Enye yezinto ezidlala indima ebalulekileyo ekuqiniseni umzimba wethu yintsimbi. Nangona kunjalo, akusiyo yonke imveliso enikezelwa ngemali efunekayo, engakhokelela kuphela kwi-anemia, kodwa nakwezinye iingxaki zempilo ezinzulu. Ngelo xesha, abafazi baninzi kakhulu ngenxa yokungabikho kwesinyithi , kuba phakathi neenyanga kukho ukulahleka okukhulu kwegazi, okubandakanya isinyithi. Singaziqonda njani ukungabikho kwalesi sigaba emzimbeni?
Ingaba njani ukuqonda ukungena kwintsimbi?
Izimpawu zokunqongophala kwesinyithi emzimbeni womfazi zibonakalise. Ukungabikho kwaso kufumaneka ngaphandle kokuqhuba iimvavanyo zelabhoratri:
- ibonakaliswa ngokukhathala okukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza, ukuhlaselwa okungaxhamliyo kwintlupheko ekuchaseni imvelaphi yentlungu;
- ukusilela kwesinyithi kubangela ukubonakala kokuphefumula kunye nokukhawuleza kwentliziyo, kunye neentloko zaso;
- ulusu luba lubala, kwaye izipikili kunye neenwele zibuhlungu.
Iimpawu zokunqongophala kwesinyithi zingabonakalisa kwizinto ezizimeleyo zokuziphatha, ngokukodwa, kunokubonakala ngathi oko kuthiwa "ukuphulukisa umlenze wesifo", apho umntu evakalelwa umnqweno wokufudula imilenze yayo yonke ixesha. Imikhwa ekudleni ingatshintsha kwakhona: ngexabiso elaneleyo lensimbi, njengomthetho, kwabasetyhini, kukho umnqweno wokutya into "efana", engavamile, ngokubanzi, "Andiyazi, kodwa ndifuna." Kwaye konke oku kwenzekayo malunga nemvelaphi yokutya okuncitshiswayo.
Ukongezelela, ukuba ubusika bomzimba buya kuqala, mhlawumbi unesityebi, kodwa ungayiqonda njani ngaphandle kokudideka nezinye iimeko ezibuhlungu? Kwimeko yokunqongophala kwesinyithi, izitho, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kubushushu bomzimba, kubanda, kwaye kunzima ukuzifudumala. Ukungabikho kwalesi sigaba kunokubangela iingxaki ezinzulu emsebenzini weentliziyo.
Ukungabi ncitshana kubangele kakhulu kwimpilo yabasetyhini abakhulelweyo; Iimpawu ezibonakalayo zokunqongophala kwesinyithi kwabasetyhini kwiimeko zokukhulelwa zibizwa ngokuthe ngqo. Ukuba amanyathelo angathathwa ukuze azalise ukusilela kwayo, ke ibeka isoyiko lokuzalwa kwangaphambi kokuzalwa, kunye nokunciphisa ubunzima bentsana.