Kutheni ufuna iimpahla zezingane zoSuku loPhulo?
Iziganeko zinika abantwana ithuba lokuba bafunde kabanzi ngemfazwe. Iintlanganiso zamaqhawe zihlala zihleliwe, ezikuvumela ukuba ufunde ngaloo minyaka ukusuka emlonyeni wokuqala. Ootitshala bazama ukusebenzisana ngobuchule kwintlangano, ukwenzela ukuba abafana balahlekelwe ngumdla kwiziganeko. Ngokuqhelekileyo imibukiso yemiboniso yemisebenzi yokudala. Kwakhona iikhonkethi kunye neentendo ziza kubanjwa.
Ukuba abantwana balungiselela umdlalo kumcimbi womkhosi, abadlali abancinci ngaphandle kweengubo abanako ukwenza. Kodwa akufanelekile ukuzithengela kuphela abachaphazelekayo kwimveliso, kodwa bonke abafana. Kwakhona, nangayiphi na enye indlela yokwenza isiganeko, kuya kuba yinto efanelekileyo yokugqoka bonke abantwana kwiingubo. Umntwana ngamnye uya kuziva ukubandakanyeka kwakhe kwimeko, kwaye yonke into eyivile iya kubonwa ngokujulile.
Nazi iimbono ezimbalwa apho iingubo zezingane ngomhla we-Meyi 9 ziya kubaluleka:
- Ungalungiselela umncintiswano wengoma yeminyaka yemfazwe;
- ukwenza imveliso yokudada;
- ukubamba imicimbi yezemidlalo, ukhuphiswano, ukubuyisela imidyarho kwimidlalo yomkhosi;
- unokwenza ulungelelwano lokuthatyathwa kweentshaba, ukulondoloza abalimalayo;
- kuya kuba lunomdla ukuhamba kwikhenketho ekhokelwayo okanye nje ukuhamba, kudibene nencoko.
Yintoni enokuthi iingubo zokugcoba abantwana kwiSuku loNqoba ngoMeyi 9?
Ukuba uceba ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimveliso yonyango, loo mveliso iya kuqulunqwa yendima. Ukuba ngaba ootitshala banikezela wonke umntu ukuba eze kumcimbi kwiimpahla eziphathekayo, ngoko abazali kunye nomntwana kufuneka bazixazulule ngokuzimeleyo lo mbandela. Ngoku kukho izitolo ezininzi apho ungathengela i-suit okanye uyiqeshe. Abo boomama abanokuthunga izakhono banokugcoba iingubo zabo:
- Umfaniswano weSolomon. Le yindlela enhle kakhulu kubantwana banoma yiphina iminyaka. Kuqeshiso kunye nokuthengiswa kuvame ukukhethwa okukhulu kweengubo ezinjalo. Ukuba wenza iingubo zakho, unokwaluhlawula iingubo okanye iifutshane, i-T-shirt, i-caplet ukusuka kumbala wombala wekhaki. Le yindlela elula yokulungiselela ngokukhawuleza umcimbi. Kubafana abancinci, unako ukwenza iifutshane ezithandwayo, kwiidonsa ezidala. Ukuba akukho ixesha elininzi, i-T-shirt kufuneka ithengwe ngokufanelekileyo, inokukhenkiswa ngesicelo se-thermo kumxholo wempi. Ungakwazi kwakhona ukugubha ityhukhi.
- Sithuthi. Le ngcamango iphinda iqinisekise ukuba uyakholisa abantwana. Abafundi be-pre-school baya kufumana isambatho esine-cap, ama-short shorts, i-T-shirt kunye nekhola. Kungcono kubafundi besikolo ukulungiselela ibhulukwe kunye nekhati enekhola eqinile, kwaye unokongeza i-vest.
- Izambatho zamantombazana. Kwintombi yam, umama unokugubungela umfaniswano wejoni. Ingubo iya kubandakanya i-skirt-half sun and tunic. I-suit yomkhumbi iya kubonakala iyinto entle kwintombazana.
Sekufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba ukuba uceba ukwenza ngokudansa okanye abafana baya kuthatha inxaxheba kwimincintiswano yezemidlalo, kungcono ukwenza okanye ukuthenga izikhwama zempi kubantwana ngomhla we-Meyi 9, ukusika okulula, ngoko umntwana uya kuba yinto ekulungele ukuhamba.
Omnye akufanele azincitshe kwizinto ezahlukeneyo zokugqoka, njengoko ngamnye umama angakwazi ukubonisa ukucinga kwakhe. Kwakhona kunomdla ukulungiselela isitifiketi somongikazi, umqhubi we-omsakazo, umlawuli wamkhosi.
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