6;
- uchaza konke akubona emfanekisweni;
- Ukusebenzisa izikrini, ukwenza izicelo ezilula;
- ubambe ngokufanelekileyo ipeni kunye neepensile, udwebe imifanekiso elula, umthunzi uze uyihlobe imidwebo, ngaphandle kokushiya umgca.
Indlela yokulungiselela umntwana esikolweni ngengqondo?
Ukunceda umntwana afunde izakhono eziyimfuneko ekufundiseni esikolweni akunzima kakhulu. Kwanele ukunika imizuzu eyi-10 ukuya kwimihla ngemihla ngeeklasi kunye nomntwana. Ukongezelela, unako ukuhlala usebenzisa amaziko okuphuhlisa, kwaye ukhangeleka njengezifundo ezikhethekileyo zokulungiselela.
Kunzima kakhulu ukulungiselela umntwana ukusuka kwinjongo yengqondo. Ngokukodwa oku kusebenza kubazali abaye bafumana ukubonakaliswa kwindodana okanye intombi yabo yokunqongophala kwengxaki yokuxhatshazwa kwempilo. Abantwana abanjalo banokufumanisa kunzima ukuqonda kwaye bamkele utshintsho olutsha oluye lwachaphazela ubomi babo.
Njengomgaqo, iingcebiso ezilandelayo kunye neengcebiso zeengcali zengqondo zengcali zinceda ukulungiselela ngengqondo yesikolo somntwana, kubandakanywa nomnye ochaphazelekayo:
- Kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ngaphambi kweSeptemba 1, khokela umntwana ukuba ahambe kufuphi nesikolo kwaye qi niqiniseke ukuba ulungiselele ityelelo, uchaze ngokucacileyo yonke into enxulumene noqeqesho.
- Xelela amabali ahlekisayo ngobomi bakho esikolweni.
Musa ukuyikisa umntwana wakho ngootitshala abaqinileyo kunye namabakala amabi. - Ngaphambi koko, fundisa umntwana ukuba athathe ikhefu kwaye agqoke ifom yesikolo.
- Kancinci wenze utshintsho kwi-regime yosuku - faka i-crumb ukulala kwangaphambili kwaye ufundise ukuba uvuke kusasa. Ingakumbi ixhalaba ngabantwana abangena kwi-kindergarten.
- Ekugqibeleni, ungadlala nomntwana wakho esikolweni. Makhe abonise okokuqala umfundi ongenamdla, kwaye ngoko umfundisi oqinileyo. Iimidlalo zendima ezinjalo zithandwa kakhulu ngamantombazana.