Ukuhleka okumnandi kukuba intombazana eninzi ifuna kakhulu kumfanekiso omhle okanye amandla 'okwakha amehlo' ngokwesondo. Kwaye konke ngenxa yokuhleka kwentombazana kuyindlela yokukhawulela umntu osebenza ngongoma-nkathazo ngaphandle kokubukeka kwintliziyo. Kodwa ingxaki kukuba akubona bonke abafazi abazi ukuhleka kakuhle. Omnye uhleka ngokukhawuleza, omnye umntu uyindoda enomntu, umntu wenza izandi ezihlekisayo ngexesha lokuhleka okanye ujikeleze yonke indawo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuhleka okukwenkcenkcesha kukwahlukileyo, kodwa amantombazana kufuneka asebenze ngokwawo, ngokokuba ukuhleka kwabo kwakungekho nje ngokunyanisekileyo, kodwa kukhangeleka. Akungento yinto edlalwa yintombazana yokuhleka ngokukrokra komlambo okanye ukubetha kweentsimbi zesiliva. Ngoko kufanelekile. Makhe sijonge ngakumbi indlela onokufunda ngayo ukuhleka kakuhle, ngelixa uhlala unyanisekile ekuvakaliseni iimvakalelo zakho.
Indlela yokwenza ukuhleka kuhle?
Mhlawumbi, into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuqonda indlela enhle ngayo ukuhleka kwakho. Emva kwakho konke, ngokukhawuleza xa uqala ukuphulaphula ukuhleka kwakho okanye ukhetha ukuhleka phambi kwesibuko, ukunyaniseka kulahleka ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ukuhlekisa ukuhleka kukungabalulekanga. Ngoko ke, unokucela icebiso kumhlobo wakho omhle, ugxininisa ukuba impendulo yakhe kufuneka ibe yinyani. Okanye ngethuba lokuhlangana kunye nabahlobo kwihostela yakhe ukufihla indawo yekhamera yevidiyo kunye nokurekhoda le ntlanganiso, uze ubukele ukurekhoda nokuvavanya ukuhleka kwakho.
Ukuba ufike kwisigqibo sokuba ukuhleka kwakho kusadingeka utshintshwe, nakhu iziphakamiso zokukunceda ufunde ukuhleka kakuhle:
- Fumana indlela enhle yokuhleka. Ungagxininisa kumdlali othile oyithandayo. Isaziso, kwi-laughing movie ihlala iyanqwenela, ngoko ke kufuneka uqeqesho kuphela.
- Ziqhelanisa ukuhleka eduze kwesibuko. Mhlawumbi, ngokuba okokuqala ukuhleka kuya kukhangela kwaye kungabonakali, kodwa ke uya kukhangela, kuba nguwe kuphela onokuqonda indlela obukeka ngayo, xa uhleka kwaye uhleka kangcono.
- Musa ukuvula umlomo wakho ngokubanzi ngelixa uhleka, ubonisa onke amazinyo akho kwabanye.
Kungcono ukumomotheka, uze uhlekise ngokukhawuleza - oku kuthiwa ukuhleka kwesifazana. Kwaye nangona ukuhleka kwakho kukugqabhuka nje, awukwazi ukulimela njengehashe. - Ukulawula iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zezandi abaninzi abaye baphuphuma ngexesha lokuhleka: ukugubungela, ukugcoba kunye nabanye. Abanikeli umdla wakho wokuhleka.
- Musa ukubetha izandla zakho, musa ukubetha izandla zakho ngamadolo akho, ungaphinde ujike intloko yakho - ezi zinto kuphela zibonakaliso zedoda ezithandana nazo.
- Futhi ungakulibala ukuba okokuqala, ngokuhleka, kufuneka ukunyaniseka, okwenene-oku yiyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu inika umonakalo.
