Xa umntwana evela kwintsapho, ubomi buntshintsha kakhulu. Uyakubona oku ngokujonga lo mdlalo wokukhetha isithombe.
Ubomi bomntu kukho iimeko ezininzi ezinokutshintsha kakhulu. Njengomzekelo, unako ukuzisa ukungena kwiyunivesithi okanye ukuya emsebenzini, ukutshata nokunye. Ngexesha elifanayo, ngokweengxoxo, akukho nto iguqula ikhadini ubomi bomntu, njengokuzalwa komntwana. Oku kwaphawulwa nguyise osanda kuveliswa ogama linguMichael Giulianell, owathi, ngomzekelo wakhe waphefumlela abanye abazali ukuba babelane ngemifanekiso yendlela yokuphila kwendabuko yabo emva kokuba umntwana avele kwintsapho yabo. Ukhokela iblogi apho ebeka khona imifanekiso emnandi, enqwenela ukwabelana ngokuhleka kwakhe kunye nokubonisa ubumbano kubazali abajongene neengxaki ekukhuliseni abantwana babo.
1. Ngaphambili, wonke umntu wayesezinyaweni zakho, kwaye ngoku intombi ihleli ekhanda lakhe ngaphandle kwehlazo.
2. Akukho mntu uthanda ukwabelana ngokutya kwabo, nokuba ngaba ngabantwana bakho.
3. Ukususela kubuhle obuhle ngokukhawuleza ujika waba ngumama onamahlengama amabini amawele.
4. Kukho abazali abangayekanga imikhuba yabo kwaye babandakanye abantwana babo kuzo.
5. Imithwalo yokubonakala komntwana kwintsapho ingakhathazeki ngabazali kuphela, kodwa nezilwanyana.
6. Xa unomama, akukho sithuba sokuhlala phantsi kwaye ujabulele iwayini elimnandi.
7. I-boomerang ye-karmic: ngaphambi kokukhwela kwi-back of others, kwaye ngoku khawukhwele.
Isimo esaziwayo kubazali kukuzonwabisa emva kwayo, kwaye yonke iminithi yamahhala isetyenziselwa ukulala.
9. Ukumomotheka kunye nokugcoba emehlweni akhe kwahlala kuphela kwiifoto ezidlulileyo.
10. Ukuba ngaphambili wawunobundlobongela, ngoku ungoyindoda enhle.