Thatha abantwana kude nonina - yintoni enokuba yinto engathandekiyo? Ngelishwa, kwezinye iimeko kunzima ukwenza okunye. Nayi imizekelo embalwa ebomini beenkwenkwezi.
Kwiqoqo lethu leenkwenkwezi ezi-8, ezenza ubomi babo babengenakuze balinganise kwaye banqatshelwe amalungelo omzali.
Dana Borisova
Ngenye imini yaziwa ukuba umbonisi weTV uDan Borisov wayenalo ilungelo lokukhulisa intombi eneminyaka eyi-10 ubudala, uPolina. Inkundla yawulawula ukuba ukususela ngoku intombazana iya kuhlala noyise, kwaye kunye nonina baya kukwazi ukubona iyure elilodwa ngosuku. Isizathu salesi sigqibo siyi-Dana's addiction drug, esibekwe umbonisi weTV iminyaka emininzi. Amava akhe kaDana, ohlala kwiziko le-rehab eThailand, wabelana nge-Instagram:
"Ngenxa yemeko endiyiyo, ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi, oku kukhethwa kukuba, kuba ngoku ndifumana ithuba lokutshintsha ikusasa kunye noPauline"
Inkundla yothando
I-Courtney Uthando lwakhulela kwimizi yase-hippie kwaye yaqalisa ukusebenzisa iziyobisi xa iselula. Ngomnyaka we-1992, watshata nomculi wengoma u-Kurt Cobain, owayetywala kakubi iziyobisi ezingekho mthethweni. Kungekudala lo mbhangqwana unentombi, uFrancis Bean. Xa le ntombazana yayineminyaka eyi-1.5 ubudala, uyise wazinikela.
Ukuhlala nomhlolokazi onomntwana ezandleni zakhe, iNkundla ye-Courtney ayizange ishintshe imikhwa yakhe. Ukuthabatha izidakamizwa kubangele ukuba wayephindwe kabili amalungelo omzali. Ngokuqala kwenzeka ngowe-2003, emva kokuba oogqirha bafumana iNkundla ye-Courtney engekho i-heroin. Emva koko ugcinwe yintombi yakhe eneminyaka eli-11 yathathwa ngumama kaKurt Cobain. Emva kweminyaka emi-2 i-Courtney yaphinde yafumana amalungelo akhe, kwaye intombi yabuyela ekhaya.
Kamva, ngo-2009, uFrancis oneminyaka eyi-17 ubudala wayecele inkundla ukuba imkhusele kumama wakhe ongenalwazi:
"Nangona ndiyakhumbula, uthatha amayeza. Uhlala kwiipilisi, ushukela kunye nogwayi kwaye unqabile kakhulu ukutya. Uhlala elele embhedeni ngecuba, kwaye ndiloyiko lokuba umlilo uya kuqala. Oku kwenzeka okungenani kathathu sele sele "
Ukongezelela, ngokwentombazana, iNkundla yaphula yonke into, yenza ihlazo kwaye yayinomdla wokufuna imania. Iphuso lakhe kwakukufa kwezilwanyana ezizithandayo zikaFrancis.
Inkundla inelisekile ibango lentombi kaKurt Cobain waza wada wahlala nogogo wakhe.
Britney Spears
Emva kokuqhawula umtshato kuKevin Federline, uBrithney Spears waqala yonke into enzima. Umculi wasuswa yiziyobisi kunye notywala waza walubala ngokuphathelele imisebenzi yakhe yokubeleka, kwaye ngokwenene ngelo xesha wayephethe oonyana ababini: omnye kunye neminyaka emibili ubudala.
Umyeni waseBrithani owayedlule uye wacela enkundleni ukuba anqande umama-ntlungu wamalungelo omzali kwaye awanike abantwana kuye. I-suit yayaneliseka, kwaye uStor wathatha abantwana. Kubonakala ukuba, ukuhlukana noonyana bakhe kwenza uBrney ukuba acingisise. Waya esikhungweni sokubuyiselwa kwaye wayilahla izilingo. Emva kweminyaka emithathu, wakwazi ukubuyisela amalungelo kubantwana.
Madonna
Ngo-2016, iMadonna yayinyanzelekile amalungelo omzali onyana oneminyaka eyi-15 uRocco. Oku wayefuna ukuba ngumntwana osemncinci owabalekela unina waza wahlala endlwini kayise, uGuy Ricci. Inyaniso kukuba uRocco wayekhatywe kakhulu nguMdonna wokugcinwa ngokugqithiseleyo kunye nokugunyaza. Kukho iingcamango malunga neendlela zokukhuliselwa kwakhe: unqabela abantwana ukuba babukele iTV, sebenzisa ii-smartphone, udle iiswidi. Emva kokuba wamkhwelisa umhlengikazi uRocco kuphela ngenxa yokuba wanikela le nkwenkwe iicape ezithengwa nguyise. Akumangalisi ukuba umntwana okhawulezileyo wakhawuleza ukulahla lonke lo xhaphalo ngokukhawuleza xa ithuba linikezela.
USharon Stone
Inkwenkwezi ye "Basic Instinct" yahluthwa ngamalungelo kuRan oneminyaka eyi-8 ubudala owamkelwa ngo-2008. Inkundla igweba ukuba ilungelo lokugcinwa kwenkwenkwe yedwa yaya kumzali owamkela uRoy kunye nomyeni owayengumyeni uSharon - intatheli uPhil Bronstein. Abagwebi babecinga ukuba ubaba unokudala imeko engcono yokuphila komntwana kunomama. Umdlali we-actress uvumelekile kuphela ukubona indodana yakhe kwaye uthethe naye kwifowuni.
Valentina Serova
Inkwenkwezi ye-cinema yamaSoviet yama-40s uValentin Serov wayetshatile imbongi enguConstantin Simonov. Umtshato wabo wawubonisa umzekelo: USimonov wazinikezela iingoma ezimangalisayo kumfazi wakhe, kuquka "Linda kum". Enyanisweni, ubomi babo bentsapho babengenwabileyo: ekupheleni kweminyaka engama-40-umdlali odumile waba ngumlutha wokubakho, kwaye ngo-1957 uSimonov, edinwe ngumkhwenkwezi wakhe wokusela ixesha elide, wamshiya. Enkundleni, wacela ukuba uSerov anqatshelwe amalungelo omzali kwintombi yabo eneminyaka engama-7 ubudala. Iimfuno zeembongi zanelisekile, kwaye uMas wanikezelwa ukuba akhuliswe ngenxa kanina-umama kaValentina Serova. Umdlali ongenamdla akazange avunyelwe ukuthetha nentombi yakhe kwifowuni. Wafika endlwini kanina waza wema phantsi kweefestile iiyure ngethemba lokubona uMasha.
Emva koko, wayengenako ukuseka ubudlelwane nentombi yakhe, kuba akazange alahle umlutha wakhe ...
UVera Lucia Fisher
Umdlali weBrazil uVera Lucia Fisher, owaziwayo ngeendima zakhe "Uchungechunge" kunye "NezoNtsapho Zomtshato", wayenalo ilungelo lomzali kumntwana wakhe omncinci uGabriel ngenxa yobunzima bokusela nokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi. Kwaphela iminyaka eyi-8 kwafuneka alwe nelungelo lokugcinwa kwenkwenkwe.
UKim Delaney
Umdlali we-actress, owaziwayo ngenxaxheba yakhe kwinqaku "Amapolisa aseNew York," wenqatshelwe amalungelo omzali kwintombazana yakhe ngenxa yeengxaki zotywala. Emva kweminyaka emi-2, emva kokuvuselelwa kwexesha elide, wakwazi ukubuyisela unyana wakhe.
Sinead O'Connor
UShinead O'Connor unabantwana abane abavela kumadoda amane ahlukeneyo. Kunyaka owedlule, wahluthwa ngamalungelo omzali wakhe unyana oncinci, uShane oneminyaka engu-12, emva kokuba le nkwenkwe igule kakhulu. Isizathu salo sigqibo sisimo sengqondo esingaqinisekanga seSineid (wafunyaniswa ukuba une-bipolar disorder). Emva koko, umculi wazama ukuzibulala. Ngethamsanqa, wasindiswa.